
06/04/2025
Growing up, I often heard people discuss certain sins as being especially "bad" or "serious," while others were dismissed as "small" or "insignificant." Whether they realized it or not, people tended to rank sins, assigning them varying levels of severity. As a result, those who committed what were seen as "big" sins were often looked down upon, while "small" sins were brushed off or overlooked entirely. However, reading the Bible clarifies that God doesn't sort sins into categories like we do. To God, sin is simply sin. In fact, some of the very things God considers detestable are the ones we often view as normal or minor.
Take, for example, the list of things God hates. Would you consider a prideful attitude something God despises? What about stirring up conflict among people? Surprisingly, these are exactly the kinds of things God names as detestable. Proverbs 6:16–19 says, "There are six things the Lord hates, seven that are detestable to him: haughty eyes, a lying tongue, hands that shed innocent blood, a heart that devises wicked schemes, feet that are quick to rush into evil, a false witness who pours out lies, and a person who stirs up conflict in the community."
Seven things God hates!
Marcus was a well-respected man, admired for his charm and generosity. Outwardly, he was successful, and many looked up to him. But beneath his polished exterior was a heart filled with pride, deceit, and greed.
One afternoon, while looking out over the countryside from his office, Marcus's assistant entered hesitantly.
"Sir, about the expansion project—do you remember there's a community living in that area? If we move forward, they'll be forced to relocate."
Marcus barely looked at her. "And?"
"Well… some of them have nowhere else to go," she said softly.
Marcus smirked. "That's not my problem. We proceed."
That evening, at a charity event, Marcus was all smiles—shaking hands, making generous pledges, and playing the part of a benevolent leader. But it was all a performance, carefully constructed to maintain his public image.
A few days later, his accountant, Peter, approached him with concern.
"Marcus, the financial reports—something doesn't add up. Are we falsifying numbers to attract investors?"
Marcus leaned back in his chair. "Let me give you some advice, Peter—don't ask questions you don't want answers to."
Peter's expression darkened. "You're lying to them. That's fraud."
Marcus chuckled. "I prefer the term' strategic persuasion.' If you're uncomfortable, I'm sure I can find someone more flexible."
That night, Marcus met with a lawyer known for bending the truth as easily as Marcus did.
"I need a favor," Marcus said. "Peter's asking too many questions. If this gets out of hand, I'll need someone to...adjust the story."
The lawyer smiled knowingly. "Consider it handled."
Weeks passed, and Marcus's deceit continued unchecked. Then he learned that a former friend, Daniel, had launched a competing business. The idea of losing influence irked him, so he called in a favor from a media contact.
"I've got a story for you," Marcus said. "Daniel's been involved in some shady stuff."
It was a complete fabrication, but Marcus knew public opinion could be easily swayed. Within days, Daniel's reputation was in tatters.
At a corporate event, they crossed paths. Marcus approached him with a false smile.
"Tough break, Daniel. If you're looking for a job, I might have a position."
Daniel's eyes burned with silent fury, knowing exactly who had sabotaged him. Marcus only smiled, pleased with his manipulation.
One morning, an emergency board meeting was called. Marcus's assistant stood before the group, her voice trembling.
"We need to address the safety concerns about the new project."
Marcus rolled his eyes. "This again?"
A senior board member added, "Sir if we move forward, there's a serious risk of structural failure. People could be injured."
Marcus scoffed. "This deal is worth millions. Do you really think anyone cares about possible dangers? We move forward."
The room fell silent. Fear had built Marcus an empire—one where speaking up came at too high a cost. But Marcus's carefully crafted world was about to fall apart. Heartbreaking tragedy struck—a building from his expansion collapsed, injuring multiple workers. The story exploded across the media. Investigations exposed his fraudulent practices. Investors pulled out. News outlets flooded his office, demanding answers.
And one by one, the people Marcus had wronged stepped forward. Peter, the accountant, testified. Daniel, the slandered friend, brought forward evidence. His assistant revealed the truth about the unethical decisions that had long been hidden. The board abandoned him. His legal team quit. Marcus was arrested, facing charges of fraud, endangerment, and perjury.
Sitting alone in a prison cell, Marcus finally saw what he had become. His haughty eyes, deceitful words, and wicked schemes had led to ruin. He had shed innocent blood, spread lies, and caused division—everything that God detests.
Stripped of power and prestige, Marcus was left with nothing but the weight of his sins.
Marcus's story is a sobering reminder of how pride, dishonesty, and selfish ambition can destroy not only our lives but the lives of others. But before we judge him too quickly, we must ask ourselves how we compare to Marcus.
Have we ever told a lie, even a small one, to avoid consequences or make ourselves look better? Have we ever spoken negatively about someone, whether in gossip or out of jealousy, knowing it could harm their reputation? Have we ignored situations where people were mistreated because it was easier to stay silent? Have we ever acted selfishly, prioritizing personal gain over what is right?
Proverbs 6:16–19 isn't just a warning for "some people." It's a mirror for us all. Pride, lies, gossip, and division may seem like small sins to us, but they separate us from God's truth and love.
What can we do?
• Examine Our Hearts – Ask God to reveal any of these behaviors in us. Psalm 139:23–24 says, "Search me, O God, and know my heart… see if there is any offensive way in me."
• Repent and Seek Forgiveness – If we recognize these patterns in ourselves, we must confess them and ask for God's help to change (1 John 1:9).
• Speak Truth and Act with Integrity – We're called to stand up for truth, even when it's difficult or uncomfortable. Proverbs 12:22 says, “Lying lips are abomination to the Lord: but they that deal truly are his delight.” Proverbs 10:9 says, “He that walketh uprightly walketh surely: but he that perverteth his ways shall be known.”
• Use Our Influence for Good – Unlike Marcus, we can use our voice and power to uplift, protect, and serve others, especially the vulnerable. I Peter 4:10 says, “As every man hath received the gift, even so minister the same one to another, as good stewards of the manifold grace of God.” Proverbs 31:9 says, “Open thy mouth, judge righteously, and plead the cause of the poor and needy.”
• Pray for Ourselves and Others – When we see these destructive behaviors in others, let's respond not with condemnation but with prayer that God will open their hearts and lead them to repentance. “I exhort therefore, that, first of all, supplications, prayers, intercessions, and giving of thanks, be made for all men” (I Tim 2:1).
Marcus's story ends in tragedy, but our stories don't have to. God's grace invites us to turn around, confront the sin in our lives, and live in a way that reflects His righteousness.
Prayer
Lord Jesus, help us see sin the way You see it. Give us hearts that are sensitive to the things You detest. Help us remove pride and deceit. Help us to desire to please You, LORD. Help us to want to remove whatever You view as detestable from our lives. And when we see others caught in these patterns, give us compassion—not to judge but to pray. May our lives reflect Your truth and light, and may we walk daily in Your grace. Amen.