20/04/2023
Men take every little thing seriously when they're in love with you. You'll notice that they want to try to do everything for you, even when you know that what they want to do for you is beyond their financial capacity.
You'll notice that he won't be comfortable with any man (even your brother) helping out with money. He would want to prove to you that he's able and capable. He would want to prove to you that he alone, by himself, is enough for you.
If you're hurt, you'll see in his eyes that he's hurt too. He'll be jealous, a bit overprotective, sweet, and homely. He'll act sometimes like a baby. He'll beg for forgiveness irrespective of who's at fault, he'll pamper you, play with you, rack jokes, make time to call you no matter how busy or tight his schedule is, he'll flatter you with words and make you understand, through his actions (NOT JUST HIS WORDS) that without you, he's incomplete.
This is true love.
Any man who continually hurts you doesn't love you.
Any man who's not making efforts to do whatever it takes to make you happy does not love you.
Any man who becomes a vulture whenever you refuse to indulge in s*x does not care about your feelings and state of mind. How can a person who doesn't care, love?
I have not said he won't want to have s*x with you. I have not said he won't make moves.
What I am saying is, if you say NO, he'll respect your wish and wear a cheerful face afterward. You can always talk and do other fun things.
Love is not s*x and s*x is not love. Don't let anyone confuse you.
I can't teach you how to leave a person who doesn't love you - because that is entirely up to you.
But I can show you many signs of genuine love because I can recognize genuine love from a thousand miles away.