01/11/2025
HE'S NOT FOR YOU IF
He gets MAD at you when you are expressing hurt/upset
He lets you sleep with a heavy heart & gives ZERO FKS
Says you're COMPLAINING when you express your needs
He can go a whole day/s WITHOUT communicating
He gives you the SILENT treatment if you argue
He doesn't STAND UP for you if you're being treated badly
He makes himself into a VICTIM when you call him out on his inappropriate behaviour
He cannot express EMPATHY when you're upset
He ABANDONS you in the midst of an argument
Makes EXCUSES to avoid taking responsibility
Chooses to END THINGS rather than working on himself
He is emotionally MANIPULATIVE, possessive & controlling
Minimises, GASLIGHTS or stonewalls during disagreements
He is not making you a PRIORITY