29/09/2024
Alright, buckle up folks, because we need to talk about something that might sting a little. You know those dads who treat hanging out with their kids like it’s some sort of time-killer? Yeah, the ones who think, “Oh, I could be making some extra cash right now instead of, you know, raising a human being.” Legendary priorities, right?
And when you ask them, “Uh, so when exactly do you plan on being a dad, like, full-time?” The answers are comedy gold. “We live in a joint family,” or my personal favorite, “The kids are always tired after school anyway.” Oh yeah, because apparently, being in the same house with your kids or watching them nap is the same thing as actually parenting.
Newsflash: It’s not.
Here’s a little life hack for you — in a Muslim family, being a dad isn’t just about paying bills and handing over toys. Nah, my friend, you’ve got a much bigger gig: Tarbiyyah. Yeah, that thing where you actually help your kids grow into decent human beings. Spoiler alert: On the Day of Judgment, no one’s going to be asking, “So, how many PlayStations did you buy your kid?” or “Were you able to secure that millionaire lifestyle?” Nope. The only question will be, “Was that rizq halal?” You know, that stuff.
But hey, I get it, the hustle is real. Money’s cool, “financial independence” sounds s*xy, and let’s not forget the “millionaire lifestyle” everyone’s chasing. But in the mad dash to chase paper, maybe don’t forget the little people who actually need you — like your kids. No, not your joint family. Not the school. YOU.
But hey, if you’re barely making ends meet, carry on. Everyone else, maybe it’s time to check those priorities.
