25/04/2026
Today was spent cleaning the final details of my house to get it ready for the market. I'm so glad that item is finally checked off my todo list. The delay/excuse was because I got married and pregnant.
It has been 4 months since I gave birth and it was my goal to sell the house so I didn't have an extra mortgage. I didn't want to rent it out because the risk of a renter was more than paying the mortgage. Hindsight, it was probably the same cost but it’s better to not have to deal with a renter at this point of my life. My baby has my full attention.
The past few visits to take care of my house and get things done out of town were possible because of my mother in law (MIL), known as baby’s Puj. I'm so glad my baby isn't picky and I'm beyond grateful her grandparents love her more than I can imagine. The first time (or the only times) I had a deep sleep was when her Puj took care of her. These photos were taken by her and she looooves taking photos of baby too.
As one door closes soon, another opens. I’m just one MN State exam from getting my realtor license in MN. I’m excited for that and potentially other opportunities. The ideas are endless; ask my husband lol.
I’ve been enjoying my time here mostly with pickleball, lol. Check out the reels on my personal page. I love pb and being a content creator for it as well. Who knows if I am capturing a future Hmong PB pro. My job here has also been great. I will go back on May 18th to see how things are; if I can balance work and mom life. There’s a couple major life events happening with my personal family that I’m excited for; baby sister X’s graduation.
I feel like there were so many fires (fights? Lmfaoo) that was just burning and they’re finally getting put out.
Tonight (and other times too), I’m grateful for my husband + baby, family, in laws, my broker ExP Realtor + mentor, meeting new people mainly from the PB community lol, my job/boss, MN paid leave, our little home (+ paid off cars :P that’s insured biannually and registered lol), and so much more. There is so much to be grateful for and I believe that’s how I always have “more.” My cup is full because that’s what I choose to see. Don’t worry, some days, it’s empty too.
Once this house sells, I’m going to find something else to occupy its’ spot in my head lol. Thanks for being here. I hope things are going well where you are. If you’re going through something, feel free to send me a message and I’d love to read it. Sometimes we just need to write it to get it off our minds.