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10/12/2025

Happy hump day, babies ā™„ļø

09/12/2025

While other kids are getting sun kissed, I got sun burnt šŸ”„life as Rethabile Lerato Mabalane is an adventure

December 6th, 2025Dear diary, it's Saturday and I'm home teaching my 5 year olds how to read while my peers are out havi...
06/12/2025

December 6th, 2025

Dear diary, it's Saturday and I'm home teaching my 5 year olds how to read while my peers are out having fun. I'm not complaining because I like being home but man, couldn't my kids be older so that I can chill with cool people. šŸ™„šŸ™„

Anyway, can someone tell Jesus I need wine🄺

Love, Retha_TheMom ( Rethabile Lerato Mabalane )

P.S Ask Jesus to make it Merlot and bring me dark chocolate please 😭

04/12/2025

December 4th, 2025

Dear diary, today I woke up and yelled "F**K THEM KIDS!" at the top of my lungs. Then went for a walk with Panda to cool off. Honestly, motherhood is just turning me into a crazy person 😭 anyway, lemme go get cuddles.

Love, Retha_TheMom ( Rethabile Lerato Mabalane )

P.S I know I should regret saying it, but f**k them kids 😭😭

Dear diary, I have a confident daughter. I let her help me with my outfits because she has the ability to get dressed, p...
03/12/2025

Dear diary,
I have a confident daughter. I let her help me with my outfits because she has the ability to get dressed, put on lipstick, throw on a wig and walk out the house without having even looked in the mirror.

That had me thinking, isn't that how we are meant to be with our faith? Wear the armor of God and walk out with the confidence that God is who He says He is. Walk out in faith and not wait for validation from the world.

We often feel as though what we have is what makes us when instead, they are meant to make us shine brighter. Through Panda, I see just why Jesus says the Kingdom of God is like little children. She is well positioned in her faith. She's confident in her God, which makes her confident in herself.

So today, I hope you see just how beautiful you are without needing to validate it. ā™„ļøHappy Wednesday.

Love,
Retha_TheMom ( Rethabile Lerato Mabalane )

03/12/2025

Dear diary, when are schools re-opening? I think I'm done being a mom 😭

Dear diary, Motherhood has made me wise
03/12/2025

Dear diary, Motherhood has made me wise

I used to think I was a bad mum for ending up in full-blown arguments with my five-year-old… until, mid-debate, she look...
29/11/2025

I used to think I was a bad mum for ending up in full-blown arguments with my five-year-old… until, mid-debate, she looked at me and said, ā€œWait, Rethabile… hear me first.ā€

In that moment I realised just how quickly I react instead of actually trying to resolve the situation. But it also showed me something beautiful: Panda hears me. She’s taking in more than I think. She understands why she’s being corrected, and I’m learning who she is and how her little mind works.

Don’t get me wrong—she’s still five. The tears, the tantrums, the dramatics worthy of a whole soapie… they’re all there. But even when she’s overwhelmed, she somehow manages to articulate herself so well. ā™„ļø

It’s kinda amazing watching her grow from a tiny crying blob into this brilliant, thoughtful little girl. Honestly… what a blessing

28/09/2025

Dear diary, Panda has a question

"Why am I born?"

09/07/2025

Dear diary, it's been wiiiiiiillllllllllddddd!!!!!!

He didn’t have to love her like his own… but he does.Today we celebrate bonus dads — the real superheroes in plain cloth...
15/06/2025

He didn’t have to love her like his own… but he does.
Today we celebrate bonus dads — the real superheroes in plain clothes.

Poloko, this one’s for you.
You were never ā€œjust a friend.ā€ You became family.

Panda’s first love.
Her God Daddy.
Her gift.

šŸ’« My First Love: Panda & Daddy Poloko — a children’s book dedicated to the love that steps in.
Coming soon. šŸ¾šŸ‘‘šŸ’›

šŸŒ™ Good evening, Kingdom Builders & Mini Disciples!Haha, I almost skipped this today. I mean, why share the Word when eve...
22/02/2025

šŸŒ™ Good evening, Kingdom Builders & Mini Disciples!

Haha, I almost skipped this today. I mean, why share the Word when everyone can read it themselves, right? šŸ˜… But then God reminded me—obedience isn’t just about not doing the things we think are ā€œbad.ā€ It’s about giving Him our hearts completely.

Obedience is showing up when you don’t feel like it. It’s choosing Him over comfort. It’s saying, ā€œLord, I’d rather scroll through my phone right now, but here I am.ā€ šŸ“–

Trust me, fighting the flesh is tough. The flesh will say, ā€œRelax, you can pray tomorrow.ā€ But Jesus? Jesus is like, ā€œNah, child, we pray NOW.ā€ šŸ˜‚ And honestly, I’m grateful because God never leaves us stranded—He gives us strength, peace, and most importantly, Jesus to help us stay focused.

So, today, let’s be obedient—not just in avoiding sin but in seeking Him, in resting in Him, and in trusting that our little acts of faithfulness matter more than we know. Yes, it’s okay to be tired. But let’s rest in God, not in disobedience.

I love you all. Sleep well knowing that God is working in you and through you! ā¤ļø

✨ Bible Verse:
"But be doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving yourselves." – James 1:22 (NKJV)

šŸ™ Prayer:
Heavenly Father, thank You for reminding us that obedience is more than just avoiding sin—it’s about giving You our hearts daily. Help us to choose You even when it’s hard, even when we’re tired, and even when the flesh tries to pull us away. Strengthen us to walk in faithfulness and remind us that our obedience is never in vain. We trust in You, and we rest in Your unfailing love. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Sleep peacefully, family! 😓✨

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