05/02/2022
Note: You don’t need to believe in NDEs, souls, or dialogues without words to appreciate this post.
One of the books that was incredibly influential for me – going on over 20 years ago now – was by Dawna Markova, psychotherapist, teacher, researcher, and CEO Emeritus of Professional Thinking Partners. The book was called I Will Not Die an Unlived Life: Reclaiming Purpose and Passion. In Chapter 12, Dawna writes about a near death experience (NDE) she had. She describes being in the emergency room where doctors and nurses are tending to her and she starts to die. She feels herself, in her own words, “falling upward” as she leaves her body. She could still hear the doctors and nurses talking about her physical body lying there on the table. She recounts that while she was out of her physical body, she had what she describes as a conversation – a dialogue without words – between her soul and the life that she had lived. The first thing that she was asked was,
Have you had enough joy?
I am joyful knowing this was the first question, because I’ve often thought that joy is so underrated when you’re alive, yet so important. While I’m glad it gets more play when you’re … dead, but it really should get equal air time among the living.
So I ask you, how can we show up to really experience, from a place of joy, the moments that we’re given? And also, have you had enough joy?
Dawna was asked another four questions in this dialogue without words:
What’s unfinished for you to give?
What’s unfinished for you to heal?
What’s unfinished for you to learn?
What’s unfinished for you to experience?
Deep. If you’re ever at a point where you’re wondering what to do with the rest of your life – and if the Great Resignation teaches us anything, that point is now for thousands and thousands among us – well, answer these four questions! What’s unfinished for me to give? To heal? To learn? To experience?
Then top it off with, how do I show up to the moments in my life from a place of joy?
So, that’s what was going on for Dawna while she was – er – dead. She also shared that she actually fell back into her body on her way to the morgue. At least she didn’t wake up in a drawer!
I offer the above for your consideration, to take or leave as you see fit. If you want to go deeper, listen to the Dreamtime: Willingness to Become Your Vision episode here: https://dreamvisions7radio.com/dreamtime-willingness-to-become-your-vision/
Then, DM me if you’re one of these people filled with an urgency to begin anew, and you’d like to explore how we can work together. Who knows where it might lead us...
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