Dear Midlife

Dear Midlife Hi, I'm Trinity and I'm Shelby! So, come join us in the middle as, together, we start living life out loud!

And we are fierce, flawed, beautiful, authentic, adventurous women who are trying our damnedest to thrive in midlife - without the crisis!

🚨 ā€œIt takes 90 seconds to take your conscious mind to subconscious and for your nervous system to rewire and reset. 90 S...
17/03/2025

🚨 ā€œIt takes 90 seconds to take your conscious mind to subconscious and for your nervous system to rewire and reset. 90 SECONDS to shift your entire reality. But here’s the catch—you have to actually sit with yourself.ā€ 🚨

How often do we actually do that? How often do we pause long enough, reflect, dream, or process our emotions instead of enduring the endless hustle and distractions of life?

This week on Dear Midlife , we’re sitting down with the powerhouse Jaime Pallotolo—Energetic Master, Soul Activator, and Shamanic Healer—who is about to flip everything you think you know about success, manifestation, and breaking through your biggest blocks.

šŸ’„ Six-figure months?
šŸ’„ Viral TED Talks?
šŸ’„ NYT bestsellers?
šŸ’„ Calling in soulmate love and next-level abundance?

Jaime helps women do it all—without burnout, without over-sacrificing, and without playing small. Because let’s be real, wealth, success, and happiness should feel GOOD—not like punishment.

In this episode, we’re diving into:
šŸ”„ Why your hustle might actually be blocking your success
šŸ”„ How trauma (yes, even the ā€œsmallā€ stuff) keeps you stuck—and how to release it
šŸ”„ The secret to manifesting with ease, pleasure, and energetic alignment

If you’re done with the grind and ready to step into your most powerful, abundant self—this is the episode you’ve been waiting for.

šŸŽ§ Tune in NOW: https://linktr.ee/DearMidlife

Drop a šŸ”„ in the comments if you’re DONE playing small!

šŸ”„ Feeling Stuck, Burned Out & Wondering WTF is Next? Yeah… I'VE BEEN THERE.  Trapped in a soul-sucking job, clinging to ...
03/03/2025

šŸ”„ Feeling Stuck, Burned Out & Wondering WTF is Next? Yeah… I'VE BEEN THERE.

Trapped in a soul-sucking job, clinging to what felt ā€œsafeā€ even though it was draining the life out of me. Stuck in the muck—as today’s guest, Michael Gardon, calls it. Sound familiar?

Here’s the thing: Your identity isn’t set in stone. You have WAY more agency over who you are and where you're headed than you think. Mike walked away from corporate burnout, turned a side hustle into a million-dollar business, and built Advantage Mapping—a framework to help you break free from the grind and design a life you actually love.

šŸ’” Here’s what you’ll learn in this episode:
šŸ‘‰ Why your brain keeps you stuck in certainty (even when it sucks).
šŸ‘‰ How to stop asking ā€œWhat do I want to DO?ā€ and start asking ā€œHow do I want to FEEL?ā€
šŸ‘‰ Why building multiple paths forward is your secret weapon for success.

If you’ve ever thought, ā€œIs this really IT?ā€ā€”this episode is for you. šŸš€

šŸŽ§ Tune in NOW: https://linktr.ee/DearMidlife

For more of Michael:
šŸŒŽ Website | [michaelgardon.com](http://michaelgardon.com)
šŸ’¼ LinkedIn | [Michael Gardon](https://www.linkedin.com)

šŸ’„ And if you’re DONE feeling stuck… join us. We’re a tribe of like-minded women in midlife, here to build real connections, lift each other up, and create a future that excites us. šŸš€

We're launching a membership in 2Q 2025, and we want YOU to be a founding member. šŸŽ‰

šŸ“© DM me to get in on the action.

Ever have one of those New Year’s ā€œI’m gonna change my lifeā€ moments that fizzle into a big ol’ pile of ā€œmehā€ in just a ...
24/02/2025

Ever have one of those New Year’s ā€œI’m gonna change my lifeā€ moments that fizzle into a big ol’ pile of ā€œmehā€ in just a few days? Yeah, we've all been there. It’s time to cut the BS and start doing things differently. Meet Julie DeLucca-Collins—habit queen, mindset coach, and all-around unapologetic badass—who’s here to school us on why lasting change isn’t about doing more, but about starting ridiculously small. Forget the comparison game and perfection; Julie’s got the secret sauce: start with "Tiny Habits", celebrate those micro wins until your brain gets hooked on feeling awesome.

And hey, I’m speaking from experience. I’ve felt stuck too—questioning who I’m supposed to be—and I’m done waiting for ā€œsomeday.ā€ That’s why I’m launching a kickass membership for midlife women in Q2 2025 to connect, support, and empower each other. Want in on this fabulous friendship group? Hit me up by leaving a comment below or sending me a DM and follow my journey on Facebook and Instagram.

Ready to transform your life one tiny step at a time? Tune in to the show and get your dose of no-nonsense truth: https://linktr.ee/DearMidlife

Unleashing Happiness: Life Lessons We Can Learn from Dogs 🐾 Back in 2019, I did something wildly out of character. I got...
17/02/2025

Unleashing Happiness: Life Lessons We Can Learn from Dogs 🐾

Back in 2019, I did something wildly out of character. I got a dog. Me—the girl allergic to dogs, raised in a family of "absolutely-not-dog-people"—went out and adopted Oliver Van Winkle Ti**le. (Yes, that’s his real name. No, I have no regrets.)

Fast forward through chewed-up shoes, middle-of-the-night potty breaks, and a global pandemic, and guess what? This single mom who once swore she’d NEVER be a ā€œdog personā€ is now THAT dog person. Talking to strangers at the dog park? āœ”ļø Organizing doggy playdates? āœ”ļø Realizing my dog has a better social life than I do? BIG āœ”ļø

But here’s the kicker—Ollie didn’t just change my life. He taught me how to live it. Dogs have this insane ability to remind us of what really matters:

🐶 Stop obsessing over the past and future—joy lives in the now.
🐶 Lose your mind over the small things (yes, that first sip of coffee counts).
🐶 Find your pack—ditch the energy vampires, keep the joy boosters.
🐶 Play like your happiness depends on it—because, newsflash, it does.
🐶 Embrace the unexpected—sometimes, the best things in life aren’t what you were chasing.

And that brings me to today’s podcast guest: Michelle Waitzman, author of "Be as Happy as Your Dog: 16 Dog-Tested Ways to Be Happier Using Pawsitive Psychology." She’s here to spill all the kibble on why your Labrador might just be winning at life more than you are.

šŸŽ§ Listen now: https://linktr.ee/DearMidlife

AND…if you’ve ever felt stuck, unfulfilled, or just plain over it, we’re launching a membership in Q2 2025 to bring together badass women in midlife who are ready to build deeper connections (with humans, not just our furry friends). If you want in as a founding member, give a thumbs up to this social post.

Find us on Facebook & Instagram for all the updates. Let’s build something amazing—together. šŸ’›

"Stop 'shoulding' all over yourself!" šŸŽ¤ā¬‡ļø  You’ve checked all the boxes—career, family, responsibilities—but if you’re s...
11/02/2025

"Stop 'shoulding' all over yourself!" šŸŽ¤ā¬‡ļø

You’ve checked all the boxes—career, family, responsibilities—but if you’re still feeling stuck, like you’re playing small in your own damn life… it’s time to wake up. That voice in your head saying, ā€œWho am I to want more?ā€ is lying to you.

Today’s guest, Mindi Huebner, is here to help you rewire your brain, crush self-sabotage, and finally start owning your power. She’s spilling the tea on the 7 keys to achieving your desires, why mental rehearsal is your secret weapon, and how to stop letting your subconscious run the show.

šŸ”„ Ready to ditch the doubt and step into your next level? Listen in NOW: https://linktr.ee/DearMidlife

03/02/2025

šŸ”„ REAL TALK: Grief isn’t just about death. šŸ”„

It’s the loss of a relationship. The loss of a dream. The loss of your freaking identity. It’s that gut-punch when your kid leaves for college, the heartbreak of watching a friendship fade, or the free-fall after losing a job. And let’s be real… midlife is FULL of these moments. šŸ˜©šŸ’”

This week on the Dear Midlife podcast, we’re getting raw and real about grief in ALL its messy forms—the kind that sneaks up on you when you least expect it and leaves you questioning who the hell you even are.

I’m sitting down with Deb Day Coaching LLC, a powerhouse coach who rebuilt her life after losing her husband suddenly at 50. She’s here to show us how grief isn’t just about loss—it’s about REBIRTH. šŸŒ±šŸ’«

And girl, this convo hits PERSONALLY. I just lost my ex-husband—the father of my daughters. Our relationship was layered with love, laughter, and struggle, and his passing has rocked me in ways I never saw coming. I know I’m not alone in this… and neither are you.

šŸ’„ We’re talking:
āœ… How grief shows up in unexpected ways (and how to navigate it)
āœ… The sneaky triggers that knock you sideways when you least expect it
āœ… How to stop letting stress, burnout, and self-sabotage run the damn show
āœ… Why taking care of YOURSELF is the best way to honor what you've lost

You are stronger than you think. And on the other side of grief? There’s healing, growth, and a life filled with purpose.

šŸŽ§ Go listen NOW!** https://linktr.ee/DearMidlife. šŸ’•

Take advantage of Deb's TWO WEEK TRIAL of her Beyond Bereavement Mentorship program https://debdaycoaching.kartra.com/page/BeyondBereavementDM

🚨 Ladies, let’s talk real talk. 🚨  Ever found yourself bending over backward for a guy who clearly isn’t ready for you? ...
27/01/2025

🚨 Ladies, let’s talk real talk. 🚨

Ever found yourself bending over backward for a guy who clearly isn’t ready for you? Same. šŸ™‹ā€ā™€ļø I once dated a guy with 8 kids, two giant dogs, and a schedule that would exhaust the Energizer Bunny. Between late-night hangouts and playing doggy daycare, I was drained. Guess what? All that effort didn’t fix the fact that he was emotionally unavailable. Shocker, right? šŸ™„

Here’s the wild part: It wasn’t just him—it was ME. I had a thing for chaos. Growing up in a whirlwind household made dysfunction feel weirdly comforting. Throw in a past narcissistic relationship, and I spent YEARS hustling for love like my worth depended on it. Spoiler alert: IT DIDN’T.

Sound familiar? šŸŽÆ Different guy, same drama, right? It’s not bad luck—it’s the stories we carry. Until you rewrite them, you’ll keep attracting chaos in a different package.

Enter Soni Pelty, certified relationship coach and founder of Limitless Love with Soni—the badass guide you didn’t know you needed. šŸ’ƒ Soni reclaimed her power after an arranged marriage and proved that life (and love) begins when you stop settling.

In her latest podcast episode, Soni’s spilling the tea on:
✨ Loving YOU first (beyond bubble baths and wine).
✨ Letting men step up while leaning into your feminine energy.
✨ Why knowing your worth changes everything.
✨ Dating as a complement to your amazing life, not your full-time job.

šŸ”„ Ready to ditch the chaos and claim the soul-nourishing love you deserve?

šŸ‘‰ [LISTEN NOW] https://linktr.ee/DearMidlife and rewrite your love story today.

Need a tribe of badass women to lift you up? Find us on Instagram () or Facebook. You don’t have to do this alone! šŸ’–

🚨 "Hot flashes, brain fog, and night sweats, oh my!" 🚨  Ladies, let’s get real—midlife can feel like a chaotic, hormone-...
21/01/2025

🚨 "Hot flashes, brain fog, and night sweats, oh my!" 🚨
Ladies, let’s get real—midlife can feel like a chaotic, hormone-fueled carnival. But who says we have to just survive when we can absolutely thrive? šŸ’ƒ

Enter Louise Carr, Certified Holistic Nutrition Consultant and total badass when it comes to flipping menopause on its head! Louise is here to teach us how to ditch the struggle and embrace the glow-up era of midlife. ✨ From taming those hormonal rollercoasters with fiber-packed foods to unlocking the secret power of chickpeas (yes, really), Louise shares the tools you need to reclaim your energy, confidence, and health—WITHOUT the sad salads or the BS. šŸ„—šŸš«

This week on the pod, we’re breaking down:
šŸ”„ Why fiber is your secret weapon to managing menopause (spoiler alert: it kicks excess estrogen to the curb).
šŸ”„ How to detox your life (hint: start with your cleaning supplies šŸ‘€).
šŸ”„ Why midlife is the "perfect" time think about what to ADD to your diet, not what to restrict!

Ladies, it’s time to stop fearing menopause and start OWNING it. Let’s swap that hormone-induced panic for power, creativity, and some unapologetic swagger. šŸ‘‘

šŸŽ§ Don’t miss this episode with Louise Carr—your guide to thriving, not just surviving, in midlife! 🌟

šŸ‘‰ Listen now! https://linktr.ee/DearMidlife
šŸ’» www.louisecarrnutrition.com
šŸ“ø IG: .carr.nutrition

šŸ’¬ Tag your midlife squad and let’s show menopause who’s boss! šŸ’Ŗ

šŸ”„ You’ve survived every chapter of your story—now it’s time to OWN IT. šŸ”„This week on the podcast, we’re getting raw, rea...
13/01/2025

šŸ”„ You’ve survived every chapter of your story—now it’s time to OWN IT. šŸ”„

This week on the podcast, we’re getting raw, real, and ridiculously inspired with the unstoppable Bambi Lynn—a mama of SIX, grandma to THIRTEEN, and total badass who turned heartbreak, chaos, and cross-country moves into a powerhouse story of resilience. šŸ’„

Bambi didn’t just survive—she THRIVED. And she’s sharing how storytelling heals, why loneliness doesn't get the last word, and how sometimes you have to burn it all down to rise stronger.

šŸŽ™ļø Tune in for the truths you need to hear:
✨ Why your past doesn’t define you—it BUILDS you.
✨ Surround yourself with people who elevate you.
✨ Keep telling your story—because YOUR voice matters.

šŸ‘‰ Grab your coffee (or wine šŸ·ā€”no judgment) and hit play NOW: https://linktr.ee/DearMidlife

šŸ“² Tag your fierce friends who need this vibe today! Because midlife is better when we RISE together.

🚨 Midlife Crisis or Midlife AWAKENING? 🚨  Who says turning 40 has to be all balloons and boring speeches? Not Stephanie ...
06/01/2025

🚨 Midlife Crisis or Midlife AWAKENING? 🚨

Who says turning 40 has to be all balloons and boring speeches? Not Stephanie McLaughlin! When the big 4-0 hit, she ditched the party hats and dove headfirst into her "Forty Drinks Project" — 40 drinks, 40 people, 40 places. What started as a fun twist on reconnecting turned into a total life transformation.

The truth? Midlife isn't about losing yourself — it's about FINDING yourself again. Your intuition? Louder than ever. Those "shoulds" you've been following? Time to toss 'em.

Stephanie's sharing how trusting her instincts, reconnecting with her past, and redefining her future completely changed her life. šŸŽ™ļøšŸ”„

šŸ‘‰ Tune in to hear the juicy details, powerful truths, and why your next milestone birthday could be your biggest breakthrough yet!

šŸŽ§ Listen Now: https://linktr.ee/DearMidlife

🚨 Wonder why do you feel stuck in midlife? 🚨  Here’s the tea: It’s not just you. The cosmos has a role in this, and it’s...
31/12/2024

🚨 Wonder why do you feel stuck in midlife? 🚨

Here’s the tea: It’s not just you. The cosmos has a role in this, and it’s called Chiron's Return—a midlife wake-up call pulling your deepest wounds to the surface. Sound familiar? Don’t panic.

In this episode, we chat with Suzanne Ge**er, astrologer extraordinaire, who shows us how to flip the script, heal old wounds, and FINALLY step into the life (and love) you deserve. Think astrology is fluff? Think again—it’s your soul’s GPS, and Suzanne’s here to teach you how to use it.

šŸŽ§ Listen now: https://linktr.ee/DearMidlife

✨ Stop surviving and start thriving. Your midlife glow-up starts here.

🌸 **Mamas, it’s time to find your FLOW!** 🌸  Does motherhood have you feeling like you’re stuck on a hamster wheel? Jugg...
23/12/2024

🌸 **Mamas, it’s time to find your FLOW!** 🌸

Does motherhood have you feeling like you’re stuck on a hamster wheel? Juggling endless to-do lists, losing sight of the vibrant, joyful woman you once were? You’re not alone—and you *don’t* have to stay there.

In today’s episode of **Dear Midlife**, we sit down with the inspiring **Vanessa Wright**—writer, life coach, and creator of the transformative FLOW method. Vanessa shares practical, life-giving advice to help you:

✨ **Feed** your body, mind, and spirit
ā¤ļø **Love** yourself and this season of life
ā° **Own** your time and space
🌿 **W**d** out what’s not working (and welcome something new!)

šŸŽ§ Tune in now and take the first step toward rediscovering YOU. Hot baths and pedicures are great—but this episode? It’s the real self-care game-changer. šŸ’Ŗ

šŸ‘‰ Listen now at https://linktr.ee/DearMidlife
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