09/05/2025
Tomorrow is ten years since I last saw my Daddy. As I scroll through photos, examining every aspect of what I see, hoping to spark a special memory followed by a smile, I cannot help but recognize the dull loss of hope in his eyes when viewing more recent pictures. While I realize that may sound horrible to some, those fortunate enough to know this great man of men should understand what I mean. My Daddy always had a special twinkle in his eye and a certain crook in his smile. With those features he held the ability to make anyone feel like the greatest, most important person in the world. Confidence never an issue, he was by far one of the most intelligent people I have ever known. Though he often appeared a rough tough man, he possessed a great heart full of love and wisdom which he was always willing to share. Don’t get me wrong though he was still a rough tough man. I cannot think of a person that has ever met him that did not respect him. He was a teacher to many, a friend to many, he was a great role model, a self starter, a great man! There is not a day that goes by he doesn’t cross my mind! I fight to stay strong when memories spark up, and because of my Daddy I can. He taught me strength and bravery, to fight and be proud but modest and kind, to love my family and live to be happy careless of consequence be it opinion or setback. He taught me to fight, to fight for me and what I love, but he made sure to teach the difference in the right fight and the wrong fight. When to be the bigger man. My Daddy was an amazing man! My Daddy was and still is one of my greatest heroes. He taught me to settle things and take care of business to be clear on my stand. Live without regret, be a child at heart but don’t be a child. Sometimes if I think very very hard of the moment I see my Daddy again the excitement I feel is so overwhelming and strong and my happiness is so great that my eyes flood with tears of joy, but only for a brief moment.