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The School of Becoming Your capacity to trust is directly influenced by your relationship with failure.
💝Our new free audio series, Courage to Fail, is our gift to you.🔗⬇️

24/10/2025

The jig is up. 💥

You're not confused. 🤯
You're not lazy. 😩
And you're definitely not not ready.

You're just used to shrinking.

Because somewhere along the way, your nervous system learned that being big… was dangerous. ⚡️

So even though you dream big, plan big, and want more…
You bail. You freeze. You fawn. You overthink.

You draft the post, but never hit publish. 💬
You get ready to raise your rates, but lower them at the last minute. 💸
You're about to make the offer for the new hire, then you second-guess. 🤔
You schedule time for rest, but overlook yourself anyway. 🕯️

You're not stuck — and there is no problem.
You're in a loop. 🔁

A pattern that’s not your fault…
But it is your responsibility to break. 💪🏼

✨ The Choice Method ✨ is how.

Not with more mindset work or another morning routine —
but with a real-time, body-led solution that helps you stop defaulting to fear and finally choose from the woman you’re becoming. 🌹

It only takes an hour to learn.
And it’ll change every part of your life and business.

Your next level isn’t out there.
It’s one choice away. 💫 The Choice Method is open for enrollment - use EDGE at checkout to get a 20% off tuition credit! Link in Bio.

23/10/2025

I adore this woman.
My friend, a peer, a mentor—Kelly Roach is one of the most brilliant, heart-led leaders I know.⁣
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So when she invited me onto The Kelly Roach Show, I knew it would be a soul-stirring, truth-telling, no-surface-conversation. The kind of conversation worth having and worth listening to.
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We talked about what actually drives your results.
We explored how your nervous system plays a bigger role in your success than you’ve ever been taught.
We dove into the role that awe and appreciation has in success.
Why consistency isn’t a discipline issue—it’s an identity and safety issue.
⁣And we talk about The Choice Method®—my signature framework that helps women stop self-abandoning in the micro-moments, and start making aligned, future-self decisions in real time
You cannot afford to miss this episode.
This episode is going to feel like both a wake-up call and a warm hug.
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Grab your headphones and let's roll! You're welcome.
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Kelly —thank you for the space, the brilliance, and the sisterhood. Always.

TONIGHT is The Growth Edge MasterclassGrowth isn’t a phase. It’s a constant.You are always evolving.Always playing in th...
23/10/2025

TONIGHT is The Growth Edge Masterclass
Growth isn’t a phase. It’s a constant.
You are always evolving.
Always playing in the unknown.

And at every level… there’s an edge.
That moment between:
⚡️ The vision and the ex*****on
⚡️ Who you are and who you're becoming
⚡️ Knowing what to do… and actually doing it

That gap?
It's where momentum dies.
Not because you're not capable.
But because no one taught you how to move through it.

Until now.

🧠 Nervous system meets strategy.
🔥 Framework meets real-time resistance.
💫 Tonight, I’m teaching the exact tools founders use to build the internal capacity that scales everything.

This should be required curriculum for every founder, at every level.
Grab your spot. Then invite your team + peers.

Oct 23 | 7–8:30 PM ET - 🎥 48-hour replay
LINK IN BIO - LET'S GO!

22/10/2025

You’re not stuck. 🚫
Stuck isn’t real.
It’s a story—a nervous system safety trap designed to keep you small and in the familiar.

What’s actually happening?
You’re standing at a Growth Edge—the moment before you:
→ Raise your rates
→ Post the truth
→ Fire the team member
→ Pivot
→ Speak the hard thing
→ Finally claim your authority

And your body screams 🛑 STOP.
Not because you’re stuck—because it perceives growth as a threat.

This is predictable. It’s biology.
And it’s the reason you’ve been circling the same edge for way too long.

The women who move?
They’ve learned to work with their nervous systems—in the moment—to cross the threshold.

That’s what I’m teaching you:
🧠 How to recognize the edge
🧘‍♀️ How to regulate in real time
🚀 How to move through it with strategy + grace

The Growth Edge | Free Masterclass
October 23 | 7–8:30 PM ET
Link in Bio. Grab your free spot now.

There’s a specific moment I watch for when I’m working with a client. ✨It’s the moment right before the breakthrough. 💡S...
21/10/2025

There’s a specific moment I watch for when I’m working with a client. ✨
It’s the moment right before the breakthrough. 💡

She’ll say something like:
“I know I need to do this, but…” 😬
“It makes total sense, and yet…” 🤔
“I can see exactly what needs to happen, however…”

That pause? That’s The Growth Edge. ⚡️
It’s the moment her vision bumps up against her current capacity —
the moment the woman she is meets the woman she’s becoming.

And in that moment, everything in her body wants to retreat.
Not because she’s broken. 💔
Not because she’s not ready. ⏳
Not because she needs another strategy, another certification, another year of preparation.

But because growth requires her to step into the unknown. 🌊
And the unknown feels vulnerable. 💭

Here’s what I’ve learned after guiding hundreds of women through their edges:
The women who build extraordinary businesses aren’t the ones without fear.
They’re the ones who’ve learned to recognize the edge, honor what’s happening in their body, and move anyway. 💪🏼

They understand that:
→ You cannot grow your impact faster than you grow yourself
→ You cannot grow your legacy faster than you grow yourself
→ You cannot grow your revenue faster than you grow yourself

Every edge is an invitation.
Every moment of resistance is information.
Every pause before the leap is sacred.

The question is: do you know how to move through it? 💭

That’s exactly what I’m teaching in The Growth Edge Masterclass.
Join me at 7–8:30 PM ET 💫 Link in bio. And invite your teams and peers.
Free | Live + Q&A 🎙️

P.S. If you just felt resistance reading this — that little voice that said “I should register but…” 👀
Notice that. That’s an edge too. 😉

Today, I spent the day pouring into these powerhouse leaders.We went deep. We went high.We awakened. We processed. We re...
21/10/2025

Today, I spent the day pouring into these powerhouse leaders.

We went deep. We went high.
We awakened. We processed. We released. We created.

They allowed themselves to be fully seen and fully heard.
Every single woman showed up full-fu***ng-out. Ready for the greatness that’s available, ready to shine like the radiant disco balls they are.

This is what I get to do.
And I’m in absolute awe.

Thank you, thank you, thank you. More please 🙌

20/10/2025

Here's what many don't understand about growth:
It's not about the outcome. That's the bonus.

Growth is about honoring the evolution of your soul. ✨
It's about accepting your responsibility as a conscious woman creating your reality.

And when you get good at growing? Success becomes inevitable. 🚀
You know that you cannot grow your impact, and wealth faster than you grow yourself.
🔥 It's time to get really good at growing. Let me show you how.

📅 October 23rd at 7–8:30 PM ET
Drop EDGE below ⬇️ or head to bio and grab your spot. You know what to do. See you
soon!

✨ Most entrepreneurs unconsciously approach growth from victim consciousness."Something's wrong with me." "Once I heal t...
10/10/2025

✨ Most entrepreneurs unconsciously approach growth from victim consciousness.

"Something's wrong with me." "Once I heal this, THEN I'll be ready for next level visibility." - Yes even if you're not saying it out loud.
This keeps you stuck in survival mode. And in survival? You cannot create.

🌟 Here's what changes everything:
Growth from wholeness consciousness. Boom! Yay!
You're not broken. That's not even a thing. You're a conscious woman who chooses to evolve—not because something's wrong, but because evolution is your responsibility.

👸 The women building extraordinary companies understand:
→ Avoiding your P&L is a growth edge
→ Needing to fire that team member is a growth edge
→ Being scared to be misunderstood is a growth edge

Instead of making themselves wrong, they move through it. Instead of over-thinking, and second guessing, they move through it.

Join us on October 23rd for The Growth Edge masterclass.

You'll learn how to execute boldly on your biggest ideas from your inherent wholeness—even when your nervous system screams threat.

Because it always will.

You cannot grow your impact faster than you grow yourself. Drop 'EDGE' and I'll send you the link to grab your spot. 👇 💌

Let's talk about what it actually costs you to stay at the edge.Not the edge itself - that's just information, an invita...
08/10/2025

Let's talk about what it actually costs you to stay at the edge.

Not the edge itself - that's just information, an invitation to grow.

I'm talking about what it costs to stay there. For months. For years.

To keep standing at the edge of that strategic pivot but never making the move.

To keep knowing you need to raise your prices but talking yourself out of it every time.

To keep seeing the visibility opportunity but finding reasons why "not yet."

To keep recognizing that team member isn't the right fit but questioning your decision over & over.

Here's what that costs you:
The client who needed what you offer at your new price point - but you weren't charging it yet, so you attracted someone who wasn't the right fit.

The partnership opportunity that went to someone less qualified - but more visible.

The six months you spent doing work your team member should have been doing - time you could have spent with your daughter in her last year before college.

The version of your business that could have been built - if you'd made that pivot when you first knew.

The woman you could have been meeting in the mirror every morning - if you'd chosen to grow instead of staying safe.

Time is the one resource you cannot get back.

And every day you spend at an edge you're not moving through? That's a day you're not building what you came here to build.

I'm not saying this to make you wrong.

I'm saying this because you cannot afford to stay stuck at your edges anymore.

Your impact is too important. Your vision is too needed. Your time is too precious.

The Growth Edge masterclass isn't just about learning how to move through resistance.
It's about reclaiming all the time, energy, & opportunity you've been leaving on the table while you wait to feel ready.

Because here's the truth: You will never feel ready.

Ready is not a feeling you acquire. Ready is a decision you make.
And that decision happens when you learn how to make The Growth Edge a safe place to move through - not a place to camp out and wait.
📅 October 23rd | 7-8:30 PM ET
💫 Free masterclass
🔗 Link in bio
What you're building is too important to keep waiting for permission from your nervous system.

I look at this woman and I so fu***ng proud of her. I see the little girl who loved playing teacher (and would turn down...
08/10/2025

I look at this woman and I so fu***ng proud of her.

I see the little girl who loved playing teacher (and would turn down play dates with real live friends because I was “in class”😂)

I see the girl who spent much of her life believing she wasn’t smart enough who now created the most profound IP in growth and transformation.

I see the heart on legs who loves and serves with all of herself.

I see the incredible entrepreneur who made something out of nothing, and it’s fu***ng incredible.

I see every other woman with a big dream, a deep mission.
It’s yours babe.

And we’re all scared.

The only way is to lean all the way in, and lean all the way back.

Decide. Move. Trust.

✨ And appreciate every fu***ng second of the gift of this journey.

Yay me! Yay you!
LFG! We have impact to make and evolution to experience.

Let’s tell the truth, the whole truth and nothing but truth. ✨ Imposter syndrome isn’t real — and our obsession with it ...
26/09/2025

Let’s tell the truth, the whole truth and nothing but truth.

✨ Imposter syndrome isn’t real — and our obsession with it is costing women their power, wealth, and freedom.

It doesn’t matter how big your platform is — if you’re still believing your fear more than your power it’s time to wake up.

The originators of “imposter phenomenon” never called it a syndrome. They described it as feelings.
Human. Normal. Changeable.

But somewhere along the way, we made it a thing. A reason to stay small. A thing that women love to hate.

And I’m not here for it.

You are not an imposter. You are a woman with a biologically brilliant nervous system that wants to keep you safe by keeping you the same. You are a woman who hasn't evolved into that identity and level - yet.

Swipe through and let’s deconstruct the lie. Because you'll never get to where you're capable of going subscribing to this absolute bu****it.

🪬 Save this for the next time doubt and thoughts of fraudulence creeps in.

Tag a powerhouse who needs this soul shot.

David was in Tower 2. Eternally grateful he made it out safely.My heart is forever with every family who lost someone th...
11/09/2025

David was in Tower 2. Eternally grateful he made it out safely.

My heart is forever with every family who lost someone that day.

Yesterday, Taylor called me in tears after the tragic loss of Charlie Kirk, and of course knowing that today was 9/11.
She cried and said, “What is this world? Why? It’s so scary.

I told her…
There will always be contrast.
Light and dark.
Hurt people who hurt people.
Belief systems clashing, defending against other belief systems.

So what do we do with that?
We FEEL.
We cry. We scream We shake.
We let the how the f**k can this be move through our bodies—no thinking or anaylsis, just release.

And then—we LOVE.
We love hard.
We choose love even when we don’t feel like it.
We BE the light.
We practice tolerance and appreciate differences.
We show up and speak out for what’s humane.

The truth is oneness and we practice that.

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