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26/09/2026

She has no idea how lucky she got. We’re coming up on one year since Bonnie appeared in our friend’s chicken coop. We’ll celebrate her birthday on September 30—the date her vet estimated, and my late grandmother’s birthday. 🥰

24/09/2026

I’ve been going through drafts I started when you were still here. I can’t bring myself to delete them, but finishing them without you feels wrong.

I’ll see you in the next lifetime. Love you, Gin. 🤍

22/09/2026

When Bonnie came to us at four weeks oId, I assumed that starting our relationship at the beginning would make that closeness automatic.

But Bonnie arrived while I was grieving and just trying to survive. I welcomed her into my home before I was fully ready to welcome her into my heart. By the time I came up for air, my kitten had grown up.

Maybe I would have done some things differently. Maybe being raised alongside two toddlers taught her some practical life skills. Or maybe Bonnie was always born to be wild.

The universe didn’t bring her to me when I asked for her; it brought her when I needed her most. And now I finally have the space to meet her where she is.

19/09/2026

And that day, a star was born.

19/09/2026

As we come up on a year since Ginny passed, I keep thinking about what that transition actually looked like.

Within a few short weeks, Bonnie arrived on our doorstep, Ginny entered hospice, and we said goodbye. Then we simply continued—with a kitten, a cat, a ten-month-old, a two-year-old and two jobs. Life kept moving, so we did too.

Looking back, I realize how much changed all at once. I wonder what that time felt like for BamBam.

17/09/2026

Three years later and I’m still looking.

16/09/2026

He has nowhere to be.

16/09/2026

Before Ginny was mine, she was Liz’s.

Liz rescued Ginny and for years, Ginny was her companion, and I truly believe Liz deserves much of the credit for the sweet, loving soul we all came to love.

When Liz passed away, she asked to be buried with the ashes of all the cats she had loved throughout her life. She asked me to love and care for Ginny. I did that—and now, in some small way, I just want to give her back.

When the cemetery denied my request, I realized I’m not entirely sure what feels right.

I don’t feel I need to keep Ginny’s ashes forever. I’m at peace with letting them go—I just want them to rest somewhere meaningful, respectful and legal.

So many of you understood this loss when I was going through it. If you’ve lost a pet you deeply loved, what did you do with their ashes? ❤️

15/09/2026

Bear with me while I post all my drafts before my new phone gets here 😅

14/09/2026

And I’d do it again. ❤️

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