16/08/2025
“You just want someone to take care of you and that’s not my job” - You’re damn right I want someone to take care of me. I want someone that puts me first, has my back, chooses me in every situation, cares about my mental health, gives a s**t if I’ve eaten, had water, and gotten a good night sleep. I want someone that wakes up grateful for me and goes to bed excited that I am choosing him again each and every day. When we say we want to be taken care of that is what we mean. Some of you didnt have the honor of knowing Jamie (pictured). This man had no money and nothing to his name except a motorcycle and an ENORMOUS amount of ADORATION for me. He would have given his life to save mine or the kids and I may never find that again but I have SEEN FIRST HAND what loving someone looks like and I won’t settle for less than that. When I say princess treatment I mean I want to feel like you’re whole world - not that I need your paycheck deposited into my account because TRUST ME if there is anyone who doesn’t need that it is me. So don’t come at me with your red flag nonsense as if I’m the problem for being transparent that I am high maintenance and require ridiculous amounts of attention because I’m not trying to waste your time or mine. You want to give nothing and get everything and I call that LAZY. Show up, protect, connect.
Jamie worked on rooftops in the heat of summer for $13 an hour and after a 14 hour day he still made me a priority. He made me his world and I gave him mine. So, you are barking up the wrong tree if you think that I’m going to jump at a set of abs or nice car.
Whatever has happened in the dating world is crushing to experience so I’m just going to leave this here for anyone else dumb enough to slip into my DMs with nonsense about me being a gold digger. Read the room. I walked away from money and then I walked away from good looks. Why? Because it’s not enough. Go to therapy, read a relationship book, then try dating. Until then, stay out of my fu***ng DMs.
Jamie
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