20/05/2026
As a pastor, I have the mixed privilege of watching godly Christians in our church endure prolonged and very difficult trials of very different sorts.
I called it a “mixed” privilege because I love their godly faithfulness and perseverance; but I grieve over the anguish it causes them in the present.
It’s the lot of many Christians in many places, isn’t it?
Why does it have to be so long?
And why does it have to be so *hard*?
The answer to that question is not academic to me. It calls to mind my own seven-year, Death Valley experience early in my Christian life. How often I want to give up!
To writhe under extended trials beyond human solution, waiting for God’s deliverance and not getting it, is a sore trial indeed. Where is this great faithfulness of which we sing?
An earnest cry of a Christian heart deserves an earnest answer. Cheap cliches won’t do.
Allow me to generalize for the sake of brevity and clarity, please. What I say is said in a spirit of deep sympathy, not cold indifference and certainly not rebuke.
I speak beyond the walls of TCC to whatever Christian this may reach.
Ultimately our Christian trials are designed to sanctify us. “He disciplines us for our good, so that we may share His holiness” (Hebrews 12:10).
They are not random difficulties. They are divine appointments with divine purpose.
Prolonged trials sanctify us by stripping us of our pride, self-sufficiency, and attachment to this world.
It humbles us to face trials that we cannot control.
Trials press home our helplessness.
Prolonged trials rob this world of its earlier appeal and make it seem much less like home.
We don’t realize how deeply those fleshly remnants of pride, self-sufficiency, and worldly attachment grip us.
But the Lord does.
And He measures the depth of the pain and the length of the trial to us in perfect proportion to what is necessary to break their prevailing power in our hearts.
In other words, He’s not being vindictive, unkind, or unfaithful. He hasn’t forgotten you. He is the perfect Physician of our souls. He knows the disease. He knows the cure. He applies it with unfailing accuracy.
Comfort delayed is not comfort denied. It just awaits the proper timing when the sanctifying work has been accomplished.
Beloved, of course it seems like too much right now.
Of course it seems too difficult.
If there were no pain, there would be no gain.
The more severe it seems, the more longer-term good He is accomplishing in your soul.
“All discipline for the moment seems not to be joyful, but sorrowful; yet to those who have been trained by it, afterwards it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness” (Hebrews 12:11).
The hands that bore the nails have not turned against you.
They’re now the hands of the potter, shaping your weak clay into a vessel fit for His future service, with a greater capacity for knowing Christ and ministering effectively to His saints in the future, and ultimately better equipped for eternal fellowship with Him where transgression, trials, and tears shall be no more.
Yes, your days are long and sore, my brother or sister in Christ.
Did I say days? I meant months, nay, for some, even years. They are long. They are sore.
But there’s something better below the surface.
They are noble. They have eternal value.
Your persevering, barely-surviving struggle in the night is not in vain.
The Lord has appointed precisely this to accomplish precisely that.
Patience, then, dear one, even under your heavy and pressing load.
Trust the One who bore your sin at Calvary to bear your soul safely home.
“The LORD knows the way of the righteous” (Psalm 1:6).
~Pastor Don