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20/05/2025

In all you do in life , pray make the person when them they believe him words for community no lie for your head

11/05/2025

It wasn't luck that saved marriages...it was late night conversations, uncomfortable truths, & two people who refused to give up.

Luck didn't teach couples how to listen 👂 without being defensive đŸŠđŸ«ŁđŸ˜ 

A healthy and intimate marriage isn't effortless it's international. So on, it wasn't luck, it was work, it was commitment, it was hard conversations

There is nothing like lucky in marriage, it is the work from two couples who are international about their marriage to work out by refusing to give up on each other.


03/05/2025

Happy new month

10/04/2025

Na you no ooo

10/04/2025

🎯I remember how I used to tell My wife to be calming down each time she's shouting when preparing the kids for school...

I would be like...

Babe, parenting needs alot of patience and you have to be intentional about it 💁

Kini kan kini kan💁...

I will be doing motivational speaker❗

One day she needed to leave home early to clear and take delivery of some of our goods at the warehouse..

So, I was to attend to the kids .

That day, before I knew it..

✅I've found Myself shouting up and down like a tiger gen whose silencer has broken!😃

✅Ehh... How long would it take you to sweep that place.. issokay ❗

✅Ehh... How long would you take to bath now, wallahi tallahi if I come back and you've not finished ❗

✅Ehhh.... You people have not worn your clothes, what sort of nons£nse is this now, are you ok ❓

✅Ehhh... If I get into the car and you don't meet me in 2 mins, wo, you will see what I will do for you ❗

After I dropped them off in school, I felt exhausted..

I was just shaking head for Myself..

Emi mi ti Fe bo ❗

You know the moral of the story ❓

🎯It is easier to advice or criticize people when you've not been in their shoes❗

Remember this always before you advice, condemn or criticize others ❗

And Dear Men,

Abeg, don't be getting home and be looking your wife like person wey no de do anything o.

They are doing a lot ❗

Women, May God reward you people..

Your domestic works alone are worth paying for as a full time wife.

It's mentally and physically draining mehn.

You guys are Heroins.

I celebrate you 🙏❗
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21/03/2025

I woke up with the thought of this lady who used to work with me some years back.
I genuinely don’t know why her thought was in my subconscious when I was half awake and half asleep.

There’s a part of me that feels she would have still been alive today

I guess the universe wants me to write about her. Maybe, it can speak to someone today .

This lady in question was just 3 months postpartum when she died. She developed a complication from her delivery which she was managing with her specialist.
A day before her death, she knocked on my consulting room and begged that she wants to use the examination couch in my office to rest.

The morning rush was over and there were no more patients waiting for me, so I obliged her.

I looked at her and saw that she was highly stressed ,then I asked about her health, family and her baby.

She was struggling to take care of her children and her health.
Her mum who had earlier come to Omugwo has just suddenly kicked the bucket, leaving her and her husband to take care of their newborn and their older baby.
She said her husband is trying but I saw that she was still very stressed.

So I asked her to take some time off work but my work place has already given her 1 week paid off so she was worried about taking more time off.
So I told her it’s better she quits or takes a longer time off to care for herself. She can discuss her options with the management.
She said she was going to think about it.
I comforted her and asked her to rest in my office.

The next day, when I came to work, I heard she was dea*d. How! I was shocked to my bone marrow.

I learnt she had come to work & after work, she went home, picked her Bible and some things to go to church, she slumped on her way and before she was rushed to our facility, she was de*ad.

Everyone was in shocked. The tears flowed. We mourned and sorrowed but no amount of tears could bring this hardworking lady back to life. She left her 3months old baby and a toddler behind. The husband automatically became a widower.

I don’t know who this message is for but please, take it easy.
Be deliberate about your health. Your body communicates to you a lot. Listen to it. Are you tired? Rest. Are you sick? Take some time off. If the sickness continues, discuss with a loved one for support on how to take a longer leave from your work to concentrate on your health.

Men, please be deliberate about your women. Look at her. Notice her especially during pregnancy and after delivery. Keep a closer look at her up to 1yr after delivery. I realized some women don’t know when to stop or relax. They call it , “being a strong woman .” It’s a very dangerous notion .

Sometimes, when I want to admit a woman,the first thing in her mind is, “who will take care of my husband and children?”
The thing is often surprising to me because I believe a man should be able to take care of his children and home.

I also realized many women are doing so much to be at the workforce, at the detriment of their health for many reasons .

Please ,If you have a wife who enjoys taking good care of the home , give her a monthly salary so she doesn’t have to be pressured to work when her body and mind is not fit to.

The dangerous notion that a housewife is not bringing anything to the table should stop already.
Whether as a housewife, a working woman, etc, we should all be respected.

It is this lack of respect people have for women who love to tend to their homes that pressure many to be at the work place, then the bad economy.

We can start it one step at a time by first of all, respecting all house wives. Child birth and child care is a lot already.

Marisa Bate wrote, “Describing women who clean and run a house, look after multiple children and source and prepare food for a spouse as "not working" is surely one of the most successful conspiracies of the 20th century.”

A woman shouldn’t be pressured to do this when she has a lot on her table, unless of course, she genuinely loves to be at the workforce and she is physically and mentally capable to handle it all.

Originally Written by Omokaro Precious Akpesiri Oruo

Me:
Thank you doc for this
Please lets help ourselves as women and mothers
The other day at my kids school, a woman who just put to bed the day before came to school the next day for school runs
I was shocked to hear
Like how
And someone was busy calling her "strong woman"
Make we nor dey carry ourselves play abeg

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02/03/2025

Big question for you, is your marriage truly affair proof? Before you confidently say yes take a moment to reflect on most time the greatest danger comes when you think you are untouchable, remember the say pride comes before a fall. But here's the truth, it is not unusual to feel an attraction to someone who isn't your spouse yeah I actually did say ...it in reality infatuation is a powerful drug deceptive intoxicating and capable of clouding one's judgement that's why relationships with the potential for quick chemistry are dangerous and need to be avoided like a plague the route to an affair isn't a sudden drop, .small compromises here and there unchecked boundaries, innocent conversations and innuendos that aren't so innocent until one day it feels like you just found yourself in it but it is never sudden it's always a process. The good news though is that you can protect your marriage build strong boundaries, guard your heart nurture your relationship with intention. Remember no relationship is immune to temptation but a marriage that is anchored in love and not just love trust and most importantly accountability can withstand any storm so ask yourself are you investing in the safety of your marriage? Or are you leaving it vulnerable. Don't wait until it's too late protect what matters most to you right now especially when children are involved don't throw away your marriage to a fleeting desire or feeling.


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