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ABOVE the FRAY Above the Fray is a weekly podcast where we share advice on parenting, marriage, and life.

We strive to help people live freely and lightly by living 'above the fray.'

God doesn’t oppose your desire for a happy marriage.If you’ve ever heard me say,“God doesn’t want you to be happy. He wa...
26/09/2025

God doesn’t oppose your desire for a happy marriage.

If you’ve ever heard me say,
“God doesn’t want you to be happy. He wants you to be holy”… Here’s what I mean: We can’t lead with pleasure.
We must seek God first. From there, everything else will be added.

📖 “But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.” — Matthew 6:33

💍If your marriage feels stuck in survival mode, or if you’re a wife longing for more than surface-level happiness…
I’d love to walk with you.

✨DM me “lifelong” and let’s start a conversation about covenant joy and spiritual renewal.

Today we lost a great man of God. Voddie was fearless in his preaching and defense of the Gospel. He pulled no punches a...
26/09/2025

Today we lost a great man of God.

Voddie was fearless in his preaching and defense of the Gospel. He pulled no punches and never apologized for the truth.

He was an outspoken advocate for the Biblical view of marriage.

"If you want to teach the world the love of God, become husband who loves his wife as Christ loves the church (Ephesians 5:25). If you want to teach the world how the church submits to the Lord, become a wife who submits to her husband (Ephesians 5:22-24)."
-Voddie Baucham

Join us in praying for Voddie's wife and kids. 🙏🏾

Well Done good and faithful servant.Voddie Baucham 1969-2025 He also said: “Sometimes God is glorified when sick saints ...
26/09/2025

Well Done good and faithful servant.
Voddie Baucham 1969-2025

He also said: “Sometimes God is glorified when sick saints get well. But more often than not, God is glorified when sick saints die well.”

So grateful for his impact for the Gospel worldwide🙏🏾

Your marriage is a battleground whether you want it to be or not. Whether you realize it or not.It’s God’s will that we...
24/09/2025

Your marriage is a battleground whether you want it to be or not. Whether you realize it or not.

It’s God’s will that we be tried and tested. But “he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it.” 1 Corinthians‬ ‭10‬:‭13‬ ‭

Resist. Know Satan’s tactics. But know who God is most of all.

“Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.” James‬ ‭4‬:‭7‬ ‭

❓What lie has tried to divide your marriage?

✨Comment “🙏🏾” below or DM for prayer + strategy.

Yes, we added a touch of humor to this post—but let’s be real: this is a big deal in most marriages.And while we used wo...
23/09/2025

Yes, we added a touch of humor to this post—but let’s be real: this is a big deal in most marriages.
And while we used women as the example, the attitudes apply to men too.

When your spouse shares an idea,
do you light up—or shut down?

Our responses either open the door to deeper connection,
or quietly close it.

Has your spouse stopped sharing their dreams, ideas, and excitement?
That’s not just a phase. That’s a warning.

Are you truly listening?
Truly hearing?
Truly excited?

Don’t be the one who crushes your spouse’s spirit.

Be the one who fans the flame.

Lead with love. It isn’t weakness. It’s choosing Jesus and His grace when you could choose resentment.It’s speaking life...
22/09/2025

Lead with love. It isn’t weakness. It’s
choosing Jesus and His grace when you could choose resentment.

It’s speaking life when you’d rather walk away permanently.
It’s becoming who God called you to be, even if your husband isn’t ready yet.

📖 “She opens her mouth with wisdom, and the teaching of kindness is on her tongue.” — Proverbs 31:26

📖 “Do not grow weary in doing good, for at the proper time you will reap a harvest if you do not give up.” — Galatians 6:9

You go first—but you don’t go alone.
DM me “Lifelong” to begin your journey. Your marriage is worth it.

💕Lead with love. It isn't weakness—it’s choosing grace when you could choose resentment.It’s speaking life when you’d ra...
22/09/2025

💕Lead with love. It isn't weakness—it’s
choosing grace when you could choose resentment.

It’s speaking life when you’d rather walk away.

It’s becoming who God called you to be, even if your husband isn’t ready yet.

📖 “She opens her mouth with wisdom, and the teaching of kindness is on her tongue.” — Proverbs 31:26

📖 “Do not grow weary in doing good, for at the proper time you will reap a harvest if you do not give up.” — Galatians 6:9

You go first—but you don’t go alone.
DM me “Lifelong” to begin your journey. Your marriage is worth it.

A message for husbands and wives from and even a message for the Church but I will paraphrase this one: Proclaim the g...
22/09/2025

A message for husbands and wives from and even a message for the Church but I will paraphrase this one: Proclaim the gospel truth boldly. The lost boys and girls of America need the hope found in Jesus not a watered down appeasement.

Husbands… she’s not invisible.She’s showing up—in the meals, the makeup, the mood of your home.Don’t miss the quiet ways...
21/09/2025

Husbands… she’s not invisible.

She’s showing up—in the meals, the makeup, the mood of your home.

Don’t miss the quiet ways she loves you.

Notice her.

Praise her.

Cherish her.

“Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her.”
—Proverbs 31:28

And if your marriage is struggling, we can help. DM us "Lifelong" to find out more.

Small acts of love build the strongest marriages.Everyday attitudes can save or ruin your marriage. Disrespect, selfishn...
20/09/2025

Small acts of love build the strongest marriages.

Everyday attitudes can save or ruin your marriage.

Disrespect, selfishness, or unchecked anger will slowly erode intimacy...

Grace, humility, and love can restore it.

Friends, If your marriage that needs help, do the next thing and DM us “Lifelong” so we can help you.

No more excuses... Do the next thing!

The small things you turn into rituals make the biggest difference. They don't require much time or money but in a BIG w...
20/09/2025

The small things you turn into rituals make the biggest difference. They don't require much time or money but in a BIG way, they show how much you care.

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