12/12/2025
If you're sitting in a circle of fellow MFA worksh*tters today, don't let 'em smear their grimy fingerprints all over your drafts. Or kiss your ass 'cuz that's what everybody else does for everybody else. Losers who can only think about publishing valueless book after valueless book, ad nauseum. That does NOT mean remain "frozen" to your work. Be teachable; read on your own, you can teach yourself without the peanut gallery. This is the very evil "seed" of the homogenous sound of contemporary poetry. Don't look at your professor as some kind of false god. Maybe the only reason they're getting published is because of editors who are cronies or former classmates in the same kind of jail you find yourself in. Trust me. I know. I read their work for over 25 years. Have very, very healthy boundaries for yourself. Respect yourself and your HP-given gifts. Discipline. Discipline. Discipline. And write ONLY when absolutely necessary.--AND! Order yourself (writer or not) a used copy of MELODY BEATTIE's "CODEPENDENT NO MORE" and get yourself a "Get Out of Jail For Free" Card for nickels.