
06/05/2024
When Arnold Schwarzenegger decided to become a movie star, Hollywood rejected him.
For over 3 years, he couldn't get a part that fit.
So he grew his real estate business first.
This way, he could afford not to take any "s**t jobs" Hollywood threw at him.
If a script didn't align with his goals, it's "hasta la vista, baby".
But we know how this story goes.
Arnold goes on to knock one goal after another, racking up wins enough for 3 lifetimes.
Now, you may not be Arnold, but here's what makes you similar.
When pursuing a goal, especially one so tough that rushing straight at it could take everything out of you, you may need to make what I call "strategic sidesteps".
For example...
If your goal is to become an entrepreneur, you may have to work for someone else until you save enough money to start your own operation.
If your dream is to become an actress, you may have to work tables at a bar so you can afford to keep auditioning until you get the right part.
If your goal is to become an author, you may have to make money as a content marketer or copywriter first.
These are reasonable compromises, as long as they serve your ideal end.
But the danger starts when you "side step" too long and forget your WHY.
Imagine.
What if Arnold stuck to his real estate business and forgot about his movie star dreams? We wouldn't have The Terminator.
What if JK Rowling stayed in her desk job and forgot the Wizarding World? No Harry Potter.
What if you stayed too long in your "job that pays the bills" and forgot the WHY that compelled you to get a job in the first place?
That's why the passage below from Nicolas Cole's book, The Art of Digital Writing is so relatable.
Even when he found a promising job as an ad agency copywriter, he knew exactly what he wanted and didn't get distracted from it.
It's a timely reminder about sticking to your WHY, even when the side quest starts to get juicy. đ
Now the next question is... how do you know when to pivot and when to stay the course? đ¤