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Compassina Online Counseling My name is Chris Ukpai. Life is happening around us daily, but most of us keep missing the lessons. Follow to start seeing what others miss.

On this page, I break down daily occurrences, so you can learn, think better, grow wiser, & avoid mistakes.

Long and short 👇Before you marry any man, check his emotional intelligence level. A man that is not emotionally intellig...
13/07/2026

Long and short 👇

Before you marry any man, check his emotional intelligence level.

A man that is not emotionally intelligent can be disastrous.

And as a man too... You don't need to assume you're emotionally intelligent or not, take real courses on emotional intelligence and train yourself around it.

It's an important soft skill you should _ sorry, must _ posses before anything.

intelligence sense

16/06/2026

Please, when your relationship with people go sour or south for whatever reason, try as much as you can to keep all the private information they trusted you with secret when things were rosy.

I understand it might not be so easy a thing to do, as you might be pushed to want to 'cut your own pound of flesh' and probably want to prove a point, but just try. 🙏 Just try.

Learn to separate your issue with people from secrets they trusted you with. They are not the same thing.

Secrets are to be everly treated as confidential; issues can be discussed or handled publicly (that is if it's necessary to do that publicly)

Divulging secrets because there's an issue is actually not correct.

Chris ✍️

Smiles... True.Just calm down and let people be.If you can help them, help them. If you can't help, support or encourage...
26/05/2026

Smiles... True.

Just calm down and let people be.

If you can help them, help them. If you can't help, support or encourage, etc... but not talking down.

I have seen people who had an established business that made them rich, lose it. Just one government policy and the business was closed.

I have also seen people who grew to certain levels in their organization, even to top management positions, walk out of their job, because of circumstances beyond their control.

Just be humble, whether employed or not. Be humble, whether in business or out of business.

This life is deep

26/05/2026

THIS ADVICE WILL SAVE YOU NOW OR TOMORROW, PLEASE READ!

These days, each time you want to send someone money, please ask for their current account number.
Whether you had their account number before or not, still ask for their account.
Let it be that they told you by themselves to send to the one you have.

A lot changes with time. The account of them you have maybe be having issues.
They may be using a different phone as at the time of the transaction, maybe they don't have the app stored in the current phone. For instance, if I'm out with my second phone, I don't have access to all my accounts except Palmpay. So any transaction that has to be cleared urgently, need to come to my Palmpay. Might still change, though.

It might even be that they transferred ownership of the account... I know parents who transfer ownership of one of their accounts to their dependants for temporal use, until they are able to get one.

Just ask the person before you send anything. Even if it's a surprise, still find a way to confirm current account in use.
It will save you a lot.

Chris Ukpai ✍️

Guys!!! I'm scared right now! AI has seen me finish!Are you guys sure we're really safe with AI? To be able to describe ...
23/05/2026

Guys!!! I'm scared right now!

AI has seen me finish!

Are you guys sure we're really safe with AI?

To be able to describe me to this extent is unbelievable.

I could score them 100, if not for the black coffee ☕ 😁

See prompt 👇

Draw the character in the image, "( Your name)", in a free and stripped sketch style. On a bright white background, freely distribute full-body drawings, face close-ups, small scribbles, full-body sketches and chibi/deformed versions, so that the page conveys the character's humor and personality. Don't do it like an organized character sheet, but like a sketchbook full of information drawn at will by an illustrator and then stacked. Use everything ChatGPT knows about me from our conversations, including my personality, habits, strengths, quirks, profession, and overall vibe, to imagine how an illustrator would interpret me as a character.

You really need to watch this right now now if you're interested in becoming a better version of yourself of yourself
23/05/2026

You really need to watch this right now now if you're interested in becoming a better version of yourself of yourself

FREE ONE-ON-ONE COUNSELING FOR YOUTHS & TEENAGERS THIS WEEKEND!This weekend, I’m opening my inbox again for something cl...
23/05/2026

FREE ONE-ON-ONE COUNSELING FOR YOUTHS & TEENAGERS THIS WEEKEND!

This weekend, I’m opening my inbox again for something close to my heart, which is helping young people like you find clarity, confidence, and direction.

Whether you’re:

- Confused about your career or business path

- Struggling with relationship matters

- Feeling stuck in your spiritual growth

- Or generally need someone to talk to on any matter.

…I want you to know you don’t have to figure it out alone.

I’m a trained and certified counselor with over 11 years of proven experience guiding people to breakthrough moments through sound, godly counsel.

Over the years, I’ve walked with countless youths and teenagers through some of their toughest seasons and watched them step into confidence, joy, and purpose.

Our space is a judgement-free zone. And confidentiality is our watchword.

You want to be part of it? 👇

Just send me a message right now or drop “I’m in” in the comments, and we’ll start your free one-on-one session. Compassina Online Counseling

You have questions. You need answers. And I believe God has equipped me with the wisdom to help you get there.

Don’t push it to tomorrow. Let’s talk about it today. Send me a message.

FREE ONE-ON-ONE COUNSELING FOR YOUTHS & TEENAGERS THIS WEEKEND!This weekend, I’m opening my inbox again for something cl...
22/05/2026

FREE ONE-ON-ONE COUNSELING FOR YOUTHS & TEENAGERS THIS WEEKEND!

This weekend, I’m opening my inbox again for something close to my heart, which is helping young people like you find clarity, confidence, and direction.

Whether you’re:

- Confused about your career or business path

- Struggling with relationship matters

- Feeling stuck in your spiritual growth

- Or generally need someone to talk to on any matter.

…I want you to know you don’t have to figure it out alone.

I’m a trained and certified counselor with over 11 years of proven experience guiding people to breakthrough moments through sound, godly counsel.

Over the years, I’ve walked with countless youths and teenagers through some of their toughest seasons and watched them step into confidence, joy, and purpose.

Our space is a judgement-free zone. And confidentiality is our watchword.

You want to be part of it?

Just send me a message right now or drop “I’m in” in the comments, and we’ll start your free one-on-one session.

You have questions. You need answers. And I believe God has equipped me with the wisdom to help you get there.

Don’t push it to tomorrow. Let’s talk about it today. Send me a message.

21/05/2026

😁😁😁😁

I'm sure plenty that will see this video can relate. 😁

It's the 'on Saturday morning...' for me. That was actually on target. 😁

Poverty sits people down mostly on a Saturday morning. Just reason am.. you can relate 😁

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Please, what are you doing right now to escape poverty.

Let us know in the comment section.

So she should go and këël herself now because you're a re**rd? (: Body-shaming should actually be officially made a  pun...
21/05/2026

So she should go and këël herself now because you're a re**rd? (:

Body-shaming should actually be officially made a punishable offense under the law around this part of the world.

Like, it should standalone as an offence under the law.

Body-shaming people, for whatever reason, to me, is crass! and low-life!

I'm thinking we should all start training ourselves to accommodate and genuinely love people. Help people feel comfortable in their body, the best way you can. Encourage them by your actions and utterances. That's a better thing to do.

I once confronted some street boys in Lagos who body-shamed a lady who came out from her office in an afternoon to buy something. They were mocking her because of her body. The young lady was visibly embarrassed. I was sitting there waiting for the event I came for to start, so I had time to calmly speak some sense into their head.

Anything that will make you body-shame another person, don't let it be you. If you don't have any good thing to say, say nothing.

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