24/07/2026
If planning gave you the same results as doing you would probably have been able to fix the problem that you are experiencing by now.
Sadly, planning and doing are not the same thing. So, that might be keeping you stuck!
Here’s an example: Do you ever set a weight loss goal where you've planned out every single thing you're going to do for the next month?
Your foods are written down.
You know exactly when you're going to eat.
The ingredients are already purchased. The plan is set.
You're even telling people about it: "I've got this goal,
I know exactly what I'm gonna do, I'm gonna lose 30 pounds, and this is what it's gonna look like."
And then you tuck that notebook away… and don't look at it again for a month.
Every day becomes: "I'm gonna get on that plan soon. It's gonna start. I've got it all written down."
That's not preparation.
That's procrastination…and procrastination is a perfectionist's self-handicapping tool.
If you're living in that space, you're self-sabotaging. And if you're self-sabotaging, that's a lack of self-love.
Where has "the plan" become a place to hide instead of a place to start? Tell me below. 👇
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