Toxic Male Manifesto

03/08/2025

02/08/2025

100 percent true

01/08/2025

Actually, I can, and I can rebuild a motor, fix a washing machine, repair a computer and change a bike tire. I can also cook and clean but I rarely do as my wife does that.

Well

04/07/2025

Who here remembers the non stop pickup ball games at the local park? Baseball and football. Everyday, I would head down to the park after breakfast, glove, bat and ball in hand and at least 4 or 5 kids were already picking teams. We played non stop and the next kid to arrive went on whatever team was short 1 player. Did not matter how big you were, what gender. When we had to go home, we left. Score 321 to 299 by supper and some stayed on until dark. I never knew who organized them, I just joined in. They had a non stop football game going too, I just never played.

28/06/2025

Yep, 100 percent.

18/06/2025

Yep..

09/06/2025

Only the toxic ones. The others want stuff.

07/06/2025

Yep. And fights are still normal as long as you both resolve those issues.

🪐🙌🍀 How to avoid fights in your marriage
1. Listen patiently before reacting.
2. Express your emotions without blaming.
3. Pause the conversation if emotions escalate.
4. Prioritize solutions over winning.
5. Say sorry quickly when you're wrong.
6. Keep your tone calm during disagreements.
7. Avoid bringing up past issues unnecessarily.
8. See their point of view before defending yours.
9. Pick the right time to talk about sensitive matters.
10. Remind each other that you're a team.
11. Clear up misunderstandings before they grow.
12. Avoid arguing in front of others.
13. Accept differences without trying to "fix" them.
14. Use humor to ease tension.
15. Focus on what you can control, not your partner.
16. Don't argue when you're tired, hungry, or stressed.
17. Praise more often than you criticize.
18. Set healthy boundaries for communication.
19. Stay patient during disagreements.
20. Remember: love matters more than being right.

07/06/2025

Great life lessons.

07/06/2025

Actually, this man and many I know, don't want flowers.