13/10/2026
Today is shipping day! Iâve learned a little about the North Dakota rancherâs story while spending time in the state over the last few weeks. Theirs is the story of new beginnings, hope, hard work, struggle and, if all goes well, a chance to do it all again, one year after another.
This is a chicken vs the egg scenario. Calves are born in early spring, after their heifers survive a long, cold winter feeding on hay that has hopefully grown abundantly the summer before. The hard work of branding and providing veterinary care for each calf makes the spring a busy season.
As summer nears, cow/calf pairs spend the time grazing in fields that, at their best, remain green into the early fall. Thereâs relative rest in the summer, moving cows occasionally from one pasture to another to let the grass grow back in between.
Summer turns to fall, calves are fattening up and itâs nearly time to cull the herd. The calves approach a certain target weight as autumn sets in and the sun begins to pass at lesser angles day by day. Winter is on its way, but these calves wonât spend it here.
This is where weâve entered the story, taking a snapshot of what life is like before the cycle repeats itself, on this ranch for the hundredth time or so.
Today is shipping day. We spent the last few days helping to drive the herd closer to the corral, riding horseback for hours across the hilly pastures, gathering each cow in fields adjacent to the holding pens.
By sunrise, the cows are moved close and pinned in such a way the calves can be separated, shipped out to be weighed and moved to the feeding farms where theyâll gain enough weight to, well, youâve likely eaten a steak before.
Back home, the family celebrates. Beers are cracked now that the work is done, for now. Calculations are scratched on paper, to see how the last year shaped up and what fortunes or struggles the next season may bring.
The check from the buyer will be mailed soon and a new budget will be made, always hopeful, but adjusting conservatively on the chance that next year might be a bit more challenging. Prayers for rain begin now. More rain than last year. Rain is never a bad thing on these subtle North Dakota hills.
Soon, winter will set in again and work will pick up in feeding the cows that remain. God-willing, none are lost. Snow and frigid temperatures may claim a cow or two. God-willing, all will survive and be prepared to give birth again as the chance of snow recedes and the sun rises and sets at steeper angles in the spring.
Thus the cycle repeats itself, again, on this ranch for the hundredth and one time or so.
Thereâs more to the story Iâll never know, how this cycle feels year after year for a family that works hard, really hard, to keep their dream alive.
Contrary to popular television depictions, itâs not a glamorous life and it doesnât pay as well as one might think when they see the miles and miles of pasture land and think that one person might own it.
âI see myself as a steward,â one rancher told me. âThis land will be here long after Iâm gone and I feel itâs my duty to take care of it, to raise enough cattle to make a decent life for my family and to hand it down when Iâm gone.â
A rancherâs dream, to one day break the cycle of wondering how much rain will fall and how much their calves will weigh on shipping day. A ranchers dream, to one day hand their land down to their son or daughter and find rest at the break of dawn on a day they donât have to put their boots on, saddle up and ride out after the herd.
I keep thinking I have what it takes to do a lot of what Iâve seen during my 44 years of life. Iâm a jack of all trades, more suited to adapt to new environments than to commit to one way of living.
I know I could never be a rancher. Or a farmer. Not after what Iâve seen during my time in North Dakota.
But ranchers, well, theyâve taught me that Iâve got to have reason enough within me to get up in days Iâd rather sleep in, to accept that almost everything will not go the way I want it to, but that the work will still need to be done and nobody else will do it if I donât.
As I search for that reason within, I see it reflected in my brides eyes, the reason I do anything at all. To build a better life, one day at a time, and to love with all my heart. To love my wife and family, the work that lies before me and to be open to loving everyone with whom I come to know.
My story may not be that of a rancherâs life. But what Iâve learned encourages me to hunker down when times get tough, to look forward with hope and optimism for the season ahead and, above all, to work hard and give everything Iâve got because there is never a guarantee of what will remain for me if I donât.
Today is shipping day. Tomorrow, ranchers find rest before they do it all again.