DON KINGS

05/07/2025

11/03/2025

16 Signs You're Dealing with a Weak Man

1. 𝐇𝐞 𝐩𝐮𝐭𝐬 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐭 𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐝𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐦: He entertains himself into stagnation and neglects the hard work that builds a better future.

2. 𝐇𝐞 𝐡𝐚𝐬 𝐧𝐨 𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐡𝐞 𝐚𝐝𝐦𝐢𝐫𝐞𝐬 & 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐧𝐬 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦: He does not have anyone, dead or alive, remotely or closely, that he admires, emulates or learns from. Consequently, no one is emulating or learning from him.

3. 𝐇𝐞 𝐢𝐬 𝐞𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲 𝐮𝐧𝐚𝐯𝐚𝐢𝐥𝐚𝐛𝐥𝐞: He avoids deep connections because he fears the weight of other people's burdens.

4. 𝐇𝐞 𝐚𝐯𝐨𝐢𝐝𝐬 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐟𝐥𝐢𝐜𝐭: He pretends issues don’t exist and refuses to address them head-on.

5. 𝐇𝐞 𝐥𝐚𝐜𝐤𝐬 𝐈𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐠𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐲: He bends his values to fit in because he fears standing alone.

6. 𝐇𝐞 𝐚𝐯𝐨𝐢𝐝𝐬 𝐑𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐢𝐛𝐢𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐲: He neglects his duties and leaves others to clean up his mess.

7. 𝐇𝐞 𝐜𝐚𝐧𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐛𝐞 𝐚𝐥𝐨𝐧𝐞: Solitude bores him because he has not learned to face himself in the quiet chambers of the soul where strong men shape their visions.

8. 𝐇𝐞 𝐪𝐮𝐢𝐭𝐬 𝐚𝐟𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐬𝐞𝐭𝐛𝐚𝐜𝐤𝐬: He crumbles at small failures, and his fragile self-worth keeps him from serious accomplishments.

9. 𝐇𝐞 𝐚𝐯𝐨𝐢𝐝𝐬 𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐝𝐞𝐜𝐢𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬: He lets things fall apart rather than making firm decisions that have consequences.

10. 𝐇𝐞 𝐢𝐬 𝐣𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐨𝐮𝐬 𝐨𝐟 𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐬’ 𝐬𝐮𝐜𝐜𝐞𝐬𝐬: He withdraws or fails to celebrate the wins of others.

11. 𝐇𝐞 𝐚𝐯𝐨𝐢𝐝𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐮𝐧𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰𝐧: He won't take a step if he is unable to control an outcome. He forgets that sometimes a man must take a step even when he does not see where his foot lands.

12. 𝐇𝐞 𝐟𝐨𝐥𝐥𝐨𝐰𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐜𝐮𝐥𝐭𝐮𝐫𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐥𝐲𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐦𝐨𝐧 𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐬𝐞: For instance, he refuses to serve his woman when necessary and does not perform tasks that are traditionally female roles.

13. 𝐇𝐞 𝐯𝐚𝐥𝐮𝐞𝐬 𝐫𝐞𝐩𝐮𝐭𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐞𝐫: He performs goodness for applause; for instance, he would do good publicly that he had no genuine intention of doing.

14. 𝐇𝐞 𝐬𝐞𝐫𝐯𝐞𝐬 𝐨𝐧𝐥𝐲 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐢𝐬 𝐦𝐨𝐧𝐞𝐲: He has not learned how to serve without being paid. Consequently, he misses great opportunities and experiences because they don’t come with remuneration.

15. 𝐇𝐞 𝐝𝐨𝐞𝐬 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭 𝐚𝐮𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐲 𝐟𝐢𝐠𝐮𝐫𝐞𝐬: He disrespects his employers, managers, the police, and parents.

16. 𝐇𝐞 𝐫𝐞𝐟𝐮𝐬𝐞𝐬 𝐫𝐞𝐩𝐫𝐢𝐦𝐚𝐧𝐝𝐬: He does not accept reprimands for poor performance, misconduct, or policy violations. He always kicks.

𝘚𝘩𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘰𝘶𝘨𝘩𝘵𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘮𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘴. 𝘐 𝘸𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘥 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦 𝘵𝘰 𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘮.
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05/03/2025

03/03/2025

𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐎𝐍𝐄 𝐨𝐟 𝐎𝐍𝐄!

You might have heard that no two people have the same fingerprints. That includes identical twins, which is puzzling.

If identical twins share the same DNA data, 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐝𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐢𝐫 𝐮𝐧𝐢𝐪𝐮𝐞 𝐟𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐞𝐫𝐩𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐬 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦?

Ancient Jewish thought (Kabbalah) provides helpful insight. According to the tradition, 𝐟𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐞𝐫𝐩𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐬𝐨𝐮𝐥 𝐩𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐬—a spiritual signature that maps each person’s unique path in life.

This tradition explains that fingerprints encode the work a person is meant to do in the world.

The fingerprint is on the hand because it symbolizes creativity and action.

Just as no two fingerprints are identical, 𝐧𝐨 𝐭𝐰𝐨 𝐬𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐬 𝐬𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐚𝐦𝐞 𝐦𝐢𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧. Christian thought holds that God uniquely forms each soul with a distinct role: "𝘉𝘦𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘦 𝘐 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘦𝘥 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘸𝘰𝘮𝘣, 𝘐 𝘬𝘯𝘦𝘸 𝘺𝘰𝘶" (Jeremiah 1:5).

Out of billions, only you think like you, see the world like you, and possess your specific talents.

Your uniqueness wasn’t an accident.

𝐇𝐄𝐑𝐄'𝐒 𝐖𝐇𝐀𝐓 𝐘𝐎𝐔 𝐍𝐄𝐄𝐃 𝐓𝐎 𝐃𝐎…
Step out and do the work only you can do.
Let the world experience your creativity, ideas, and the impact only you can offer.

As I said in a previous post, you weren’t made to blend in.

𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐰𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐦𝐚𝐝𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐨𝐮𝐭.

01/03/2025

Don’t you love to be respected for who you are, rather than what you have?

I assume you've experienced unequal treatment before, based on what 𝐖𝐀𝐒 known or 𝐍𝐎𝐓 known about you.

In some workplaces as well as in social media interactions…

🚫 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶’𝘳𝘦 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘴𝘶𝘤𝘤𝘦𝘴𝘴𝘧𝘶𝘭 𝘺𝘦𝘵, 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘥𝘰𝘯’𝘵 𝘤𝘰𝘶𝘯𝘵.
🚫 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶’𝘳𝘦 𝘯𝘦𝘸, 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘥𝘰𝘯’𝘵 𝘥𝘦𝘴𝘦𝘳𝘷𝘦 𝘵𝘰 𝘣𝘦 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘥.
🚫 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘥𝘰𝘯’𝘵 𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘦 𝘢 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘤𝘬 𝘳𝘦𝘤𝘰𝘳𝘥, 𝘺𝘰𝘶’𝘳𝘦 𝘪𝘯𝘷𝘪𝘴𝘪𝘣𝘭𝘦.

That is unfortunate.

When people interact this way, the true losers aren’t those who go unseen and unheard, but those who choose to ignore them.

It's OK to be admired for our accomplishments, but it is a red flag to be treated very differently from others due to what we have achieved.

The right thing is to show up for others before they’ve "proven" anything to us.

NOT ranking people, but recognizing their humanity first.

Everyone, despite their accomplishments, deserves to be…

• 𝐆𝐞𝐧𝐮𝐢𝐧𝐞𝐥𝐲 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞𝐥𝐲 𝐥𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐨.
• 𝐑𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐞𝐝 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐢𝐫 𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞, 𝐬𝐩𝐚𝐜𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐛𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐞𝐟𝐬.

People will give their best, trust more, and think bigger when respected.

This pays off in valuable relationships…

Children who are respected will be more willing to obey.

Partners who respect each other will be more committed.

Employees who are respected will contribute more.

If people set a boundary, let's honor it. If they say “no,” let's not push.

This is a winning strategy and a growth opportunity for leaders.

What do you think? Have you ever caught yourself holding back respect until someone “earned” it?

27/02/2025

We often assume that where someone is today is where they will always be.

That is a mistaken assumption. Time 𝐩𝐚𝐬𝐬𝐞𝐬, circumstances 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐞, and so do people's situations.

▪️ Someone may be losing while they're quietly figuring out how to win.

▪️ Someone may be drowning in debt while they are strategizing a financial comeback.

▪️ Someone may be overlooked today, and tomorrow they rise to seats of authority.

The facts of what we see don’t always translate to a definitive outcome.

If you dismiss someone because they’re “𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐲𝐞𝐭," you're making a mistake.

Also, don't take it to heart if anyone dismisses you for not having arrived.

One's current situation is just a chapter, not the whole story. That is why we shouldn't rush to a conclusion based on the “𝐍𝐎𝐖.”

I have made it a habit not to allow people's opinions about my “𝐧𝐨𝐰” to dictate my “𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐫.”

Time, effort, and patience can make a huge difference, so concluding based on the present can be misleading.

𝑺𝒉𝒂𝒓𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒕𝒉𝒐𝒖𝒈𝒉𝒕𝒔 𝒊𝒏 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒔; 𝑰’𝒅 𝒔𝒐 𝒍𝒐𝒗𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒅 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒎.

25/02/2025

A butterfly flaps its wings in Africa, and the effect causes a tornado in Japan!

That is a metaphor for how small, insignificant actions can create huge and unpredictable consequences in one’s life and the world.

If you are patient to read this post to the end, you will 𝐒𝐓𝐎𝐏 taking little acts for granted.

The Christian faith shows that no action is too small to matter.

So when a widow offered two small coins, God's heart was moved.

A kind word, a moment of patience, or a quiet act of obedience. They all matter to God.

Small moments can determine the course of a career, relationship, business, and life.

I had an experience when I was a student in Jos, Nigeria.

I met a stranger who had just arrived in our community to do a project. He seemed to be struggling to adapt to the culture.

All I did was offer him a warm handshake laced with the kindness of heart to genuinely know how he was coping.

This stranger later became a great friend, and only two years later, he surprised my wife and me with the gift of a lovely car.

You will agree that the following seem little, yet they can have a great effect on our lives…

• 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐞𝐦𝐚𝐢𝐥 𝐰𝐞 𝐡𝐞𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐝.
• 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐝𝐬𝐡𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐰𝐞 𝐚𝐥𝐦𝐨𝐬𝐭 𝐢𝐠𝐧𝐨𝐫𝐞𝐝.
• 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐛𝐨𝐨𝐤 𝐰𝐞 𝐫𝐚𝐧𝐝𝐨𝐦𝐥𝐲 𝐩𝐢𝐜𝐤𝐞𝐝 𝐮𝐩.
• 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐞𝐫 𝐰𝐞 𝐜𝐡𝐨𝐬𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐡𝐞𝐥𝐩 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐰𝐢𝐜𝐞.

𝘚𝘰, 𝘩𝘰𝘸 𝘸𝘦 𝘢𝘱𝘱𝘳𝘰𝘢𝘤𝘩 𝘮𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘴 𝘮𝘢𝘵𝘵𝘦𝘳𝘴.

I would love to know about any “butterfly flaps” in your life.

What small decisions or moments of negligible actions have led to unexpected growth in your life?

Let’s chat in the comments about the hidden, transformative power of little things.

18/02/2025

I DON'T believe in "𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐞𝐚𝐫 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐠𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐬"—the idea that we can always move forward steadily, tick off goals one by one and win all through.

I don't know any honest person who would say their growth was linear.

Linear growth—the idea that progress should be steady and upward—is embedded in Western Enlightenment and capitalist thinking.

Africans and Asians believe in a rhythm of life where 𝐠𝐫𝐨𝐰𝐭𝐡 𝐡𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐞𝐧𝐬 𝐢𝐧 𝐜𝐲𝐜𝐥𝐞𝐬 that include setbacks. It is not a fixed and stagnant cycle, but an expanding one.

Knowing that life happens in cycles will help you stay patient, hopeful, and resilient in difficult times.

This worldview was partly the source of the sustaining resilience in the history of African Americans.

Nigerians are also well known for their resilience.

This worldview might explain the World Economic Forum's report that the world's happiest young people live in 𝐈𝐧𝐝𝐨𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐢𝐚 (90%), 𝐍𝐢𝐠𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐚 (78%) and 𝐈𝐧𝐝𝐢𝐚 (72%), while happiness levels are much lower among Western youth.

The idea that nature does not rush is an enriching way of viewing life. The seasons don’t try to speed up, so summer will come faster.

Growth and personal development shouldn’t 𝐛𝐞 𝐫𝐮𝐬𝐡𝐞𝐝, too.

Any honest reflection on our lives will reveal that challenging moments helped us develop deeper roots, like trees.

Without our being aware, those were the REAL moments of our growth.

The Bible shows us a similar pattern in the lives of its heroes. 𝐀𝐛𝐫𝐚𝐡𝐚𝐦 waited 25 years for the promised son, 𝐉𝐨𝐬𝐞𝐩𝐡 endured years of setbacks before his rise to power, and 𝐃𝐚𝐯𝐢𝐝 was anointed king long before he had access to the throne.

These stories teach that delays and setbacks are preparation and character development moments.

If you’re in a moment where nothing seems to be happening, remember these:

▪️Stay 𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐝𝐮𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐝𝐫𝐲 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐪𝐮𝐢𝐞𝐭 𝐦𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐬, the cycle will go around.

▪️ The journey is not only 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐟𝐢𝐧𝐢𝐬𝐡 𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐞. What becomes of you during the journey equally matters.

▪️ Make it a habit to acknowledge invisible progress because 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐞 𝐟𝐢𝐫𝐬𝐭 𝐡𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐞𝐧𝐬 𝐛𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐡 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐮𝐫𝐟𝐚𝐜𝐞.

What does “invisible progress” look like in your life? Let’s talk about the hidden growth we often overlook.

16/02/2025

Not everyone deserves a second chance. But SOME do. Let’s talk…

Someone lied about you. Took advantage of you. Broke your trust.

Now, you’re saying: "𝘕𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳 𝘢𝘨𝘢𝘪𝘯. 𝘕𝘰 𝘴𝘦𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘥 𝘤𝘩𝘢𝘯𝘤𝘦."

Self-protection is important. Expecting people to change could be risky.

A lot of people 𝐝𝐨𝐧’𝐭 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐞. They repeat patterns. They justify their actions by their own logic.

Even worse, they take you for granted because you keep showing grace.

While that is so, 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐩𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐞.

Life knocks some people down, and they wake up at rock bottom, and become different.

Some decide to learn, grow, and show up better the second time.

If you shut out every second chance, you might miss the right people.

You may want to consider these as a way forward:

▪ 𝐅𝐨𝐫𝐠𝐢𝐯𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬 ≠ 𝐚𝐜𝐜𝐞𝐬𝐬. You can let go of anger without letting them back in.
▪ 𝐏𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐧𝐬 𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐦𝐢𝐬𝐞𝐬. Words are cheap. Pay attention to consistent actions.
▪ 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐝𝐚𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐢𝐛𝐢𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐲. Set them. Keep them. Enforce them.

Protect yourself, but don’t be so closed off that you block the good things that some people could be to you.

Use your judgment. Not everyone deserves another shot. But some do… they are the ones who make it all worth it.

What do you think? Are second chances worth it?

13/02/2025

There’s a saying: “𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐝𝐨𝐧’𝐭 𝐠𝐞𝐭 𝐚 𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐨𝐧𝐠 𝐟𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐝𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐛𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐠𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐝.”

It’s a saying about life.

In software design, if an app feels easy, it’s because developers worked hard on the back end.

They call it 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐧𝐭-𝐞𝐧𝐝 𝐬𝐢𝐦𝐩𝐥𝐢𝐜𝐢𝐭𝐲, 𝐛𝐚𝐜𝐤-𝐞𝐧𝐝 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐩𝐥𝐞𝐱𝐢𝐭𝐲. It can be the other way round.

A young person may choose to struggle early, refine their skills, and make life easier later.

The other way round is to take it easy now and face difficulties later.

I remember my undergraduate training, which was one of the hardest training experiences of my life.

We were trained to think deeply, interrogate assumptions, and structure thoughts. The training pushed our mental limits.

One day, I told a friend that I was overwhelmed. His response was remarkable:

"𝘋𝘰 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘦𝘹𝘱𝘦𝘤𝘵 𝘵𝘰 𝘣𝘶𝘪𝘭𝘥 𝘢 𝘨𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘵 𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘦 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘺 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘪𝘯𝘪𝘯𝘨?"

That response helped me appreciate the experience.

Today, I am grateful for the mind I developed as a result of that training.

Anything that makes the future easier requires sacrifice and effort today.

What feels like suffering today is likely what your future self will be grateful for.

If you want a future where decisions feel effortless and life flows smoothly, embrace the complexity it demands.

𝐒𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐞𝐟𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐭s 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐥𝐦 𝐲𝐨𝐮, 𝐛𝐮𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐮𝐥𝐭𝐬 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐟𝐫𝐞𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮.
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11/02/2025

Fitting in won’t get you ahead anymore—here’s why being different is the way to go today.

Social conformity was once a good way to get ahead when societies valued uniformity and tradition. Those days are gone!

Today's world values innovation and creativity, so people who differentiate themselves are the ones who stand out.

𝐁𝐄 𝐃𝐈𝐅𝐅𝐄𝐑𝐄𝐍𝐓. 𝐄𝐌𝐁𝐎𝐃𝐘 𝐂𝐎𝐍𝐓𝐑𝐀𝐒𝐓.

Contrast is important because we learn by comparing things.

Contrast helps us know what is 𝐛𝐢𝐠 relative to what is 𝐬𝐦𝐚𝐥𝐥, and what is 𝐫𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 as opposed to what is 𝐰𝐫𝐨𝐧𝐠.

The environment naturally hides anything that blends in.

While blending in is not bad in itself, it can get so bad that it stifles originality and innovation. That is where people tragically lose themselves to groupthink.

Anyone who fears contrast—who resists being an anomaly, who hesitates to stand out—eventually fades into the background.

This is why you should find your own way and have the courage to do what others won’t do.

And let me add that finding your own way is not difficult. It begins with being comfortable with who you are and accepting what makes you unique.

𝐒𝐭𝐚𝐲 𝐛𝐨𝐥𝐝, 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐲 𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞, 𝐛𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮!

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