20/07/2026
The Reciprocity Gap
What I Really Mean When I Say, "I Have No Friends."
I have no friends. Not in a way that I dislike others. Quite the opposite, actually. Perhaps others dislike me, and maybe that is something I should concern myself with more.
Maybe friends are a distraction from self-realization. Maybe they are the guides and mentors that lead to self-realization. It might be that community is more about the whole than the individuals that make up the whole....
What I Really Mean When I Say, “I Have No Friends.” I have no friends. Not in a way that I dislike others. Quite the opposite, actually. Perhaps others dislike me, and maybe that is som…