27/04/2026
Insiders,
Just some thoughts that seemed worth sharing.
In the majority of situations we find ourselves in as “business people”, a key element is always preparation. It’s proactive (Stephen Covey’s first “habit”), and in many cases represents prevention (avoiding costly and time consuming mistakes/rework etc.).
My belief is that most (almost all I’d guess) serious business professionals want to “win”. Almost everybody loves to “win” almost anything! Winning can be complicated and so here’s some ideas on what expectations would help all of us “win” more often.
Salespeople- "we don’t want much, we just want more”
For “uppers”, give us the real $ numbers. Don’t pad them, don’t tell us what you think we want to hear, just be straight, and don’t lie about where I stand with you or the team!
For “team members”, help if you can. We’re all in this together! Emerson’s Law, “give to get”!
For “customers”, be kind. We are doing our best to respond to all your little “quirks”, contingencies, and lame corporate demands.
For “prospects”, please, please don’t “ghost” us! Nothing worse than an opportunity that isn’t but you don’t have the guts to tell us!
For “family”, it’s not as glamorous or as much fun selling as you sometimes think. Travel’s a bitch and customers/prospects can be a pain in the ass (see above).
For “friends & family”, don’t ask me to help find a job for a relative" I don’t have time and even if I do, it’s not something good for me to do.
Leaders- “there are limits to how much I can get away with, obfuscate, or put positive spin on”.
For “cohorts”, please don’t offer my help to others because “you are too busy”.
For “direct reports”, it’s the “Rolling Stones”, in that “you can’t aways get what you want”. And don’t bu****it me. Trust me I’ll do my best.
For “family and friends” no, I can’t get tickets or promotional “stuff” or time off whenever you tell a friend “my dad can”.
For “all”, no, I’m not the CEO (unless you are) and I have a real job with real challenges and responsibilities. I can’t always play golf when you can.
For “finance & accounting”, profit comes before possibilities is my mantra. Don’t ask me to make do with less so you make your numbers. If you help us with budgeting and forecasting, we’ll be there for you!
Anybody Else- "I’m already a ‘lifelong learner'. Please don’t try and offer well meaning advice”.
I’m always reading and trying to learn more to help anyone who needs it, but primarily me.
The more I can improve my performance the better I feel about me and the better I feel about me, the better everything else seems.
I have enough self imposed pressure, I don’t need more.
If you have read something of interest (book, white paper, article), please let me know (no book report, "just here’s something with merit").
Time is the most important asset I have, second only to my brain. I work very hard to preserve it, not just for my work but importantly, for my life balance. Please don’t waste it.
I’m aware enough to know that if and when I’m helping you, I’m happy to do it as believe it or not, I win when each and every one of you win. I’m always here for referrals and introductions if I can.
Right now, my team and I (Ashley Murray, Amy Valentine, John Thain, Pete Kinney, John Try, & Rick Feinblatt) are working on a new “Elite Leadership Development Program” that centers on the “best from the best” from authors such as Hill, Drucker, Welch, Covey, Gladwell, Lencioni, Clifton, Charan, Buckingham, Blount, Murphy and more. We’re all on “this Climb” together and we together can help each other win. Don’t forget the mantra from Ideo (one of the top product development companies in the world) “a high performing team can beat the lone genius every time”.
It’s mid April, the sun is shining, and it’s Monday. I’d suggest that all of us find a new ingredient to winning to add to the above lists. We will be doing a Podcast on “Winning” and would welcome you on the recording session, so give us your thoughts!
Don’t know about you, but take 7 minutes and listen to what “Keeps Me Running”!!
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