
17/09/2025
What you say first is a leading indicator of your mindset, maturity, and priorities. It reveals where you’ll soar (or stumble) long before the market ever answers. From mentoring hundreds of founders, I’ve noticed eight “tells” that show up in Startups again and again:
1️⃣ Leading with Lean Startup jargon
Language isn’t ex*****on.
2️⃣ Opening with patents
Early obsession with patents screams “corporate mindset.”
3️⃣ Showing your solution first
If you need a demo for me to get it, you may not have a business.
4️⃣ Starting with Why
Conviction is powerful but without market clarity it risks sounding like faith over traction.
5️⃣ Digging into personal experience
If the story is all you’ve got, investors wonder if you can actually deliver.
6️⃣ Asking a question for affirmation
Questions reveal insecurity if not paired with evidence.
7️⃣ Requiring NDAs or secrecy
NDAs early on convey paranoia, not confidence.
8️⃣ Starting with the problem
Good but if you misjudge the problem’s relevance, you’ve lost the room before you’ve begun.
💡 The fix? Do the opposite:
Replace jargon with proof of learning.
Lead patents with traction.
Let them ask for the demo.
Pair vision with data.
Scale your story beyond yourself.
Bring metrics, not polls.
Share openly, build fast.
State the problem, then close the loop with your solution.
With the fall season of cohorts starting, I’m reminded that most founders will be asking of advisors why there is so much emphasis on practicing the elevator pitch.