25/03/2025
"I met a married man, & we've been dating for 2 yrs. Unfortunately, he lost his wife, & has promised to marry me.
He is actually 17 years older than me, though we have a huge age gap; he really looks younger than his age.. Despite being married, I never really had any worries coz he's always been a caring man. He even opened up a business & rented a house for me. I knew he was married all along, but I couldn't help but love him. he feels the same way about me.
He doesn't just listen to me, but he also makes sure I & my daughter lacks nothing. He was married for 10 years & had 2 kids with his late wife, 7-year-old boy & a 5-year-old girl
When he lost his wife about 10 months ago, I actually moved in. Now, we're preparing for our wedding coming September. The good thing is; my husband- accepts my 2-year-old daughter & loves her so much, these 2 share a strong bond. We've agreed that his children will live with his late wife's mother.
I actually open up to him I couldn't live under the same roof with another woman's children, which is very normal for every woman.And I'm glad that he understands. Naturally, everything has fallen into place, I'm afraid my daughter might not be able to bond well with her step dad as its going to seem like a competition with the other kids., i also honestly know i wouldn't treat them like a mother, its better to avoid temptation. Everything has fallen into place. I'm happy that I'm finally going to be his wife.
I'm excited to be marrying my dream man, Now why did i share my this, actually i want to use my story to advise my fellow young girls who are still single, that, life may bring us to different places that we didn't plan to be in, Being a side chick to a married man who us not happy in his marriage or whoever isn't really a bad thing as society paints it since, You never know where life will take you or who your soulmate will really be.
For instance, I think about what would have happened if I had turned this my husband down. Obviously, I wouldn't be as happy as I am now. I just wanted to share my story to make a point that many fail to understand today.
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