16/09/2024
Your man/husband is going through financial difficulties, Its not by : Babe talk to me. Iâm here for you.
If you are a smart person you would observe your man, his mood and the events surrounding him.
Not everything a man fit to talk about. He needs his space so he can feel strong and less vulnerable.
Also, stop pressuring him to talk to you and playing v|ctim when he doesnât. You are not the v|ctim here ma.
Man is going through series of rapid collision of mental health issues and you have the guts to blackmail him?
One thing every woman must accept is that your man will not always share his pain with you. Heâd rather protect you from it.
Forcing him to speak up or blaming yourself is a stark reminder that heâs performing badly. He doesnât need that.
If you truly want to help out and help him get better, Stop nagging, Stop blackmailing and observe his surrounding.
Little things can make a huge difference.
You can replace his toothpaste or bathing soap without asking him. You could change his perfume.
Do you know how uplifting he would feel going to bath and noticing a brand new toothpaste he didnât have to pay for?
Do you know how sweet it will be to pay for his haircut? Or help him wash or organise his apartment.
The thing's on your manâs head are things you cannot comprehend even if he lands you an alphabetical explanation.
So let the sleeping dog lie and try to brighten his day with the little things that adds color to his life.
Who knows? One day, when heâs ready he may tell you about whatever he was going through and youâd all smile over it.
Depressed men need power, not sympathy, not pity or pampering, He needs respect and cheering and acts of service.
Good luck and God bless all the men fighting hard and to the women who know how to honor a man. â¤ď¸