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Beloved, unity in the church matters. It echoes the glory of God and the gospel story. Every time you choose to lean int...
21/11/2025

Beloved, unity in the church matters. It echoes the glory of God and the gospel story. Every time you choose to lean into the beauty of community—to be known and know, to love and be loved, to forgive and seek forgiveness—the good news of Jesus Christ being sent down from heaven to die on a cross for sinners is proclaimed.

However, so often our relationships (and comment sections) tell a different story. Instead of proclaiming a story where redemption and restoration are possible, they tell one where bitterness and division are normative. Instead of practicing the gospel of mercy, we hold tightly to practices of canceling.

Yes. There are glaring issues in the church we MUST address.

But beloved, what does it look like to “be eager to maintain the unity of peace?”

What does it look like to pursue thoughtful dialogue with those open to listening, OR to graciously agree to disagree with those who are not, without dehumanizing them?

What does it look like to exhibit the fruit of the Spirit in our relationships, persevering in love, gentleness, and kindness with those still growing in emotional and spiritual maturity?
What does it look like to stay long enough to have the hard conversation when the person isn’t toxic or abusive, but simply human?

What does it look like to forgive?

It looks like the gospel.

Beloved, live out the gospel story.

For unity in the church is the greatest apologetic for the gospel.

Selah.

A T L A N T A ! L E T’S T A L K! Meet me  on December 5th at 7 pm for a live conversation about forgiveness, and bring y...
18/11/2025

A T L A N T A ! L E T’S T A L K!

Meet me on December 5th at 7 pm for a live conversation about forgiveness, and bring your questions and a friend.

Book signing and hangs after! 🥳

All for free.99.

Link in bio.

04/11/2025

Issa Launch Day! 🥳🥳🥳

I wrote the first 2,000 words of Living Beyond Offense on December 7th, 2023 and immediately became aware that I was in over my head. I couldn't see how God would get me to today, November 4th, 2026. But He did it! And I am grateful for all the lessons He taught me about writing, friendship, rest, leadership, perseverance, and what it looks like to trust Him day by day, word by word.

Living Beyond Offense is in world and I pray that God would use it to change it by not just launching a book, but a movement of shalom-makers into the world! 🙏🏾

We out here! 😬😅😆🥳😭🙌🏾

There’s so much to say and so many people to thank, but for now all I got is this:I have the best friends. They truly ar...
02/11/2025

There’s so much to say and so many people to thank, but for now all I got is this:

I have the best friends. They truly are exceptional.

, you are incredible. Thank you for making sure this celebration happen and for just being a true friend.

, thank you for creating a beautiful space on stage. Your taste and your friendship is top-notch.

, thank you for moderating this conversation with such ease and grace. You are one of the most talented and godly people I know.

, thank you for capturing all the moments so beautifully.

My heart is so full. I’m really in awe of all that God has done and is doing to launch this book out into the world.

Living Beyond Offense: Doing the Hard Work of Forgiveness God’s Word Way launches Nov. 4th 🚀

30/10/2025

Can’t make the Living Beyond Offense Book Launch Party but still want to hear the origin story of the book and all the things God did in my heart during the process?!

Bet! We got you!

Pre-order the book today, click the “Pre-Order Bonuses” link in my bio, scroll down to the bottom of the page, and input you confirmation number to get immediate access to this behind-the-scenes-stuff-that-I-didn’t-share-on-anyone’s-podcast conversation and to hear how Netta and I lived beyond offense. 🤗

✨ You’re invited! ✨Friends, we’re just 12 days away from the release of my new book, Living Beyond Offense: Doing the Ha...
23/10/2025

✨ You’re invited! ✨

Friends, we’re just 12 days away from the release of my new book, Living Beyond Offense: Doing the Hard Work of Forgiveness God’s Way, and I can’t wait to celebrate with you! 🤗

This book is my best effort to put into words what God has taught (and is still teaching) me about forgiveness. My prayer is that God would use it to heal and free hearts and restore broken relationships.

Join me on Saturday, November 1, at 4 PM (doors open at 3:30 PM) in Raleigh, NC, for a FREE book launch party! 🎉

My friend , author of Toxic Church, will join me for an honest conversation about the heart behind the book and the hard but holy journey of forgiveness. We’ll also spend time in prayer, asking God to use this book to bring shalom to broken relationships and draw hearts closer to Him.

We will have drinks and cupcakes by to enjoy, and a book signing! Gon’ and pull up on us! I’d love to hug your neck and thank you in person.

The event is FREE but we will have books available for purchase. Link in bio.

Let’s celebrate what God can do when we choose forgiveness. 🥳

Forgiveness is a group project. Like all of Jesus’ commands, we often need the encouragement and accountability of other...
10/10/2025

Forgiveness is a group project. Like all of Jesus’ commands, we often need the encouragement and accountability of others to do the hard work of forgiveness.

Because I’ve personally experienced the gift of others walking alongside me as I’ve sought to forgive, I wanted to celebrate Living Beyond Offense by creating a space for people to journey together through this hard but holy work.

How to join:

1️⃣ Preorder your copy of Living Beyond Offense
2️⃣ Submit your preorder info at livingbeyondoffense.com to get your official invite (link in bio)

What you’ll get:

📖 Early digital access to Living Beyond Offense
💬 Weekly live teaching with me
💞 Meaningful group discussion to help you live free from offense

✨ We start next week — space is limited!

Head to livingbeyondoffense.com to preorder your copy and claim your spot.

Let’s find the shalom of Jesus together — one page, one conversation, one act of forgiveness at a time.

What’s SO GOOD about this photo isn’t that we’re both authors, cute, and coordinated, but that we are two sister who did...
06/10/2025

What’s SO GOOD about this photo isn’t that we’re both authors, cute, and coordinated, but that we are two sister who did the hard work of living beyond offense.

, thank you for forgiving me when I was wrong and waiting for me to see it, confess it, and repent. When I was wrong and burnt out, you walked me through so many of the principles in your book “Toxic Church: How to Recognize and Overcome Burnout.” When I woke up and got healthier, you were there to start again.

I love you, friend. Had so much fun recording the backstory behind Living Beyond Offense with you. Thanks for asking thoughtful questions and lending your wisdom to the conversation.

Pre-order your copy of LBO today to get exclusive access to this conversation.

S/O to for their kindness and professionalism. 10/10 recommendation 👌🏾

Unmet expectations are often the cause of offense. But sin is often not the cause of unmet expectations. Instead, weakne...
01/09/2025

Unmet expectations are often the cause of offense. But sin is often not the cause of unmet expectations. Instead, weaknesses, bad days, personality differences, a traumatic past, or a chaotic present are the cause.

Now, they may still need to grow, heal, and be more considerate, but sometimes, they just ain’t got it, and it would be in your best interest and the best interest of the relationship for you to stop looking for it.

Grieve. Forgive. Adjust. Pivot.

However, grieving doesn’t mean you give up on them. Love hopes all things (1 Cor. 13:7).

Forgiving doesn’t mean you ignore. Still hold that joka accountable.

Adjusting your expectations with them doesn’t mean you adjust your expectations with everybody. There are people in this world who are worthy of your trust.

Pivoting doesn’t mean you cancel. It means you accept them as they are, where they are. Their personality will not change, and while they may be being sanctified, they are not perfect. Accept them as they are, where they are in their maturation process, and enjoy what’s relationally possible.

This, beloved, is how we live beyond offense.

Who in your life is falling short but likely doing the very best they can? What would it look like for you to grieve, forgive, adjust, and pivot without condemning or canceling them?

Selah

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