The Seasoned MilSo

10/12/2025

Midweek check-in, Seasoneds… because today had some seriously BIG Monday energy. 😅 - I shared my professional thoughts on Linkedin, but knew you all needed the unfiltered/still clean version, haha.

You ever wake up thinking, “Okay, I’m finally ahead today,” only for life to tap you on the shoulder and say, “Actually… no you’re not.”
Yeah. That was my whole morning. 🙃

Kids dropped off, coffee barely kicking in ( because I forgot to drink some), I’m feeling productive… until I sit down at my computer and realize it rebooted overnight and completely erased my timesheet.

So now I’m digging through folders like a mom on a mission whose kid lost the permission slip 10 minutes before school drop-off. I’m clicking everything that even sounds like a recovery file. And my husband—my tech hero—is at work texting, “I’ll look when I get home.”

Sir… please. 😂

But you know what actually pulled me together?

I texted a friend.
A really good one.
Every mom needs that one person who gives you permission to vent, to unravel, and then gently puts you back together with a “Girl, you’ve got this.”

Because the truth is—we cannot always control the mess.
But sometimes we have to play a little make-believe, just like our kids do.

We pretend to “erase” the chaos. Unlike Dora, swiper no swiping. I'm giving you permission to swipe away the mess. Now lets talk military, "Left, Right, Left! - Swipe!"
Not because it magically fixes what happened,
but because it helps us mentally swipe it off the whiteboard so we can show up again.

That’s why we pencil things in.
Not pen—pencil.
Pencil lets you erase. Pencil lets you shift. Pencil lets you start fresh when the plan goes a little sideways… or completely off the rails.

So I did my imaginary swipe-swipe, took a breath, and walked into my meeting with as much calm as I could gather ( when I say walked, I mean sat in front of the web cam!) Then I went to volunteer at my kids’ school—because nothing resets a hectic day like little smiles and an excited “Mom! Guess what happened today!” stories.

Being a mom, a wife, and a military spouse is messy. It’s loud. It’s unpredictable.
But it’s also full of small, grounding moments that bring you right back to center.
Sometimes all it takes is a vent session, one good hype friend, and a posted-up car karaoke moment (Good day, Forest Frank!) to make the day feel manageable again. 🙌

So mamas, if today felt like a Monday even though it’s definitely not:

✨ Embrace the mess
✨ Do your pretend erase
✨ Reset your energy
✨ And pencil in what comes next

You get to decide the next chapter—not the chaos that tried to hijack your morning.

And stay tuned… I’ve got some very yummy Christmas dessert videos dropping next week on my Instagram (Theseasonedmilso). Honestly, I wish WonkaVision were real because you’d be reaching into your screen to grab a bite. 😋🎄 My kids are already counting down.

What are YOU penciling in today, Seasoned?

27/11/2025

Happy Thanksgiving from The Seasoned MilSo — where the kitchen is chaotic, the kids are loud, and the gratitude runs deep. Military life teaches us to hold tight to the moments we get, and today I’m extra thankful for this messy, beautiful little family of mine. 🦃💚

📣📣📣 New Comic Blog Posted, read it here: https://theseasonedmilso.wordpress.com/2025/11/26/mission-gratitude-amongst-the-chaos/

26/11/2025

NEW COMIC BLOG 📣📣📣

Mission: Gratitude amongst the Chaos

In a life full of see-you-laters, Thanksgiving reminds us to be grateful for the now — the food, the noise, and the people who make it all worth it..

Read it today 💚

Thanksgiving in our house never starts with peaceful music and perfectly folded napkins.It starts with me in the kitchen, hair already frizzing, wooden spoon in hand, staring down a recipe that I’v…

11/11/2025

Today, we honor every veteran — past and present — who has worn the uniform with courage, integrity, and heart. 🇺🇸

To my husband, who served as a Marine and continues to serve in the Army — your dedication, leadership, and love for this country inspire me every day. 💚

Behind every service member is a story, a family, and a legacy of strength. Thank you to all who’ve served and to those who continue to carry the torch. We see you. We honor you. We’re grateful for you.

Happy Veterans Day — from The Seasoned MilSo and our family to yours.

10/11/2025

250 years of the Marine Corps — and I get to celebrate one of the few, the proud, right here at home.

Five years in the Corps and now seven in the Army (and counting), yet once a Marine, always a Marine.

His love for the military started with the Marines (all began in 2009)— and that foundation shaped the leader he is today. A man who leads with care, integrity, and purpose.

Today, I’m thankful — for all Marines, and especially for the one who first showed me what it means to serve with heart. ❤️
Happy 250th Birthday, Marines! 🇺🇸

** photo was taken when my husband returned from Afghanistan in 2013 and met our Vanellope for the first time. She was 2 months old.

23/10/2025

Every home has a story — ours just happens to be written in service, love, and a whole lot of moments being made. 🇺🇸
This beautiful wreath from Wreaths By Nicole isn’t just décor; it’s a symbol of our journey — from my husband’s time in the Marine Corps to his service now in the Army. It brings our story full circle and reminds us that home is wherever the military sends us… as long as we’re together. 💚

If you’re looking for a meaningful, one-of-a-kind piece that captures your family’s military journey, Wreaths by Nicole offers custom designs, ready-made options, connect with her today so she can help you create something truly special for your service member or veteran.

20/10/2025

Sometimes people don’t really understand the life we live as a military family. You often hear, “you signed up for it,” but the truth is — we didn’t sign up to be military spouses. We signed up to love our person. The military just came with the package.

My husband has always been passionate about serving our country, and we’re proud to stand beside him. But this life isn’t always easy — for him or for us. It comes with constant changes, distance, and moments that test our strength.

Through it all, our faith and love keep us going. Faith gives us peace when things feel uncertain, and love reminds us why we keep showing up every day.

And honestly, life in general has been pretty chaotic for most people lately. With everything happening in the world — what we see in the media, the news, and across social media — there’s a lot of uncertainty for everyone. As a military family, we’re right in the midst of that too. We understand the unknown, the unexpected, and the ever-changing.

That’s why I always remind myself: no matter what happens, no matter what the future holds — at least we have each other. And at least we can make the most of the time we have right now.

Because let’s be honest, material things come and go. We get so caught up in the 9-to-5 grind that we forget why we’re doing it. What we’re working for is right in front of us — it’s our family, our home, our love.

Everyone has their own reason for pushing forward — whether it’s family, a spouse, a personal goal, or a dream they’re chasing. For me, my purpose is my family. And for my husband, his purpose is us.

I don’t want anyone to feel like life is failing them. Because in those moments of struggle or setback — that’s when we rise up and discover who we truly are. We’re meant to be there for one another, to lift each other up, to be each other’s support. That’s especially true in military life, because our service members go through so much that most people never see or fully understand. Being their support matters.

Right now, duty calls again. And when he returns, it’ll be time to prepare for the next one. So we’re choosing to slow down, hold each other close, and appreciate every moment we’re given.

To anyone walking through a season of uncertainty — military or not — keep pressing forward. You’re not done yet. Your purpose is still unfolding.

Cherish your time, lean on faith, and remember: love truly is what carries us through it all. 💚

— The Seasoned MilSo

16/10/2025

Veterans Day is coming up and I wanted something special to honor my husband’s service — something that carried a piece of his story. 💚
That’s when I found Wreaths by Nicole — she turns military uniforms into beautiful wreaths that celebrate our heroes and their families. 🪖🇺🇸

Follow her shop Wreaths By Nicole

Check out my latest Seasoned MilSo comic highlighting this beautifully unique gift.

27/09/2025

Hello fellow Seasoneds.

There really are no sick days for mommas—we just keep going. With my husband away because duty calls, I of course get sick and now sound like the Cookie Monster (which the kids think is hilarious).

But life doesn’t stop. Soccer games, a fridge that needs restocking, tires that need replacing… it all still has to get done. Military life isn’t glamorous. This week we said “see you later” in the dark, while most of the world was still asleep. I was in work clothes, the kids in school clothes, and we were all exhausted. I held back tears to show him “I got this,” but as soon as he walked away, I cried.

He’s my safe place. And whether it’s a week, a month, or months—it’s always hard. Love is what keeps us all going. ❤️ And if this sickness gets worse and if your experiencing a similar situation, remember, remind yourself: moms can’t pour from an empty cup. Rest matters too. YOU MATTER!

23/09/2025

If you’ve PCS’d, you know the drill… 👋
Goodbye half-used ketchup, soy sauce, and ALL the pantry staples.
Hello empty shelves + $$$ spent to buy it all back 😩.

That’s why I LOVE that MFAN created the PCS Pantry Restock Program 💙.

📦 Families who moved to Fort Bliss, Fort Hood, or Camp Lejeune in the last 90 days can get a FREE mailed box of pantry essentials + a Walmart gift card 🛒 to help with your first meal in your new home.

✅ No rank restrictions
✅ Dual military welcome
✅️ Service Member has at least 1 dependent (for military families)

Because starting fresh shouldn’t mean starting empty 💛.

Let MFAN Welcome you home 🏡 ❤️

To register for a box head over to:
https://welcome.mfan.org/pcs

Or connect directly to:
Military Family Advisory Network

If you havent recently moved, but know someone who has please share so they don't miss out on this great resource!

16/09/2025

Every military spouse knows this moment: the see you later, the quiet house, the juggling of everything while still missing your safe place. Sharing my heart (and a few laughs) about what it’s really like when he leaves. New blog up now

There’s a moment every military spouse knows too well. The ride to the drop-off. The packed bags by the door. The quiet car ride where everyone’s trying to be brave. The last hug before he steps on…