19/12/2024
SOME SOCIAL RULES THAT WILL HELP YOU:
1. Praise publicly. Criticize privately.
2. Say “thank you” when someone is helping you.
3. Don’t call someone more than twice continuously if not emergency. If they don’t pick up your call, presume they have something important to attend to.
4. Return money that you have borrowed even before the person that borrowed you remember or ask for it. It shows your integrity and character. Same goes with umbrellas, pens and lunch boxes.
5. Never order the expensive dish on the menu when someone is giving you a lunch/dinner.
6. Always open the door for the person coming behind you. It doesn’t matter if it is a guy or a girl, senior or junior. You don’t grow small by treating someone well in public.
7. If you take a transport with a friend and he/she pays now, try paying next time.
8. Respect different shades of opinions. Remember what's 6 to you will appear 9 to someone facing you. Besides, second opinion is good for an alternative.
9. Never interrupt people talking. Allow them to pour it out. As they say, hear them all and filter them all.
10. If you tease someone, and they don’t seem to enjoy it, stop it and never do it again. It encourages one to do more and it shows how appreciative you're.
11. When someone shows you a photo on their phone, don’t swipe left or right. You never know what’s next.
12. Treat the cleaner with the same respect as the CEO. Nobody is impressed at how rude you can treat someone below you but people will notice if you treat them with respect.
13. If a person is speaking directly to you, staring at your phone is rude.
14. Never give advice until you’re asked.
15. Mind your business unless anything involves you directly - just stay out of it.
16. Remove your sunglasses if you are talking to anyone in the street. It is a sign of respect. Moreso, eye contact is as important as your speech.
17. Never talk about your riches in the midst of the poor. Similarly, don't talk about your children in the midst of the barren.
18. After reading a good message try to say "Thanks for the message".
APPRECIATION remains the easiest way of getting what you don't have.
©️ Abari David ✍️❤️
General ADON
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