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The School of Becoming Your capacity to trust is directly influenced by your relationship with failure.
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David was in Tower 2. Eternally grateful he made it out safely.My heart is forever with every family who lost someone th...
11/09/2025

David was in Tower 2. Eternally grateful he made it out safely.

My heart is forever with every family who lost someone that day.

Yesterday, Taylor called me in tears after the tragic loss of Charlie Kirk, and of course knowing that today was 9/11.
She cried and said, “What is this world? Why? It’s so scary.

I told her…
There will always be contrast.
Light and dark.
Hurt people who hurt people.
Belief systems clashing, defending against other belief systems.

So what do we do with that?
We FEEL.
We cry. We scream We shake.
We let the how the f**k can this be move through our bodies—no thinking or anaylsis, just release.

And then—we LOVE.
We love hard.
We choose love even when we don’t feel like it.
We BE the light.
We practice tolerance and appreciate differences.
We show up and speak out for what’s humane.

The truth is oneness and we practice that.

This is it.The final hours to join The Choice MethodÂŽ as a Founding Client.Tonight at 11:59 PM PST, this rate is gone fo...
10/09/2025

This is it.

The final hours to join The Choice MethodÂŽ as a Founding Client.

Tonight at 11:59 PM PST, this rate is gone forever.

If you did what you already know to do… you’d already have the results you want.

But knowing isn’t the problem. Your nervous system is.

These are patterns. Well-worn pathways. Things you’ve unconsciously rehearsed for decades.

And because of that—you can’t just “make a new choice.” If it were that easy, you’d already be doing it. You’d already be living in the reality you’ve been working so hard for.

That’s why you need a method—a proven solution that works at the level of your biology.

That’s what The Choice Method® delivers.

It rewires the exact moment your old identity wants to default... and shows you how to let your evolved self lead instead.

The training that took me 15 years to develop. The method behind every major breakthrough in my business. The tool that’s created millions in revenue for me and my clients.

Available for the final time at this investment.
I’ve done everything in my power to make this the easiest yes ever.

Now you need to walk through the door.

Drop CHOICE below for instant access.
Your future self is waiting.

This is Julie Cabezas.CEO of Self Made.Brand strategist to elite entrepreneurs, myself included.A woman who’s done the s...
09/09/2025

This is Julie Cabezas.
CEO of Self Made.
Brand strategist to elite entrepreneurs, myself included.
A woman who’s done the soul work — at the highest level.

She’s worked with the best.
Studied every methodology.
Built extraordinary success.

But even with all that… something was still missing.

“In every moment, I was all in, working as hard as I could but it still felt like getting results moved at a snail’s pace. Entrepreneurship often felt like moving through quicksand.”

That’s when she found The Choice Method®.

“The Choice Method® is the single greatest breakthrough in personal development of the last decade. Once you learn it, you can’t unlearn it.”

The Choice Method® allowed Julie to integrate 15 years of personal development into moment-by-moment embodiment of all she’d learned.

“I realized that - unbeknownst to me - fear was at the root of a million tiny, unmade decisions. Self-expression was stifled out of fear of what others would think. Business decisions would sit on the backburner for months - waiting for clarity.”

Now, Julie uses The Choice Method® to collapse time, dissolve fear, and move with a clarity that even she couldn’t access before.

She didn’t need more information. She needed integration - and that’s exactly what The Choice Method® delivers.

“The Choice Method® is my go-to methodology for creating quantum leaps in my life, moment by moment. It feels endlessly empowering to have a method for creating immediate clarity in any situation, in any moment, for any reason. Now, I use The Choice Method® and then, I move.”

Ever wonder why you feel like you’re doing all the things, but the new results aren’t showing up in your reality? Mindse...
07/09/2025

Ever wonder why you feel like you’re doing all the things, but the new results aren’t showing up in your reality?

Mindset reframes? Meh.

Somatics? Powerful.

Nervous system regulation? Fire.

But until now? They’ve been in separate silos.

Doing somatics to what end? Regulating your nervous system for what result?

The Choice MethodÂŽ is the only method that integrates ALL OF IT at the level of your identity.

Finally puts it all together in a proven, concise, completely practical method that integrates into the way you actually live. You’re welcome.

It rewires. It reprograms. It evolves you into who you’re capable of becoming.

And for the first time ever, it’s available outside my private client and high-level programs.

You don’t need another tool. You need the motherlode of all solutions.

The Choice Method® isn’t here to teach you more.

It’s here to make your transformation and desired results inevitable.

3 days left to become a Founding Client.

After Tuesday, September 9th at 11:59 PM PST, this rate is gone forever—along with the exclusive September support I’ll never offer again.

Drop CHOICE for instant access or head to link in bio and do the thing.

You know exactly what to do. So why aren’t you doing it?Because knowing isn’t the problem. Your nervous system is.Every ...
06/09/2025

You know exactly what to do. So why aren’t you doing it?

Because knowing isn’t the problem. Your nervous system is.

Every time you freeze, hesitate, or overthink—you’re not being lazy. You’re running a
well-rehearsed pattern that your body has practiced for decades.

And until you interrupt the pattern at the nervous system level, you’ll keep defaulting
to the same choices that got you here.

This is why The Choice MethodÂŽ exists. Not to give you more strategies, but to rewire
you where it actually matters: in your micro-moments of choice.

4 days left to join as a Founding Client before this opportunity disappears forever
on Tuesday, September 9th at 11:59 PM PST. For the record, this insane rate
equates to $0.81 per day for a year. Wait what?! Yeah. Let’s go!

Drop CHOICE and I’ll send you instant access!

What if the shift in your team you’ve been searching for… starts with you?When Chanie Wilschanski, CEO of Schools of Exc...
04/09/2025

What if the shift in your team you’ve been searching for… starts with you?

When Chanie Wilschanski, CEO of Schools of Excellence, began embodying The Choice Method® inside her leadership, the transformation didn’t take long to show up:

“Integrating The Choice Method into my leadership has created a tangible and lasting impact on my team and organization. They feel safe—and it shows. Their initiative is higher than ever: they’re hiring people, creating from our assets, driving more revenue, and showing up with so much more confidence. What’s followed is more excitement, more innovation, and a business that’s thriving because of it.⁠
As CEOs, we all want our teams to take initiative, to try new things, to step into ownership. But the truth is, our own behavior often blocks them from doing that. When I interrupt my old survival patterns and let HER lead, my team exhales.⁠

Tracy always says we are the cause of the effect—and I see that so clearly now. The Choice Method is fast, incredibly effective, and it’s having a profound impact on both my professional and personal life.”

— Chanie Wilschanski
 CEO, Schools of Excellence⁠

This is the ripple effect of nervous system safety.

This is what becomes possible when you become the portal for trust, ownership, and expansion.

Because no strategy can outperform the frequency you lead from.
You can’t afford not to learn and embody this method.

 The Choice Method® is waiting for you.

What if the shift in your team you’ve been searching for… starts with you?When Chanie Wilschanski, CEO of Schools of Exc...
04/09/2025

What if the shift in your team you’ve been searching for… starts with you?

When Chanie Wilschanski, CEO of Schools of Excellence, began embodying The Choice Method® inside her leadership, the transformation didn’t take long to show up:

“Integrating The Choice Method into my leadership has created a tangible and lasting impact on my team and organization. They feel safe—and it shows. Their initiative is higher than ever: they’re hiring people, creating from our assets, driving more revenue, and showing up with so much more confidence. What’s followed is more excitement, more innovation, and a business that’s thriving because of it.⁠
As CEOs, we all want our teams to take initiative, to try new things, to step into ownership. But the truth is, our own behavior often blocks them from doing that. When I interrupt my old survival patterns and let HER lead, my team exhales.⁠

Tracy always says we are the cause of the effect—and I see that so clearly now. The Choice Method is fast, incredibly effective, and it’s having a profound impact on both my professional and personal life.”

— Chanie Wilschanski
CEO, Schools of Excellence⁠

This is the ripple effect of nervous system safety.

This is what becomes possible when you become the portal for trust, ownership, and expansion.

Because no strategy can outperform the frequency you lead from.
You can’t afford not to learn and embody this method.

The Choice MethodÂŽ is waiting for you.

You say you’re ready for your next level. So why do you keep shrinking when it’s time to step up?It’s not because you’re...
04/09/2025

You say you’re ready for your next level. So why do you keep shrinking when it’s time to step up?

It’s not because you’re not capable. It’s because these 4 hidden patterns are running the show (swipe to see them all).

Here’s what I know about you: You’re not confused about what to do. You’re just unconsciously choosing safety over growth—and your nervous system is calling the shots.

The Choice MethodÂŽ interrupts these exact patterns and gives you a proven tool to choose from your evolved identity instead of your survival programming.

Only 6 days left to join as a Founding Client before this rate disappears forever on Tuesday, September 9th at 11:59 PM PST.

Drop CHOICE and I’ll send you instant access!

The gig is up.You’re not confused. You’re not lazy. And you’re definitely not not ready.You’re just used to shrinking.Be...
03/09/2025

The gig is up.

You’re not confused. You’re not lazy. And you’re definitely not not ready.

You’re just used to shrinking.

Because somewhere along the way, your nervous system learned that being big…was dangerous.

So even though you dream big, plan big, and want more… You bail. You freeze. You fawn. You overthink.

👉You draft the post, but never hit publish. 
👉You get ready to raise your rates, but lower it at the last minute. 
👉You’re about to make the offer for the new hire, then you second-guess. 
👉You schedule time for rest, but overbook yourself anyway.

You’re not stuck and there is no problem. 
You’re in a loop.

You’re in a pattern that’s not your fault. But it IS your responsibility to break.

The Choice MethodÂŽ is HOW.

Not with more mindset work or another morning routine—but with a real-time, body-led tool that helps you stop defaulting to fear and finally choose from the woman you’re becoming.

It only takes an hour to learn. And it’ll change every part of your life and business.

Your next level isn’t out there. It’s one choice away.

Founding Client rate ends Tuesday, September 9th at 11:59 PM PST and will be gone forever.

Don’t do the thing I just wrote about in this post. Take a breath and enroll now.

Drop CHOICE below for instant access!

They told you healing had to come first. That you needed to stop. To slow down. To make healing your full-time job befor...
31/08/2025

They told you healing had to come first.
That you needed to stop.
To slow down.
To make healing your full-time job before you could rise.

That lie kept too many brilliant women stuck in the loop — over-processing, over-analyzing, over-identifying with the past.

Here’s the truth:
Healing doesn’t require you to stop.
It happens as you go… when SHE leads.

✨ The Choice Method® is the first system where healing happens as a byproduct of identity evolution.

Of progress.
Of embodied leadership.

Healing while you rise? It’s not just possible. It’s inevitable.

Doors open soon. Be ready.

Only 2% of women founders generate and sustain 7 figures. Not because they’re more talented. Not because they’re special...
27/08/2025

Only 2% of women founders generate and sustain 7 figures.
Not because they’re more talented.
Not because they’re special.
But because they decide differently.

They don’t spiral in “What if?”
They don’t outsource their power.
They move from the version of themselves who already has the result.

✨ That’s what collapses time.
That’s what makes success feel inevitable.

A new standard is coming.

Decide to be ready.

Let’s talk about the real reason you’re not where you want to be. It’s not your strategy. It’s not your branding. It’s n...
25/08/2025

Let’s talk about the real reason you’re not where you want to be.
It’s not your strategy.
It’s not your branding.
It’s not your calendar, offer, or funnel.

It’s hesitation.

Those 3-second windows where you know what to do…
but you don’t.

You scroll.
You second-guess.
You wait for a sign.
You hand your power to fear.

And in those tiny moments?
You’re teaching your body to fear your own power.
You’re reinforcing the version of you that stays small.
You’re building momentum for the wrong identity.

✨ But there’s another way.

The Choice MethodÂŽ is a real-time system that disrupts hesitation, reclaims your energy, and retrains your system to decide like your future depends on it.

Because it does.

You can’t build a legacy in limbo.
This is how you start trusting yourself again.
Doors open soon. Decide to be ready.

👇 What decision have you been circling that your future self already made?

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