kosi Nwa malunze

  • Home
  • kosi Nwa malunze

kosi Nwa malunze Be the best of who u are always. digital creator
(3)

03/01/2025

Advice to all employees.

1. Build a house earlier. Whether rural house or urban house. Building a house at 50 is not a feat. Don't get used to government homes. This comfort is so dangerous. Let your whole family have a good time in your home.

2. Go home and meet your family after work. Don't stay at work all year round. You are not the pillar of your department. If you die today, you will be replaced immediately and operations will continue. Make your family a priority.

3. Do not run after promotions. Master your skills and be excellent in what you do. If they want to promote you, it's good if they don't, stay positive for your personal development.

4. Avoid office or work gossip. Avoid things that tarnish your name or reputation. Do not join the moving train that bites your bosses and colleagues. Get away from negative gatherings that have only people lives as a point of discussion.

5. Never compete with your bosses. You will burn your fingers. Don't compete with your colleagues, you're going to grill your brain.

6. Make sure you have a secondary activity that’s side businesses. Your salary will not support your long-term needs.

7. Save money. That it is automatically deducted from your pay slip.

8. Borrow a loan that will be deducted directly from your salary to invest in a business or send your kids to studies abroad or build your own house not to buy luxury. Buy luxury with your profit.

9. Keep your life, your marriage and your family private. Let them stay away from work. It is very important.

10. Be loyal to yourself and believe in your work. Staying around your boss will alienate you from your colleagues and your boss could finally drop you when he leaves.

11. Retire early. The best way to plan your outing was when you received the job confirmation letter. The other best time is today. From 40 to 50 years old, be outside.

12. Integrate positive unions and associations at work and always be an active member. This will help you a lot when a possibility occurs.

13. Take days off, use them by developing your future home or your projects. Generally, what you do during your days off is a reflection of the way you live after your retirement. If it means that you spend your off days while holding a remote control watching series and movies on Netflix, expect nothing different after retirement.

14. Start a project while still in service or working. Let your project run while you are at work and if it does not work well, start another until it works viable. When your project is working hard, retire to run your business. Most people or retirees fail in life because they retire to start a project instead of retiring to continue leading their projects.

15. Pension money is not to start a project, buy a stand or build a house, but it is money for your maintenance or to maintain yourself in good health. Pension money is not used to pay tuition fees or to marry a young woman, but to take care of yourself.

16. Always remember, when you retire, never be a case study for living a miserable life after retirement, but be a model for your colleagues to also think about retiring.

17. Don't retire just because you are done or are now a burden on the business and just wait for your day to die. Take your retirement young or while being energetic to enjoy the alarm clock, to have a cup of coffee, to enjoy the sun, to receive money from your company, to visit a beautiful place that you missed and to have a good time with family. Those who retire late spend about 95% of their time at work than with their families and that is why they see it difficult to spend time with their family when they retire but end up looking for another job until they have no other job, they die early.

18. It’s important you retire in the house that you built while you were still active rather than the government housing so that when you retire, you can easily integrate into the society that raised you. It is not easy to adapt financially to live in a rental houses when you’re retired while you had the opportunity to build your own house.

19. Never let your benefits make you forget your retirement. The job benefits are just intended to relax, finish while the weather is moving. Remember when you retire, no one will call you a boss if you don't have a viable business.

20. Do not hate to retire because one day you will retire either voluntarily or involuntarily. I hope this will help you see life positively.

PEACE ✌🏿


07/11/2024

Don't Cry: See Things You Need To Know About End Of Relationship And you'll Be Happy Again. Love has no culture, boundaries, race and religion. It is pure and beautiful likethe moon's reflection on a quiet lake.Love hurts when you breakup with someone.Hurts even more when someonebreaks up with youBut love hurts the most,when the person you love has no idea of how you feel.Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to doesn't mean they don’t love you with all they have. Every woman's heart has different instructions. They're written through her eyes, in her smile, through her actions and in her tears. She just has to find someone who cares enoughto read them. Too often we under estimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around.ListenThe end of a relationships is not the end of life. It's just an end of a certain chapter in our lives. Meaning life has togo on and there many other chapters toread. All we have to do is to gather our broken pieces, nurse our hearts and move on.Forget what hurt you in the past but never forget what it taught you. Everybody deserves second chances, but not for the same mistakes. If someone you love hurts you, one of thebest things you can do is to move on and find happiness elsewhere.Don't give them the satisfaction of seeing you suffer. Let go when you're hurting too much, give up when love isn’t enough, and move on when thingsaren’t like before. Surely there is someone out there who will love you more.

04/11/2024

Your Most Enemies Are People You Have HELPED🤌🏾 They’re First To Throw Stones At You.

03/11/2024

A clear and clean mind will always see the plans of the Enemies

02/11/2024

WHY MEN ARE CALLED "GROOM” AND WOMEN, THE "BRIDE” ON WEDDING DAY:

Why is the newly wedded man called GROOM and the woman called BRIDE? A friend of mine got tired of his WIFE just about six months after wedding. He complained bitterly to me about her and told me that he has concluded to break up with her; he went on to say that he was sure that he made a mistake. I did not respond immediately because I knew I must tell him the right thing, so I went home. And that is what birth this message.

Many MEN have broken up with their WIVES because they end up not being the WIFE that they have dreamt of. But they have forgotten that on their wedding day was when the man was commissioned for the new task.
Nobody calls the woman WIFE on her wedding day but BRIDE, because it is the man that will GROOM his BRIDE to become the WIFE. That is why the man is called ‘BRIDEGROOM or GROOM’ and the word grooming has to do with PATIENTLY NURTURING, TEACHING, TENDING and HELPING someone to become what he or she should be.
It is therefore believed that a MAN that takes a WOMAN to the ALTAR of MARRIAGE is matured enough to patiently GROOM his BRIDE to become the WIFE. The man is not supposed to just expect the BRIDE to automatically become the WIFE, she must be groomed.
It is clear that many men have unnecessary expectations when they were getting married, they want some magic to happen to their wives, they want them to become what they have had in mind about who they want their wives to be; not considering the fact that the woman does not know what is on your mind except you teach her.
Our expectations are often too unrealistic, because we don’t remember that change takes TIME and we can only expect something from someone that knows what we want.

So before you think of breaking up, have you groomed her?

02/11/2024

Before you start building a relationships with anyone ,first find out who owns the land...
It might be a community land..🥹🥹🤔🤔

02/11/2024

Don't forget, while you are busy doubting yourself, someone else is admiring your strength.

02/11/2024

My matrimonial home can never turn into hell for me

Rather it will continue to be a blessing to me and my generation.
Amen

02/11/2024

Lying will put you in a place you don't like. They is no harm in being truthful

02/11/2024

When you give someone a chance, set boundaries. Dont be a fool for the second time because you think or feel you have a good heart.

31/10/2024

LADIES A WAKE UP CALL TO THOSE WHO KILL THEMSELVES OVER HOUSEWORK...
Reminder:
A few years ago, my friend had just crossed age 50. Just about 8 days later she was struck with an ailment, and she died swiftly.
In the group chat, we received a condolence message that says, "Sad, she is no more with us".
Two months later I called her husband. A thought crossed my mind ... he must be devastated as he had a travelling job. Till her death she would oversee everything... home, education of their children, taking care of the aged in-laws, their sickness, managing relatives, everything, everything, everything!
She would express at times...
"my house needs my time, .. my hubby can't even make coffee, tea, my family needs me for everything, but no one cares or appreciates the efforts I put in. I feel they all take me for granted".
I called her husband to see if the family needed any support, as, I felt her hubby must be feeling lost, to suddenly have to handle all the responsibilities...for everything, aging parents, kids, his travelling job, loneliness at this age.. how must he be managing?
The cell phone rang for some time, no response... After an hour he returned the call. He apologized that he could not answer my call as he had started playing tennis for an hour at his club and meeting friends etc - to ensure he had a good time.
He even took a transfer to work near home so as not to travel anymore.
"All well at home? " I asked,
He replied, he had appointed a cook, he paid her a little more and she would buy the groceries and provisions. He had appointed full time caretakers for his aging parents.
"Managing well... kids are fine. Life is returning to normal, he said.
I barely managed to say a couple of sentences and we hung up.
Tears welled up my eyes.
My friend remained in my thoughts... She had missed the school reunion for a minor ailment of her mother in law. She had missed her nieces' wedding because she had to supervise the repair work in her house. She had missed so many fun parties and movies because her children had exams, she had to cook, she had to take care of her husband's needs, etc, etc..
She had always looked for some appreciation and some recognition which she never got.
Today I feel like telling her,
no one is indispensable.
And no one will be missed. It is just the play of our mind.
Perhaps it is the consolation. A symbol of our understanding if you would like to call it that... That's the problem of putting others first.
You have taught them that YOU COME SECOND
Reality bites :
After her death, two more maids were hired and the house was in order.
We only measure our respect and our value, ain't that sad.
Enjoy life, remove the frame of mind that I am indispensable and without me the house will suffer.
❤ My message to all Ladies :
Most importantly make time for YOURSELF... the ME time, the time for thy self.
❤️ Get in touch with your friends... Talk, laugh and enjoy!
🧡 Live your passion, live your life...
💛 Often do things that you love to
do.
💙 Don't look for your happiness in others, you too deserve some happiness because if you are not happy, you cannot make others happy.
💚 Everyone needs you, and you too need your own care and love.
💜 Women should come forward to help and guide other women who are unable to handle their personal stress and give them a hand to uplift their confidence.
🤎 💖Let us HELP Ourselves and make this LIFE WORTHWHILE.

31/10/2024

WOMEN PLEASE LISTEN👂

1. A first class degree won't make you a first class wife rather your submission and respect will.
2. The woman who respects her husband is the best wife anyone would ever have.
3. Your character and attitude will go a long way in determining if your husband will wish he never Regret getting married to you..
4. To be a great wife, you need more anger management skills than nagging skills.
5. Be a leader at work, or anywhere else but be a companion at home.. It's wisdom!
6. Don't compete with your husband; compliment him.
7. Your strength is in humility and submission, not in strife and contention.
8. Be tender, every man respects a tender woman but firm.
9. Never try to punish your husband by starving him of food or S*x, he maybe forced to get it outside.
10. There is nothing wrong in accepting that you are wrong when you are wrong.
11. Prepare to forgive your husband if he wrongs you. For a forgiving wife is better than a vengeful one.
12. Make a decision to be a good wife, you will need it in the longtime

Address


Website

Alerts

Be the first to know and let us send you an email when kosi Nwa malunze posts news and promotions. Your email address will not be used for any other purpose, and you can unsubscribe at any time.

Shortcuts

  • Address
  • Alerts
  • Claim ownership or report listing

  • Want your business to be the top-listed Media Company?

Share