The Seasoned MilSo

11/11/2025

Today, we honor every veteran — past and present — who has worn the uniform with courage, integrity, and heart. 🇺🇸

To my husband, who served as a Marine and continues to serve in the Army — your dedication, leadership, and love for this country inspire me every day. 💚

Behind every service member is a story, a family, and a legacy of strength. Thank you to all who’ve served and to those who continue to carry the torch. We see you. We honor you. We’re grateful for you.

Happy Veterans Day — from The Seasoned MilSo and our family to yours.

10/11/2025

250 years of the Marine Corps — and I get to celebrate one of the few, the proud, right here at home.

Five years in the Corps and now seven in the Army (and counting), yet once a Marine, always a Marine.

His love for the military started with the Marines (all began in 2009)— and that foundation shaped the leader he is today. A man who leads with care, integrity, and purpose.

Today, I’m thankful — for all Marines, and especially for the one who first showed me what it means to serve with heart. ❤️
Happy 250th Birthday, Marines! 🇺🇸

** photo was taken when my husband returned from Afghanistan in 2013 and met our Vanellope for the first time. She was 2 months old.

23/10/2025

Every home has a story — ours just happens to be written in service, love, and a whole lot of moments being made. 🇺🇸
This beautiful wreath from Wreaths By Nicole isn’t just décor; it’s a symbol of our journey — from my husband’s time in the Marine Corps to his service now in the Army. It brings our story full circle and reminds us that home is wherever the military sends us… as long as we’re together. 💚

If you’re looking for a meaningful, one-of-a-kind piece that captures your family’s military journey, Wreaths by Nicole offers custom designs, ready-made options, connect with her today so she can help you create something truly special for your service member or veteran.

20/10/2025

Sometimes people don’t really understand the life we live as a military family. You often hear, “you signed up for it,” but the truth is — we didn’t sign up to be military spouses. We signed up to love our person. The military just came with the package.

My husband has always been passionate about serving our country, and we’re proud to stand beside him. But this life isn’t always easy — for him or for us. It comes with constant changes, distance, and moments that test our strength.

Through it all, our faith and love keep us going. Faith gives us peace when things feel uncertain, and love reminds us why we keep showing up every day.

And honestly, life in general has been pretty chaotic for most people lately. With everything happening in the world — what we see in the media, the news, and across social media — there’s a lot of uncertainty for everyone. As a military family, we’re right in the midst of that too. We understand the unknown, the unexpected, and the ever-changing.

That’s why I always remind myself: no matter what happens, no matter what the future holds — at least we have each other. And at least we can make the most of the time we have right now.

Because let’s be honest, material things come and go. We get so caught up in the 9-to-5 grind that we forget why we’re doing it. What we’re working for is right in front of us — it’s our family, our home, our love.

Everyone has their own reason for pushing forward — whether it’s family, a spouse, a personal goal, or a dream they’re chasing. For me, my purpose is my family. And for my husband, his purpose is us.

I don’t want anyone to feel like life is failing them. Because in those moments of struggle or setback — that’s when we rise up and discover who we truly are. We’re meant to be there for one another, to lift each other up, to be each other’s support. That’s especially true in military life, because our service members go through so much that most people never see or fully understand. Being their support matters.

Right now, duty calls again. And when he returns, it’ll be time to prepare for the next one. So we’re choosing to slow down, hold each other close, and appreciate every moment we’re given.

To anyone walking through a season of uncertainty — military or not — keep pressing forward. You’re not done yet. Your purpose is still unfolding.

Cherish your time, lean on faith, and remember: love truly is what carries us through it all. 💚

— The Seasoned MilSo

16/10/2025

Veterans Day is coming up and I wanted something special to honor my husband’s service — something that carried a piece of his story. 💚
That’s when I found Wreaths by Nicole — she turns military uniforms into beautiful wreaths that celebrate our heroes and their families. 🪖🇺🇸

Follow her shop Wreaths By Nicole

Check out my latest Seasoned MilSo comic highlighting this beautifully unique gift.

27/09/2025

Hello fellow Seasoneds.

There really are no sick days for mommas—we just keep going. With my husband away because duty calls, I of course get sick and now sound like the Cookie Monster (which the kids think is hilarious).

But life doesn’t stop. Soccer games, a fridge that needs restocking, tires that need replacing… it all still has to get done. Military life isn’t glamorous. This week we said “see you later” in the dark, while most of the world was still asleep. I was in work clothes, the kids in school clothes, and we were all exhausted. I held back tears to show him “I got this,” but as soon as he walked away, I cried.

He’s my safe place. And whether it’s a week, a month, or months—it’s always hard. Love is what keeps us all going. ❤️ And if this sickness gets worse and if your experiencing a similar situation, remember, remind yourself: moms can’t pour from an empty cup. Rest matters too. YOU MATTER!

23/09/2025

If you’ve PCS’d, you know the drill… 👋
Goodbye half-used ketchup, soy sauce, and ALL the pantry staples.
Hello empty shelves + $$$ spent to buy it all back 😩.

That’s why I LOVE that MFAN created the PCS Pantry Restock Program 💙.

📦 Families who moved to Fort Bliss, Fort Hood, or Camp Lejeune in the last 90 days can get a FREE mailed box of pantry essentials + a Walmart gift card 🛒 to help with your first meal in your new home.

✅ No rank restrictions
✅ Dual military welcome
✅️ Service Member has at least 1 dependent (for military families)

Because starting fresh shouldn’t mean starting empty 💛.

Let MFAN Welcome you home 🏡 ❤️

To register for a box head over to:
https://welcome.mfan.org/pcs

Or connect directly to:
Military Family Advisory Network

If you havent recently moved, but know someone who has please share so they don't miss out on this great resource!

16/09/2025

Every military spouse knows this moment: the see you later, the quiet house, the juggling of everything while still missing your safe place. Sharing my heart (and a few laughs) about what it’s really like when he leaves. New blog up now

There’s a moment every military spouse knows too well. The ride to the drop-off. The packed bags by the door. The quiet car ride where everyone’s trying to be brave. The last hug before he steps on…

11/09/2025

Never forget 🇺🇸
Today we pause to remember the lives lost on 9/11, the heroes who ran toward danger, and the families who still carry that weight. As a military family, we know freedom comes with sacrifice, and it’s something we must always protect. In light of yesterday’s events, we’re reminded that our fight for truth, freedom, and unity continues every day. With respect for all who serve, and for all who stand strong in the face of adversity—we will never forget, and we will never stop standing together. May we carry that courage forward with faith, resilience, and hope for the generations to come.

25/08/2025

Hello fellow Seasoneds.

So today was a big day—I started a new job! 🎉 I’m really excited because it gives me the chance to help other military families like ours. That’s something I’ve always believed in: as spouses, we’re stronger when we support one another, whether it’s through advice, encouragement, or just showing up when someone needs an extra hand.

But of course, my first day didn’t exactly start off picture-perfect. My husband is gearing up for another duty call that’s going to take him away from home for a while—maybe even with little to no contact. And if you know, you know… that means gear prep. Checklists on checklists, inspections, uniforms, and gear everywhere. It can be overwhelming to tackle alone, so I was right there with him this morning trying to make sure everything was squared away.

Between the gear chaos, the kids, breakfast, and packing lunches, somehow his PC (cover/hat) didn’t make it into the bag. And of course, he needed it right after PT. No PC = no walking out of the building. So guess who was on the road for a 30-minute drive to drop it off? 🚗 I’ve done that drive plenty of times—sometimes 5 minutes, sometimes 15, sometimes 30 depending on where we’ve lived—but when they need it, you just do it.

By the time I got back, it was almost time for my first work call. I could’ve let the stress of the morning get to me, but instead I reminded myself to take a breath, reset, and be fully present. And honestly, it went really well. 🙌

That’s military life, right? Things don’t always go as planned. We can’t control the chaos, the unexpected, or the moments that throw us off track—but we can control how we respond. And that’s what I carried with me into today.

I’m so excited for what this new journey holds—for me, for my family, and for the opportunity to pour back into our military community. That’s why I started The Seasoned MilSo in the first place. Each of us is “seasoned” in our own way, and together we make this life a little bit easier, a little bit stronger, and a lot more meaningful. 💛

Here’s to new beginnings, adapting to the unexpected, and showing up for each other along the way.

Till next time.
As Always,
Stay Seasoned.

16/08/2025

Laundry or treasure hunt? 🕵️‍♀️✨ Military spouse life = never knowing what’s in those pockets! 😂

Read my latest comic blog and see what I uncovered this time. 👖💥
https://theseasonedmilso.wordpress.com/2025/08/15/mission-pocket-recon-the-hidden-treasures-of-laundry-day/

👉 What’s the wildest thing you’ve ever pulled out of a yout service members pocket?

15/08/2025

Laundry day or archaeological dig? Military spouse life is full of surprises! Read my blog today to see what treasures I uncover.

Any other military spouses out there who do their husband’s laundry know exactly what I’m talking about. You toss his clothes in the wash, thinking it’s a normal load, only to discover that black i…