03/01/2022
A lady communicated that she has no interest in friend anymore simply because everybody around her spoke behind her back and she lost all confidence, I wanted to talk further but I realised that the angle of approach might do more harm than good. Weeks went by I kept on just buttering the angle of topics until she opens up.
I came to learn two things from her...1. Community can break your image with hearsays without proof...🤞
2. Less judgements can build a better Community.
Apparently this lady grew up in a broken home and she had to take care of her siblings, she sacrificed her own happiness denied herself so many things including opportunities abroad thinking who will take care of her siblings.
Years went by the 2 younger brothers grew up did well at school and made it to Varsity their first breakthrough they both married secured their families and businesses. The other one has a Law firm and the other is in Import and Export business.
Now she had her own kids a girl and a boy that has different father's, the first one lost her dad when she was 6 months, she tried by all means to bring her up in a good way few years later met someone who took care of her and her Mom further without any problems. Years went by the guy left without any fights or explanation, he stopped communicating just disappeared leaving her with their son, now remember 2kids different father's due to unforeseen circumstances. Things took a worse turn when she lost her car due to the pandemic lost her business as well. Restarting life asking help from the 2 brothers they both told her to ask the sisters in-laws they are not at liberty to just take from their investments and help her out without permission from their partners. 🤔She now uttered painful words such as I qoute 1...where your so called partners when I took care of your upbringing? The sacrifices I made for you is this a thank you I get from you?
2...If you do not want to help me do not hide behind your partners" TO BE CONTINUED...
