
02/08/2024
Consumed in Chaos
'If you grew up around alcoholism, gambling, chemical dependency, drug use, s*x addiction, etc., you may be codependent. You had no control over the situation but you wanted control, so the behaviors of others became the focus of your life. You are used to living in chaos, so you feel unfulfilled when things are calm. Therefore, you subconsciously seek relationships that show signs of chaos. You spend your whole life trying to fix and control people because that is what you are used to.