04/02/2025
Chinenye Azubuike said
"The best place or best experience to learn from when it comes to marriage is your parents marriage.
If you’re an orphan, learn from others or even stories told to you about your parents.
If your parents are separated, learn from them and what caused the separation.
Everything you need to learn in this life starts from your family first then yourself.
I can never understand why you measure marriage by social media. We are 200M Nigerians and you are making decisions based on 20 celebrities? Are you by chance having issues with your level of reasoning?
I know I avoid mathematics but I know very well that 20 celebrities doesn’t make 0.1% of our population. It doesn’t! So why use them to measure realities?
Everything you need to learn about a man? Study your father!
Everything you want to learn about a woman? Study your mother!
Everything you want to learn about marriage? Look at your parents!
But bone of contention here is I have the qualities I want in a man because I saw what my mother enjoyed in my father.
Go and look at your father, if you do not want a man like him then avoid choosing such men! If you want a man like him then focus on attracting such men! Why come and be dismissing every man cos of what you read online? Just why?
I’ll keep preaching against bad men. Against wicked men cos na dem full everywhere as noise makers but underneath that noise are good men!!!
Women, FOCUS Ohhhhh! Focus!!!! Avoid distractions from noise makers
One thing I’ll say for free is; These noise makers do the opposite offline. They h8 women, Igbo women are this and that, I can never marry single mother but guess who is begging women offline? Same men! Guess who is marrying and dying for a single mother? Same noise makers. 😅
Summary is, avoid noise and stop measuring marriage based on social media!
Use your parents as role models or as lifetime lessons"
Nwunye Kingz
