The Jane diaries

The Jane diaries I share daily moments, mom life and relationships lessons to Reflect, get inspired, and remember ❤️

✨ Dear Beautiful Soul, Read This Before You Fall in Love Again ✨When someone truly loves you, you won’t have to beg for ...
23/09/2025

✨ Dear Beautiful Soul, Read This Before You Fall in Love Again ✨

When someone truly loves you, you won’t have to beg for it.
Their actions will show it.
Their respect will prove it.
Their presence will make you feel safe. 💕

Love is a beautiful gift, but take your time.
Lust is not love. When someone is only after your body, they leave when they get what they want.
You are worth so much more than that — protect your heart and value yourself.

Don’t fall for someone just because of money.
If that’s the reason, it isn’t love — it’s desire.
True love doesn’t care about wealth — it sees the heart. ❤️
Love cannot be forced — when it’s real, it will come naturally.
To my single sisters:
Anyone who pressures you for s*x before marriage is not showing love. Real love waits. Real love respects boundaries.

Be your authentic self, and the right person will love you for you.

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Happy Sunday to you and may God grant your heart desires . Amen.
21/09/2025

Happy Sunday to you and may God grant your heart desires . Amen.

These kids are so unpredictable
21/09/2025

These kids are so unpredictable

Marriage calls for some adjustments — choosing your partner fully and letting go of anything that could hurt them. If yo...
20/09/2025

Marriage calls for some adjustments — choosing your partner fully and letting go of anything that could hurt them.
If you’re not ready for that sacrifice.. then forget it better than to get married and make the other person miserable.

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When you enter a relationship or friendship expecting it to be your main source of happiness 😊 and joy, you set yourself...
17/09/2025

When you enter a relationship or friendship expecting it to be your main source of happiness 😊 and joy, you set yourself up for frustration and disappointment.
This often leads to a cycle of jumping from one relationship to another, one friendship to the next — always searching but never feeling satisfied.

True happiness starts within you. The universal law is clear: you give what you carry inside.

When you cultivate joy, peace, and love in your own heart, you naturally radiate it to others — and life reflects it back to you.

When you take time to heal from past pain, failures, and disappointments, you free yourself from emotional baggage and stop bleeding on people who didn’t cause your wounds. This opens the door for healthier, more fulfilling connections.

Be intentional about becoming the best version of yourself — mentally, emotionally, and spiritually.
Celebrate every milestone, no matter how small. This builds your confidence, strengthens your self-worth, and attracts better opportunities and healthier relationships into your life.

Speak life over yourself daily. Your words shape your reality, so choose words that uplift, empower, and inspire you. The more you affirm your own value, the more peace, love, and happiness you will experience.

When you make yourself your first source of joy and positivity, every relationship you enter becomes a place where happiness is shared — not sought — and that is where real fulfillment begins.

DEAR SISTER IF YOU ARE NOT MARRIED, YOU’RE STILL SINGLE ☺️Single is single — no matter how “special” your situation fee...
15/09/2025

DEAR SISTER IF YOU ARE NOT MARRIED, YOU’RE STILL SINGLE ☺️
Single is single — no matter how “special” your situation feels.
■. “We’re engaged.” you are
■.“I live with my boyfriend.” (Still Single)
■. “We’ve been together for 5 years.”
■. “I call his mom and she calls me too.” (aunty ou are still oo)
■ “I stay at his place.” hmmm.. i laugh at you in swahili)
■ “He posts my pictures everywhere and uses me as his DP.” (sorry noool)
■. “He comes to my house every day.” your eyes go clear soon)
■. “All his family know I’m his future wife.” ( wake up from your dream oo ) All his friends call me ‘Our Wife.’ (Single With a touch of f00l!shness)

15/09/2025

Happy Sunday to you

Sis, can I be real with you for a moment?Don’t rush into marriage just because everyone around you is getting engaged or...
13/09/2025

Sis, can I be real with you for a moment?
Don’t rush into marriage just because everyone around you is getting engaged or posting wedding pictures. I know it can feel like you’re being left behind, but marriage is not a race, and there’s no prize for who gets there first.

Every person’s journey is unique, and so is yours. What truly matters isn’t how soon you get married but whether you’re choosing the right partner — someone you’re truly compatible with, someone who shares your values, respects you, and is ready to grow with you.

Marriage is more than a pretty wedding dress or a hashtag-worthy proposal. It’s two lives becoming one, and that requires emotional maturity, financial readiness, and a lot of wisdom. Rushing into it just because you feel pressured can lead to heartbreak later — and trust me, divorce is much harder than waiting a little longer.

At the end of the day, it won’t be your friends living with your decision — it will be you. You’re the one who will wake up next to this person every single day, share your dreams, your struggles, your future with them. So why not take your time and make sure you choose right?

Let love lead you, not pressure. When the time is right, everything will fall into place — and it will be with the right person who feels like home. 💕

We have gone through so many unseen challenges and today we are proud to have reached this great milestones... congratul...
11/09/2025

We have gone through so many unseen challenges and today we are proud to have reached this great milestones... congratulations my baby.. you are so beautiful,strong, and never ready to give up... happy birthday nwa oma.. Daddy , mummy, Bubu and Ada loves you. ❤️

DEAR LADIES… 💕✨LETS Have some real talk!💥 Bedroom skills don’t secure a long term commitment. If he doesn’t value you, h...
11/09/2025

DEAR LADIES… 💕✨LETS Have some real talk!

💥 Bedroom skills don’t secure a long term commitment. If he doesn’t value you, he’ll still walk away.

💥 Money can buy gifts, not loyalty. If cash got his love, it might not last.
not love. Love gives meaning to intimacy.

💥 Passion can hold him till morning — love holds him for a lifetime.

💥 Trust, morals, and integrity? You can’t swipe a card for those.

💥 Your self-respect sets the tone for how men treat you. See comments for more 👇👇

Sis, stop just being desirable — start being valuable. A real man will see the difference. 👑

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✨ AS A SINGLE LADY :If you find a man who is committed, devoted, and above all, God-fearing—hold on to him.He may not be...
09/09/2025

✨ AS A SINGLE LADY :If you find a man who is committed, devoted, and above all, God-fearing—hold on to him.
He may not be driving the latest car, living in a mansion, or standing in the spotlight, but if he has vision, that’s what truly matters.
A man who acknowledges God and makes time for you is worth more than material possessions. Don’t trade a man with vision for a man with just a a mere gifts —
✨ As a single man
If you find a woman who is rooted in Christ, respectful, prayerful, don’t ever let her go.
A woman who supports your vision and stands by you in every season is a crown on your head and a blessing to your life.
If she is not materialistic but values love, vision, and purpose, she is a true wife—Never trade her for a woman who only wants to shine in your glory but was never present in your struggles.

Many African men fear their wives becoming more successful or financially secure than them. But a woman’s success is not...
08/09/2025

Many African men fear their wives becoming more successful or financially secure than them. But a woman’s success is not a threat—it’s a blessing.

Her growth doesn’t reduce her husband, it elevates the whole family. When she thrives, the children thrive, the home becomes stable, and opportunities increase.

Marriage is not about control—it’s about partnership. A man doesn’t lose respect when his wife succeeds; he gains a stronger, happier, and more fulfilled partner.

Empowering your wife doesn’t make you less of a man. It proves your strength, vision, and wisdom.

When she rises, the family rises with her.“A man’s true strength is seen in how he empowers his wife.”

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