All It Costs, Is Love (2025)

18/02/2025

When a woman is messing with more than one man, she get mean to the one she’s lying to.

This is the truth and she usually gets mean to the one she’s been in long time committed relationship with reason being because she’s cheating, she starts fights out of nowhere, Tell him he’s not good enough and makes him feel like he’s the reason the relationship is falling apart all this so she can disappear for hours or days and be with another man. Then eventually when she’s done with her dirty game, she will apologize or say what he wants to hear just to get him back where she wants him, but makes no mistake it’s only matter of time b4 she does it again and she will still do it for you as long as you allow her to. You deserve someone who’s honest and loyal not someone who manipulates your love stop letting her lies steal your peace.
Set boundaries walk away and reclaim your worth, your happiness should never depend on her guilt trips. The moment you stop accepting the disrespect she will either change or leave.
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10/11/2024

THE BENEFITS OF MAKING LOVE IN THE MORNING for married couple

1. IT MAKES GOOD USE OF THE MAN'S ER****ON
Most men wake up with an er****on, it is good for this hardness not to go to waste

2. IT BOOSTS THE WIFE'S SELF-ESTEEM
When a woman wakes up naked to her husband admiring her, desiring her and wanting her; she ends up feeling s*xy, beautiful and confident even before she dresses up

3. IT STARTS THE DAY RIGHT WITH INTIMACY
The best way to say good morning is with intimacy. Sweet love making, kisses, heartfelt words and prayer

4. IT BRINGS OUT A GLOW
When both the man and the woman feel loved up, they exude an inner positive vibe that others around them pick

5. IT GIVES YOU SOMETHING TO SMILE ABOUT THE WHOLE DAY
Through out the day, both of them will find each other smiling, reminiscing about the morning. Maybe they will even text or call each other just to connect

6. IT MAKES STAYING FAITHFUL EASIER
When your body is s*xually satisfied in the morning, it is difficult to fall into temptation in the middle of the day. Unfaithfulness breeds where there is a vacuum

7. IT WAKES YOU UP PROPERLY
If you are sleepy or struggling to wake up, some good pumping, grinding, moaning, riding and touching will definitely wake you up

8. IT BLESSES THE CHILDREN
Because there is warmth in the bedroom in love making, that warmth will spread to the entire house with the children witnessing the love between mom and dad

9. IT CELEBRATES LOVE IN A NEW DAY
No matter how good or bad yesterday was, an episode of sweet love making sets the right tone today

10. IT MAKES YOU LOOK FORWARD TO COMING HOME
Since the day started in a memorable way, both husband and wife will miss each other and will long to see each other later in the day.

11. It reduces stress, headache, cramps, slimming tablet as well and brings out the better you in the relashionship.

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24/10/2024

LADIES PLEASE TAKE NOTE!!!!!

Men attend to Women for two reasons, S*X, and LOVE, but in most cases, men do not Marry for S*x or for Love, they marry for STABILITY.

Let me explain

A man can Love you and not Marry you. A man can have s*x with you for years without marrying you. But immediately he finds someone who brings stability in his life, he marries her.

What I mean by Stability is "Peace of Mind" I have seen some guys who made this statement "I love this lady but I don't think I can spend the rest of my life with her." Men are visionaries when they think about marriage, they do not think about wedding dresses, bridesmaids, anything that most Ladies thinks is fanciful.

They think whether this woman can build me a home,Can she take care of my kids and I,Can she give me PEACE of mind?. Men don't like Ladies who gives them discomfort, This is why a man can stay with a woman for years and meet another in a month, then get married to her.

It's the comfort of having Peace of Mind they want. S*x is a pleasure, love is an affection, RESPECT is Stability.

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22/10/2024

Not for children under 18 years 🔞

A true friend is like a p***s, he stands up for you in times of need. A genuine friend is like a bra, she supports you at all times. A faithful friend is like a condom , he protects you from all harm. A loving friend is like a va**na, she accomodates you fully despite the size of your problem.

⭕1. Ka*****ra says : If you suck one ni**le, the woman herself offers the other one. And that was the origin of "buy one get one free"!

⭕2. Did you ever notice: everything on a woman's upper body starts with a "B". Blouse, Bra, Bikini, B***s & lower body with a "P" Peticoat, panties, ... That's origin of "BP"!

⭕3. Before s*x, you help each other get naked. After s*x, you dress only yourself. Moral: In life no one helps you once you're f..ked.

⭕4. Success is like pregnancy. Everybody congratulates you but nobody knows how many times you got fu**ed to achieve it.

⭕5. Life is like a dick, sometimes it becomes hard for no reason.

⭕6. Practical thought: A husband is supposed to make his wife's panties wet, not her eyes. A wife is supposed to make her husband's dick hard, not his life..!

⭕When a lady is pregnant,
all her friends touch her stomach ad say "Congrats!".
But none of them come and touch the man's P***s and say "Well done!".

Moral: Hard work is never appreciated: Only results matter.

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19/10/2024

QUALITIES OF A GOOD FATHER AND HUSBAND:

Here are key qualities of a good father and husband:

*Good Father:*

1. Loving and Supportive: Provides emotional support and guidance.
2. Responsible: Provides for family's physical and financial needs.
3. Involved: Engages in children's lives, activities, and education.
4. Positive Role Model: Demonstrates values, integrity, and morality.
5. Communicative: Listens and communicates effectively.
6. Patient and Understanding: Empathizes with children's struggles.
7. Disciplinarian: Sets boundaries, teaches life skills.
8. Playful: Spends quality time, having fun with children.
9. Reliable: Follows through on commitments.
10. Self-Improving: Strives to be a better parent.

*Good Husband:*

1. Loving and Affectionate: Shows love, appreciation, and gratitude.
2. Supportive Partner: Encourages spouse's goals, dreams.
3. Communicative: Listens actively, expresses thoughts and feelings.
4. Trustworthy: Demonstrates honesty, integrity, loyalty.
5. Respectful: Values spouse's opinions, boundaries.
6. Responsible: Shares household and financial responsibilities.
7. Emotionally Intelligent: Recognizes, manages emotions.
8. Romantic: Surprises, dates, and prioritizes spouse.
9. Flexible: Adapts to changing circumstances.
10. Committed: Prioritizes marriage, family.

*Shared Qualities:*

1. Integrity: Demonstrates honesty, ethics.
2. Accountability: Takes responsibility for actions.
3. Emotional Intelligence: Recognizes, manages emotions.
4. Empathy: Understands, supports family members.
5. Patience: Manages stress, frustration.
6. Humor: Brings joy, laughter to family.
7. Self-Awareness: Recognizes strengths, weaknesses.
8. Gratitude: Appreciates family, life.
9. Forgiveness: Lets go of grudges, resentments.
10. Love: Prioritizes family, relationships.

*Tips for Development:*

1. Self-reflection and self-improvement.
2. Seek feedback from family, friends.
3. Practice active listening and communication.

14/10/2024

THINGS YOU WILL NOTICE IN A WOMAN THAT REALLY WANTS TO MARRY YOU:

Signs a woman truly wants to marry you:

_Verbal Cues:_

1. Talks about future and long-term plans
2. Mentions marriage, children, and family
3. Asks about your goals, aspirations, and values
4. Expresses commitment and loyalty
5. Uses "we" and "us" frequently

_Behavioral Signs:_

1. Introduces you to family and close friends
2. Includes you in important decisions
3. Shows interest in your past, present, and future
4. Supports your goals and aspirations
5. Spends quality time with you

_Emotional Signs:_

1. Emotional intimacy and connection
2. Vulnerability and openness
3. Empathy and understanding
4. Affection and physical touch
5. Genuine interest in your well-being

_Action-Oriented Signs:_

1. Plans and prepares for the future
2. Discusses financial goals and security
3. Considers your opinions and values
4. Makes sacrifices for the relationship
5. Works on personal growth and self-improvement

_Biblical Signs:_

1. "Wives, submit to your husbands." (Ephesians 5:22)
2. "Love is patient and kind." (1 Corinthians 13:4)
3. "Seek wisdom and understanding." (Proverbs 4:7)
4. "Nurture and cherish one another." (Ephesians 5:29)
5. "Marriage is honorable." (Hebrews 13:4)

_Other Signs:_

1. She prioritizes communication.
2. Respects boundaries and values.
3. Shows interest in your faith.
4. Supports personal growth.
5. Celebrates milestones together.

_Tips for Men:_

1. Communicate openly and honestly.
2. Observe consistency in words and actions.
3. Evaluate shared values and goals.
4. Prioritize emotional connection.
5. Seek wise counsel and guidance.

Remember:

1. Verbal and non-verbal cues matter.
2. Consistency reveals true intentions.
3. Shared values and goals are essential.
4. Emotional connection is vital.
5. God's plan prioritizes love and respect.

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12/10/2024

The Sweetest Moments for Women During Sëx

It's unfortunate that so many women are engaged in sëx with their partners, but only a few have been able to enjoy the highest pleasure from it.

Or**sm is the sweetest thing a woman can experience in her entire life during sëx.

About Having Sëx:
Free your mind, body, and soul. Tune your spirit to s*x; put your mind on it before your husband starts romancing you. Remember, no matter the type of romance, if you are not mentally prepared, it is unlikely to happen.

Secondly, as a woman, you need to understand yourself. Know the parts of your body that usually turn you on easily. Some women are turned on when you stimulate their clîtôrîs, some by their breasts—especially the ni**les—and some when they are fingered or when the G-**ot is stimulated—just to name a few.

During sëx, don't forget to communicate by telling him what you like and where to touch you the most. Communication is very important here. For example;
Some women prefer it fast, while others love it when they are taken gently.

During this period, explore more of the styles you love; sometimes riding him while he touches your ni**les can easily stimulate your hormones and help you reach or**sm.

For Men:
A woman might not tell you all these things, but as a good man, one of the secrets to helping a woman reach or**sm is foreplay. A good romance can easily lead her to that, for example,
Sucking breasts, giving oral stimulation—especially to the clîtôrîs—fingering, and kissing her thighs, navel, ears, and neck are just a few examples.

Most importantly, some women go crazy when you use your tongue to gently massage their clîtôrîs and breasts before pe*******on.

Penetrating a woman requires good techniques. Don't center yourself in the middle and start going in and out; she won't feel anything. Sometimes they feel more pain than pleasure during direct pe*******on, except for women who have deeper vâgînäs.

Good pe*******on is usually done at an angle

12/10/2024

SE**X EDUCATION👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼

TOPIC: CHALLENGES COUPLES GO THROUGH IN THEIR SE**X LIFE AND REMEDIES (SINGLE STAY OFF)

Good se**x starts with words......
Se**x is a game that happens between couples. If it's a game, then talking must not be taken away.

For every game, people talk before the game, during and after the game.
If liverpool will play Man unity. The fans brag about who will win. Please brag with your husband before you start the se**x, start bragging from the morning while going to the office. Example
"I feel like knacking you but we will be late, I will catch you when you come back to this house"
"There is no style I imagine, let's come back from office, I will show you pepper"
"It's like you want to go to the office with my pu**ssy" 😂 🤣 🤣 then you all laugh about it (This is part of being romantic)
"Come here, let's drink this herbs, in the evening, the match must be hot" You are couples, for crying out loud, there is nothing to be ashamed about.
"Tell your spouse, "I am h***y". It's a blessing for your spouse to be h***y towards you.
There are things that side chick and that man that want to sleep with your wife do, before it happens.

"Foreplay is good as a Christian"
"Raw talk with your wife is good as a child of God"

After se**x, let your couple knows you enjoy the se**x.
"Thank you my love, I really enjoyed you"
"You are so sweet"
"You are so beautiful "

These are more words will make him or her to do more next time

Then, tell your spouse, where you always want him or her to torch before, during and after se**x. Most women want their husbands to hold them tight, after he release. Don't rush to the bathroom, hold her. If that's what she enjoys

Stop making your spouse feels, it's a sin to have se**x the way he or she wants it.
Let's look at some few challenges couples face in their se**x life and the remedies. As you change your approach, your marriage will be sweet again

Continuation on 1st comment

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11/10/2024

WHAT KILLS LOVE?

1. LACK OF COMMUNICATION
The less you two communicate, the more you two slowly learn to live without each other. The more you two take breaks from each other, the faster love dies

2. ENDLESS FIGHTS
Constant fighting will make you two avoid each other for the sake of peace, thus drifting apart

3. LACK OF MUTUAL ACTIVITIES
Yes, you two might be in different careers and have different likes; but if you don't have common activities to do together, the bond will fade

4. AFFAIRS
Affairs distract, your love for each other withers

5. ADDICTIONS
Addictions such as p**n or alcohol take the best of our time and we end up defending the addiction more than the relationship, we get too hooked to see how we are neglecting or hurting our partner

6. THIRD PARTIES
You might end up siding with third parties such as parents, friends or siblings to the point that they pull you away from your spouse

7. LACK OF APPRECIATION
The more appreciation lacks, the more loving starts to feel like a strain; worst of all is when things are done, not out of joy but obligation as a spouse

8. UNFORGIVENESS
Your heart cannot love and hold a grudge at the same time

9. DISTANCE
Physical distance but most of all, emotional distance can make two people fall out; try as much as possible to connect as a couple

10. WORK
When your work or business becomes too demanding, you might struggle to balance, and your love life, because it appears not to have financial value, might suffer the consequences

11. BLAME GAME
When you two keep exchanging blames and finding fault in each other, you will begin to dislike each other's company

12. LACK OF EFFORT
Love doesn't just happen, doesn't just grow; it needs constant watering, nurturing and attention. If you both don't put in the effort, it will gradually die

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10/10/2024

LONELINESS WHILE IN A RELATIONSHIP OR MARRIAGE:

Loneliness in a relationship or marriage:

_Causes:_

1. Emotional disconnection
2. Lack of communication
3. Unmet emotional needs
4. Different interests and values
5. Infidelity or trust issues

_Signs:_

1. Feeling unheard or unseen
2. Emotional numbness
3. Disconnection from partner
4. Feeling like roommates, not partners
5. Lack of intimacy and affection

_Effects:_

1. Depression and anxiety
2. Low self-esteem
3. Resentment and anger
4. Feelings of isolation
5. Relationship dissatisfaction

_Reasons Why It Happens:_

1. Changing priorities
2. Life transitions (e.g., parenthood)
3. Trauma or past experiences
4. Personality differences
5. Lack of relationship maintenance

_Overcoming Loneliness:_

1. Rekindle emotional intimacy
2. Practice active communication
3. Schedule quality time together
4. Address unmet emotional needs
5. Seek counseling or therapy

_Strategies:_

1. Regular date nights
2. Shared hobbies and interests
3. Meaningful conversations
4. Emotional vulnerability
5. Physical touch and affection

_When to Seek Help:_

1. Persistent feelings of loneliness
2. Relationship dissatisfaction
3. Communication breakdown
4. Emotional distress
5. Considering separation or divorce

Remember:

1. Loneliness can occur in any relationship.
2. Communication is key to reconnecting.
3. Emotional intimacy is essential.
4. Relationship maintenance is crucial.
5. Seeking help is a sign of strength.

Address loneliness by reigniting emotional connection, improving communication, and nurturing your relationship.

Additional Tips:

1. Practice empathy and understanding.
2. Show appreciation and gratitude.
3. Foster independence within the relationship.
4. Cultivate shared goals and values.
5. Prioritize quality time together.

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10/10/2024

10 REASONS WHY YOUR WIFE WANTS YOU HOME EARLY

1. The night is the most intimate time. Who you give your night to, is your priority

2. She wants your children to bond with you before they sleep

3. You are the King of the house. Why be absent yet your presence at home is needed as head of the home?

4. She wants to catch up with you and know how each other's day has been before she gets tired and sleep

5. To make love to you. At night is when she often feels h***y, touchy, sensual and in need of attention

6. To end the day right. She doesn't feel OK sleeping without sufficiently talking with you

7. Because your home is not a lodge that you go to late in the night just to sleep. Come home early so that you enjoy your family

8. To pray with you. Prayer needs to be allocated to time

9. To eat with you and the family

10. To know you are OK. You are a grown man but she'll feel safe when you are home, lying on her thighs or bosom, cuddling with her

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09/10/2024

WHAT HURTS A MAN

1. It hurts a man when his wife speaks to other people with more respect and warmth than she does with him

2. It hurts a man when his wife treats him well only when there are visitors

3. It hurts a man when his wife makes him feel less important to the children just because he doesn't have a womb

4. It hurts a man when he is always the one to say sorry even for the things he is not wrong for just because she is emotionally delicate

5. It hurts a man when the wife airs their dirty linen in public, telling her family and friends his flaws and tainting his image

6. It hurts a man when the wife is ever moody, unapproachable, cold and combative, making him feel uncomfortable to come home early

7. It hurts a man when he watches his wife smiling and blushing when she reads text messages from other men over the phone but brushes him off and assumes his presence

8. It hurts a man when the wife is distant, spiteful, not responsive to his touch, mad and not telling him what she is mad for

9. It hurts a man when the wife keeps getting confusing advice from her friends, outsiders and third parties are wrecking what belongs to two

10. It hurts a man when the wife sees nothing else but his negatives. She rarely appreciates his good

11. It hurts a man when the wife does not move past a resolved issue. She is stuck in matters that they agreed to progress from

12. It hurts a man when the wife speaks to him with a tone as if to boss him, order him around or belittle him

13. It hurts a man when the wife doesn't honour him or his effort just because he doesn't earn that much

14. It hurts a man when the wife uses him to get a comfortable life but then she turns to another man for emotional and s*xual comfort

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