
10/07/2025
In their first piece for shado, writes about the radical worldbuilding potential of q***r parenthood - as a metaphor and a practice.
But what does this look like? As they write: “It would mean taking the village seriously. Allowing ourselves to need each other; revisiting Indigenous modes of parenting. Because the nuclear family, as it is presented to us, does not serve our interests – it serves capitalism.
To imagine otherwise would mean choosing to stray from all of that.
And it would also mean giving ourselves permission to imagine beyond scarcity and obedience – to see care, not control, as the foundation of life. To treat parenting not as destiny or obligation, but as one way to expand how we show up for each other.”
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[id: Sisanda’s title over Khanya’s illustration, which shows a baby being lifted up by many different hands, with colourful nail polish.]