03/04/2018
We’ve been so moved by all the great tributes to Winne Madikizela-Mandela.
Mama Winnie was bold, outspoken, and fearless - which made her much maligned. In the days following her death on 2 April, much ink will be spilt to explain this great woman.
For all her faults there is little doubt that South Africa and the world would have been kinder were she a man, but she blazed a bright trail nonetheless.
All in the forest is silent because a great tree has fallen.
You meet a man. You fall in love. You dream of a world of possibilities and a great future together. You know he is a freedom fighter, as he is a lawyer, working in an office in downtown Johannesburg; and so are you, a freedom fighter who wants to see the end of the Apartheid Regime. Little do you know, you will barely get to enjoy your young marriage, you will be left as a single mother and you will not see much of your husband for 27 years, you will be jailed, tortured, harassed, taken away from your children and your home will still wear the bullets that were shot at your family while you were still inside. You will uphold your husband's legacy and the Movement, making him a worldwide name and, eventually, the first President of post-Apartheid South Africa. You will be right there for him upon his release from prison, even though you are divorced. But if you dared to find your own happiness in these bitter circumstances or if you made mistakes along the way, fighting the vile inhumanity and succumbing to the vicious violence of Apartheid, you just might be derided forever, by some who would never understand you, anyway. But some of us do understand, without fully knowing the depth of what is behind your eyes. We see you, anyway, Winnie Mandela. We see you, anyway. Rest in Peace, Mother. Wife. Warrior. Woman.