29/10/2024
He asked, is it Wrong to show CARE by spending Money on his Girlfriend?
My brother, there is NOTHING wrong to show Care to your Girlfriend but If all what you understand by Care is only spending Money, you have a Problem.
Also spending Money on a gf is not a Problem but Focusing on her to look good and you; neglecting your own Life, is a big Problem.
Dear Bro, If you want to do anything good for a gf, make sure you are doing it just to ASSIST her, NOT that you are doing it for her so that she can love you more. FOR EXAMPLE: If you want to rent an Apartment for a gf, and you know that the cost implication will affect your pocket and you can't Forgo the Apartment you got for her, don't do it for her; because that's part of things that cause Crying and commiting Su***de after being dumped.
No matter the huge Money or Sacrifice done for a gf, immediately she lose interest in you, she's gone. That's why you should INVEST your Money on yourself; if you have Money, women will be the one running after you. What you CAN'T forgo easily, don't Sacrifice or Spend it on her because she's not your Wife.
I don't blame girls, nobody wants to suffer. It is Better Offer they are looking for.
Relationship is to ASSIST each other to Grow (Mentally, Spiritually, Money, Socially, Education) not to be settling bills day-in, day-out. - WASBO