05/07/2023
Music sensation Sista Afia reveals a side of her life that many people don't realize: the betrayal of a lover that shaped her view of love.
Sista Afia revealed candidly on
Adom TV's 'Okusek' show co-starring Emelia Broby that she wanted to embrace her youthful vitality and explore love to the fullest, but that was the innocent and wrong person. She said it led to her dating.
Her first red flag was that her partner was having a child with another woman, but Sista Afia, blinded by her love, said she was doomed. She said she accepted and continued her relationship.
She is shattered when she discovers that what she thought was her unconditional love, her lover married another woman while they were still together.
She withheld some of the details of her ordeal, but admitted she was shocked because she didn't expect her longtime lover to be so ruthless.
“Eventually I let go and found happiness because sometimes when a partner is carrying certain negative emotions God reveals them early on. "I felt blessed. It was a learning point for me in future relationships. I will tell potential partners what I have been through so that they do not repeat such acts." she said.
At the time, her future was so uncertain that her lover expressed the idea that she didn't see her own worth, saying, "I'm here now, and he doesn't want me to come here." I don't think I've ever seen a ," She added.
Sista open-minded approach to her love life, based on her own personal experience.
Hard-earned, she understands that lower expectations lead to fewer disappointments. She advised women to prepare and be strong so that, even in the worst case, they would not be trapped in the past and live with pride.
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