She Goes Blah

31/05/2025

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12/05/2025

Hurting her while she was already hurting... that’s where you truly failed....not just as a man, but as a human being.
She was already carrying more than she ever admitted. Silently fighting battles you never even noticed. She was struggling to hold herself together... questioning her worth, drowning in overthinking, stretched thin by life, and still choosing to show up for you. And in return? You became another wound.
When she needed comfort, you gave her confusion. When she needed closeness, you pulled away. When she needed to feel safe, you made her feel disposable. You didn’t see her pain....you added to it. You didn’t protect her....you became another reason she had to protect herself.
That’s where you failed.
Because being a man isn’t about saying the right things when it’s easy. It’s about standing up when she’s breaking down. It’s about showing up when she’s too tired to keep pretending everything’s fine. And you didn’t. You let her suffer in silence, and still expected her to pour into you.
One day, you’ll realize the kind of love she gave you wasn’t ordinary. It was selfless. It was rare. But by then... she’ll be gone. Not bitter, not broken... just healed. And finally loving herself the way you never did.

23/04/2025

1. Procrastination is not caused by laziness, it's actually caused by lack of ideas
2. Ingratitude is not caused by what was offered, it's caused by lack of contentment
3. Anger is not caused by what was said, it's caused by unresolved emotions
4. Pride is not caused by confidence, it's caused by insecurity
5. Failure is not caused by trying, it's caused by not learning from mistakes
6. Hatred is not caused by differences, it's caused by ignorance
7. Bitterness is not caused by people, it's caused by personal hurt
8. Envy is not caused by what others have, it's caused by lack of self-appreciation
9. Gossip is not caused by conversation, it's caused by idle minds
10. Disrespect is not caused by disagreement, it's caused by poor upbringing
11. Isolation is not caused by loneliness, it's caused by fear of rejection
12. Laziness is not caused by weakness, it's caused by lack of motivation
13. Distrust is not caused by others, it's caused by past betrayal
14. Regret is not caused by mistakes, it's caused by inaction
15. Overthinking is not caused by too much thought, it's caused by fear
16. Self-doubt is not caused by failure, it's caused by comparison
17. Arrogance is not caused by strength, it's caused by weakness masked with pride

18. Rebellion is not caused by courage, it's caused by lack of understanding
19. Complaining is not caused by problems, it's caused by a lack of gratitude
20. Tension is not caused by work, it's caused by poor time management
21. Anxiety is not caused by challenges, it's caused by lack of preparation
22. Greed is not caused by need, it's caused by lack of satisfaction
23. Misunderstanding is not caused by conflict, it's caused by lack of communication
24. Depression is not caused by sadness alone, it's caused by feeling alone in sadness
25. Criticism is not caused by care, it's caused by judgment
26. Arguing is not caused by opinion, it's caused by lack of respect for others' views
27. Confusion is not caused by information, it's caused by lack of direction
28. Fear is not caused by danger, it's caused by the unknown
29. Dishonesty is not caused by opportunity, it's caused by weak character
30. Neglect is not caused by busyness, it's caused by misplaced priorities

Understanding the true root of behaviors helps us treat causes, not symptoms. Life becomes better when we view things with a deeper sense of reflection. Heal from within, grow from understanding, and be intentional about becoming your best self.

10/04/2025

WTF

Books on the Holocaust, histories of feminism, civil rights and racism, and Maya Angelou’s famous autobiography, “I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings,” were among the nearly 400 volumes removed from the U.S. Naval Academy’s library this week after Defense Secretary Pete Hegseth’s office ordered the school to get rid of ones that promote diversity, equity and inclusion.

The Navy late Friday provided the list of 381 books that have been taken out of its library. The move marks another step in the Trump administration’s far-reaching effort to purge so-called DEI content from federal agencies, including policies, programs, online and social media postings and curriculum at schools.

In addition to Angelou’s award-winning tome, the list includes “Memorializing the Holocaust,” which deals with Holocaust memorials; “Half American,” about African Americans in World War II; “A Respectable Woman,” about the public roles of African American women in 19th century New York; and “Pursuing Trayvon Martin,” about the 2012 shooting of the Black 17-year-old in Florida that raised questions about racial profiling.

More: nbcnews.app.link/ff0nQyKnnSb

06/04/2025

06/04/2025

Code: ENJOY3

06/04/2025