The Working Dad

04/05/2025

The best feeling in the world is knowing that your kid doesn’t want to leave.. the worst feeling is watching them leave 😭😭

03/05/2025

27/04/2025

Your ex is probably out there painting you as the villain to her new man—and he’s smiling like he just won big.
Two clowns, one circus.
🤡 🤡🎪e

25/04/2025

To the Dads Fighting Parental Alienation: You’re Not Alone
By The StepMama Hangout

April 25th marks Parental Alienation Awareness Day—a day that might hit a little too close to home for some of you. Not because you needed a date on the calendar to remind you, but because this is your everyday reality.

You’re not just a father. You’re a man trying to stay connected to your child while navigating a storm of manipulation, silence, or even lies. You’ve shown up at drop-offs, only to be met with cold shoulders. You’ve watched birthdays go by without a phone call. You’ve sat in courtrooms listening to distorted stories about your role as a dad. You’ve been painted as absent, when you were actually pushed out.

Let’s call it what it is: parental alienation is emotional abuse. Not just against you—but against your child. And while it’s not always easy to prove, the effects are real and devastating.

You are not crazy. You are not the villain. You are not alone.

Too often, dads are told to “man up” or “let it go.” But what do you do when your child is slowly taught to mistrust you, fear you, or resent you—when all you’ve ever wanted was to love them and be part of their life?

Here’s what I want you to remember today:
• Your child still needs you. Even if they’re distant right now. Even if they say things that hurt. Somewhere deep down, they remember who you are. Keep being consistent. Keep showing up. Even when it’s hard.
• It’s okay to grieve. You are grieving a living relationship, and that’s a unique kind of heartbreak. Give yourself permission to feel it. Anger. Sadness. Frustration. You’re human.
• Document everything. Every missed visit. Every hostile message. Every attempt you’ve made to maintain contact. You’re not being petty—you’re protecting your truth.
• Don’t let bitterness win. Yes, it would be easy to lash out. But your focus is your child. Keep your integrity. Keep your peace. Let your actions speak louder than their words.
• Build your support system. Whether it’s a therapist, a father’s rights group, or a close friend—talk about what you’re going through. You don’t have to carry this weight alone.

Parental alienation is a silent epidemic. And today, on Parental Alienation Awareness Day, we break the silence. Not for attention—but for justice. For healing. For our kids.

You matter, Dad.
Your love matters.
And no matter what they say or how hard they try to erase you—you are still your child’s father.

Keep fighting for that bond. One day, when they’re old enough to see clearly, they’ll know exactly who showed up—and who didn’t.

21/04/2025

The love of a Father is a profound and unwavering force that shapes the lives of those around him. It is a love that offers guidance and support, often expressed through small gestures and sacrifices. A father's love can be seen in the way he works tirelessly to provide for his family, often putting their needs above his own.

It is a protective love, standing as a shield against life’s challenges, always ready to lend a listening ear or a comforting embrace. This love is filled with lessons, teaching values of respect, responsibility, and resilience. A father’s words of wisdom, shared during quiet moments or amidst shared laughter, carry weight and meaning that resonate long after they are spoken.

Moreover, the love of a Father is not just about discipline and structure; it also embraces joy and adventure. It encourages exploration and creativity, fostering an environment where dreams can flourish. Whether it's coaching a little league team, reading bedtime stories, or embarking on spontaneous road trips, these shared experiences create lasting memories that bind a father and child together.

Ultimately, the love of a Father is a legacy, imprinted in the hearts of his children, guiding them as they navigate the world. It is a love that transcends time, remaining a source of strength and inspiration, long after they have grown. In it, they find not only comfort but also the courage to face their own challenges, knowing that they carry a piece of their father’s unwavering love within them always.

-WorkingDad

03/04/2025

Teach your kids that all feelings are valid, but not all behaviors are acceptable.

03/04/2025

Building a family and then becoming single is truly traumatizing.