Women Nature

15/05/2025

IF YOU HAVE NO STABILITY , YOU DON’T DESERVE NO P***Y:

Men are the manifestation of the root chakra(pressure , stress , structure, foundation , money , the material world) , this is why women weren’t designed to handle the material world (it literally stresses their nervous systems tf out)

Women are the manifestation of the sacral chakra( creativity , s*xuality, sensuality , birth , pleasure , satisfaction , fun) , this is why girls justa wanna have fun

This is why nothing can bring more pleasure in your life than a woman(also why her cl****is has over 10,000 nerve endings) , a woman is the manifestation of pleasure on Earth

She is literally The Most High’s greatest gift to a man as she will bring more pleasure and satisfaction to a man’s life than anything else can

Even laying your eyes upon a woman’s naked body brings pure satisfaction and pleasure into a man’s life

Yet when a man desires pleasure and fun with a woman without having any financial stability , the woman is forced to go into the root chakra herself

The root chakra is hell, it’s hard, it’s pressure , it’s what makes men masculine( the pressure to provide and get things done in the material world can only be substained by testosterone - the male root chakra hormone)

Yet when he puts this pressure on a woman , she hardens , develops more balls than him , and becomes stress tf out

She is no longer able to be soft, delicate , sensual , creative or fun because she has to worry about providing the root chakra material world for herself

Instead of you going through hell(the root chakra) for her so she can enjoy heaven(the sacral chakra pleasure center) , she has to go through it herself, so instead of being a pleasurable pleasant woman in your life , she becomes the devil

Thus if your woman is acting like a literally demon in your life , it’s because you have her in the root chakra of hell(remove the pressure and stress of the material world from her and you’ll see her become her soft radiant sacral chakra pleasurable self again)

And unfortunately this requires you to have money, so even though you want that woman to love you, respect you , and treat you like the greatest man ever without money , it is hard for her to do that under a pressurized state

The more relaxed a woman is , the more she can access her natural sacral chakra frequencies of femininity , she becomes like water(which is governed by the sacral chakra) and less solid(which is governed by the root chakra)

The first two chakra governs polarity and if you don’t have the polarity right , you can’t build a proper divine masculine/feminine foundation for you union

The original exchange of the lower two chakra is money in exchange for s*x/pleasure

This is why you can actually buy p***y with root chakra material money , yet keep in mind to access the higher chakras of love like the heart chakra , you’ll need more than money(yet you need money as a foundational piece)

If you don’t also master the higher chakras as a man , you will have money , yet you’ll still have to just buy p***y and women directly or form shallow relationships in which women are just with you for your root chakra money

The root chakra and the sacral chakra are just the foundation , yet if these aren’t established your union can’t reach higher levels

Thus a man until you have some money(root chakra) to provide fully for a woman(sacral chakra) , avoid pleasure and woman altogether

If you focus too much on pleasure first , your masculinity including your money will be drained , your woman will disrespect you and you’ll get the masculine hellish version of her

Suck it up , man up , this is a harsh hard material world , it wasn’t suppose to be easy for a man , the hardness levels you up and allows you to attract a soft delicate feminine woman

You want a woman to love you for your brokenness like your momma

When in actuality your woman is suppose to be provided for , protected , and led like she’s your daughter

Build your testosterone , discipline and master your s*xual energy , and focus on your purpose instead of women and s*x so you can actually build a solid foundation enough to attract and lead a divine woman

Until then your relationships will suffer, your woman will disrespect you , and your self-worth will be diminished over and over until you finally learn that loving yourself means sitting with yourself until you’re healed and stable enough to even provide a woman with a soft life

YOU DESERVE TO BE A FULL PROVIDER

YOU DESERVE TO HAVE A SOFT WOMAN

YOU DESERVE TO HAVE A DIVINELY POLARIZED UNION

ALL GLORY BE TO THE MOST HIGH
SMILE AND GIVE THANKS



*xualAlchemy

06/05/2025

MEN SLEEP WITH WOMEN FOR THE EXPERIENCE. WOMEN SLEEP WITH MEN FOR A CONNECTION. That’s Why One Leaves Smiling, The Other Leaves Crying.
This generation is so s*xually active, yet so emotionally broken.
Let’s stop pretending — s*x has never meant the same thing to men and women.
1. Men chase s*x for variety. Women give s*x for meaning.
Men don’t need a reason. They just need an opportunity.
They’ll sleep with you because you're tall, short, thick, slim, or just available.
No emotions, no intentions, no plans.
But women? They give their bodies with a reason in mind: love, trust, bonding, or belief that “this might lead somewhere.”
That’s why after s*x, the man rolls over and forgets your name.
But you lie there, wondering what the two of you are now.
2. For men, the goal is s*x. For women, s*x is a door to more.
A man can spend money, take you out, buy you gifts — not because he loves you, but because he sees it as “payment for access.”
After he sleeps with you, he walks away feeling like the transaction is complete.
You, on the other hand, start to wonder why he changed.
It’s not wickedness. That’s just how most men operate — s*x first, emotion nowhere.
3. Women still believe in love. But most men today are running games.
A man will say anything just to get you:
“You’re special.”
“I’ve never met someone like you.”
“You’re my peace.”
“You’re wife material.”
And once you fall and give him s*x, the game ends.
He runs. Not because you're bad — but because his lies are about to expire.
A man who tells the truth and stays? He’s rare.
But if he disappears after sleeping with you, it’s because he came with a plan to escape.
4. Women feel s*x. Men just release it.
When a woman sleeps with a man, her brain releases oxytocin, the bonding hormone.
Her heart attaches.
Her soul connects.
Her mind starts planning a future.
Meanwhile, the man is just waiting to put on his boxers and leave.
No emotions. No connection. Just “mission accomplished.”
5. Women are wired to nurture. So they give too much.
Give a woman love, she multiplies it.
Give her a house, she makes it a home.
Give her a man — even a broken one — and she’ll pour her life into fixing him.
But give her heartbreak? She’ll carry that pain for years.
That’s why a woman will cry over a man that didn’t even care.
Because she wasn’t just having s*x — she was giving her all.
6. For a woman, s*x is submission.
She doesn’t just say yes on the bed.
She’s already said yes in her heart, in her thoughts, in her spirit.
She shaved. She dressed nice. She came prepared.
And when it happens, she gives you not just her body — but her trust.
You didn’t seduce her.
She convinced herself.
And that’s why she’s shattered when you ghost her.
7. Women use s*x to bond. Men use s*x to sample.
After s*x, a woman assumes something deep just happened.
She assumes you felt it too.
But you? You’re already texting someone else.
She thinks you shared energy. You just wanted variety.
That’s why she’s hurt. Not because the s*x was bad, but because she thought it meant more.
8. Women attach life to s*x. Men don’t.
She moans like she’s surrendering her soul because in that moment, she is.
You’re killing her softly — and she’s saying, “Don’t stop,” because she’s fully invested.
She’s not acting.
She’s bonding.
But you? You’re just performing. For you, it’s a workout. For her, it’s worship.
9. Women respect the man who gives them or***ms.
You might think s***m is just liquid, but for many women, the man who makes them climax owns a piece of their memory.
That’s why many marriages collapse — the woman was never emotionally tied to her husband.
But the man who made her cum? She still dreams about him.
And sadly, most men don’t even know how to make their own wives feel anything.
10. Women think of the consequences. Men only think of the moment.
Before you even finish round one, she’s already calculating pregnancy, shame, her reputation, and what her future holds.
You? You’re just looking for water to drink and maybe some jollof rice.
She thought it was baby-making love.
You thought it was chicken-eating fun.
That’s the tragedy.
AND THE SAD TRUTH:
This generation now trades s*x for data, iPhones, shawarma, birthday gifts, and hair.
Girls sleep with men they don’t even like — just to upgrade their lifestyle.
And in the process, they’ve turned their emotions into ashes.
Now love is dead. Trust is rare.
And true relationships are harder to find than a loyal politician.
ADVICE TO THIS GENERATION:
Don’t treat s*x like chewing gum.
Don’t give your body just because he spent small money.
Don’t give your love just because she called you “handsome.”
S*x is not a game. It’s power. It’s trust. It’s energy.
Save it. Value it. Respect it.
May the enjoyment of today not become the regret of tomorrow.

゚viralシ

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03/05/2025

SUCCESS NOW BELONGS TO THE MOST FOCUSED, NOT THE MOST TALENTED.
In this generation, it’s no longer about survival of the fittest.
It’s now survival of the most focused.
It’s now about who knows what they want, and refuses to be distracted.
You can be talented and still fail.
You can be smart and still stuck.
Why?
Because without focus, you’ll keep starting and never finishing.
Everyone is busy.
Everyone is trying.
But only the focused ones are building empires, creating impact, and making money consistently.
Focus is now the real currency.
So what’s stealing your focus?
EXTERNAL DISTRACTIONS
•Social media scrolling
•Endless WhatsApp chats and group messages
•Phone notifications every 5 minutes
•Unnecessary calls
•Excessive watching of movies
•Trying to keep up with every trend
•Consuming too much content without action
•Jumping from course to course
•Attending every training without implementing
•Always being available to everyone
INTERNAL DISTRACTIONS
•Overthinking and second-guessing
•Fear of missing out (FOMO) •Comparison syndrome
•Perfectionism
•Procrastination disguised as “planning”
•Imposter syndrome
•Emotional baggage
•No clarity or defined goals
•Trying to please everyone
•Saying “yes” to everything
LIFESTYLE DISTRACTIONS
•Poor time management
•No structure or routine
•Toxic relationships
•Multitasking everything, finishing nothing
•Inconsistent sleep or rest
If you want to win in this season,
Mute the noise.
Pick your lane.
Protect your focus like your life depends on it because it does.
The world is loud.
You don’t need to do everything.
You just need to do the right thing, and do it consistently.

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20/03/2025

MICROCHIMERISM: Why Virginity Is Important

The s***m is more than just a fluid, it is a container of genetic information. Meaning when a man ej******es in a woman

He leaves behind DNA that is stored inside the woman and shared if she gets pregnant

～ A thread:

19/03/2025

EVERYBODY HAS A BOYFRIEND, EXCEPT ME

These questions and more plague the minds of many teenagers and young adults today. The pressure to fit in, to be loved, and to have a partner can feel overwhelming. But let’s pause and reflect: Just because everyone seems to have a boyfriend doesn’t mean you should have one too.

Yes, you read that right.

Many of the girls you envy or try to imitate are far from living the dream you imagine. Behind the facade of their so-called relationships lies a harsh reality:

- Some are trapped in toxic relationships, enduring abuse and manipulation in exchange for fleeting luxuries.
- Others have become mere "baby factories," producing children for men who have no intention of building a future with them.
- Some have lost their sense of purpose and destiny, living empty lives that look glamorous on the outside but are hollow within.
- A few have even resorted to degrading acts, sacrificing their dignity just to maintain a lifestyle they think you admire.
- Others are entangled in exploitative industries, where their "boyfriends" profit from their pain and suffering.

Now, ask yourself: Do you still envy them?

The truth is, many of these girls are deeply unhappy. They’ve misplaced their priorities, chasing relationships for all the wrong reasons. If they were to tell you the truth about their lives, you’d likely thank God for your singleness.

Dear teenagers and young adults, I understand your desire for love and companionship. You want to feel cherished, to wake up to sweet messages, and to experience the joy of being in a relationship. And yes, you will get there—but not without asking yourself some hard questions first:

1. Why do I want a boyfriend?
Is it for the right reasons, or just to fit in?

2. Is a relationship necessary at this stage of my life?
Are you emotionally and mentally ready for the responsibilities that come with it?

3. Can I maintain a Godly relationship that honors my values and avoids sez?
Relationships should uplift you, not compromise your principles.

4. Do I need a relationship now, especially during my formative years?
Puberty is a time for self-discovery, not distractions.

5. Am I seeking a relationship because my potential partner is Godly and aligned with my values?
Or am I just desperate for love and attention?

6. Do I want a relationship simply because I crave love from the opposite gender?
Love should complement your life, not define it.

If your answers lean more toward the negative, it’s time to retrace your steps and rethink your decisions.

Remember, love shouldn’t be the sole reason you enter a relationship. Before seeking love from someone else, learn to love yourself—your body, your mind, and your spirit. A relationship should enhance who you already are, not complete you.

As Christians and believers, we don’t recognize casual "boyfriend-girlfriend" relationships. What we uphold is courtship—a purposeful, God-centered journey toward marriage. Courtship is intentional, mature, and rooted in shared values and goals.

"Boyfriend-girlfriend" relationships, on the other hand, are often playtime—a waste of energy and emotions between two people who are still figuring out life. If you’re in such a relationship, it’s time to let go and focus on your personal growth and God’s plan for your life.

The right relationship will come at the right time. Until then, invest in yourself, build your character, and trust God’s timing. You are worth more than a fleeting, shallow connection. You are worth a love that is pure, purposeful, and everlasting.

Stay patient. Stay focused. Your season will come. 🌟

17/03/2025

Men,
A Man was never born an idle creature...he was born then first offered an occupation; a Gardener.
It's therefore a sin for a Man to be absolutely idle.
1. Start selling something or farming to supplement your salary. Identify something and sell it. You can sign an agreement with boutiques.
2. Walk from door to door selling it e.g Men's socks, ties, belts. Walk from gate to gate, offer to clean cars, offices, homes or carpets.
3. Join a gym or a sporting environmental e.g football, volleyball or basketball. You will meet men who will expose you to opportunities. As your physical and mental health grows, your network grows too. Don't lock yourself behind closed doors.
4. Don't involve yourself with toxic and feminists w0men, they will distract you. Avoid betting, gambling, and online scams. You will lose your money.
On your off days or weekends, join:
- a construction site
- a mechanic garage
- a furniture workshop
Request them that you would like to learn what they do. Be humble and learn. Learn skills.
5. Avoid borrowing credit. Don't own a phone on credit. Switch off Background data and opt out of subscriptions.
6. Live near work.
7. Walk to work if you are not a morning person. Walk home. The money you will save from walking will help you to buy a bicycle.
8. Don't always beg for lifts.
9. Cook food in the house. If you must eat, cook in the house and carry packed food. Avoid buying expensive foods, they are useless when you can't afford.
10. Have discipline on this budget:
- Food
- Transport
- Electricity and water
- Grooming
11. Save 30%+ of your salary.
12. Invest it, actively. Investings are friendlier with your money. In 6 months time, you qualify for cheap credit to invest or finance an Income Generating Activity.
NB: You don't need a guarantor. Your savings will guarantee you. Live in a house worth -30% of your salary. Don't live with a relative or a parent for too long, even if you must, don't stay for too long.
13. Go and rent. Pay rent. The pain of paying rent will teach you about independence, discipline and hard work.

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06/03/2025

SHE CAN LOSE INTEREST TOMORROW, IF YOU DON’T ACT LIKE A MAN TODAY
Let me tell you for free, women don’t "fall out of love"; they lose respect.
And once respect is gone? Attraction follows.
She can be obsessed with you today, dreaming about you, craving you, chasing you.
But tomorrow? She’s gone. Cold. Dry. Uninterested.
What happened?
YOU HAPPENED.
You slipped.
You got comfortable.
You started acting weak.
And a woman’s psychology is wired to detect weakness and eliminate it.
This is what I teach in Battle of Attraction, Dark Female Psychologies, and my entire platform. You either learn how to stay a man she can’t replace—or you watch her walk away like you never existed.
THE BRUTAL TRUTH ABOUT FEMALE ATTRACTION
A woman’s attraction is not permanent.
It’s not like a man’s.
You think love is about loyalty.
She thinks love is about how you make her feel in the moment.
If you become weak, she stops feeling it.
If she stops feeling it, she starts looking elsewhere.
And then you, the clueless man, will say:
“But I gave her everything.”
“But I was always there for her.”
“But she said she loved me.”
Shut up.
None of that matters if you lose your masculine edge.
HOW MEN DESTROY ATTRACTION (AND NEVER REALIZE IT)
You became too available. She stopped chasing.
You stopped leading. She started disrespecting.
You got emotional like a woman. She saw you as weak.
You begged for her attention. She ran to a man who doesn’t.
She never left because of “someone better.”
She left because you became someone worse.
This is what I teach in Battle of Attraction, Dark Female Psychologies, and my platform.
It’s either you wake up, or you get left behind.
WOMEN FOLLOW MEN WHO COMMAND RESPECT
You want to keep her attracted? Stop acting like you need her.
Be willing to walk away.
Stop explaining yourself like a child.
Be the prize, not the beggar.
Set the tone, and let her follow or leave.
If you don’t do this, she will lose interest faster than you can cry, “But I thought we had something special.”
This is why simps don’t survive here.
This is why men who don’t study female psychology keep losing.
And this is why I will keep telling you, Study. Learn. Master the game.
Or perish.

01/03/2025

THE LAST LAUGH

There's a trend we see too often in our masculinity circles. With frightening regularity.
Many single men in their 40s have a similar story.
It’s a tale as old as time, but it doesn’t have to be your story.
Here’s how men end up divorced—and how you can avoid becoming another statistic.
If you play your cards right, you’ll have the last laugh, even if you end up alone.
And let’s be real: you came into this world alone, and you’ll leave it the same way. Married or otherwise.
So, let’s break it down:

✅ The Blind Leap
You’re in your twenties or early thirties, and the first woman who gives you proper attention becomes the one. You ignore the red flags because, well, clapping cheeks is a blinding force. You want someone who can be your own. You think love will fix everything. So, you bolt yourself down, ignoring the warning signs. You want to raise a family. Your own.

✅ The Slow Descent
You settle into a marriage that slowly becomes a nightmare. Kids come, and you’re now the plough horse—overworked, underappreciated, and betadized. S*x becomes a distant memory, respect evaporates, and she starts exploring her options on IG, the club and at her workplace. You try to negotiate desire and respect, but it’s a losing battle. She resents you and can't stand you. Your ego takes a hit. You let yourself go, drinking to drown your pain, gorge on spectator sports and the spark fades completely. You think about the sunk costs and the kids and can't see the exit.

✅ The Breaking Point
Then something triggers the end. Maybe she gets a better job, or your business takes a hit. She now regularly comes home late, drunk, and unruly. Or maybe you catch her cheating—or she catches you. Either way, the marriage implodes. She wipes the house clean, takes the kids, and leaves. Or maybe you snap in a moment of anger and your hands fly, and it’s over. The life you built together crumbles. If you don't get sunk into feeling sorry for yourself and begging for love, you slide into the next phase.

✅ The Awakening
For the first time, the scales fall from your eyes. You see her for who she really is: a horrible spouse. The woman you thought was yours forever was never the person you believed her to be. It was just your turn.

✅ The Rebirth & Rebuild
You go through the stages—red pill rage, panic, depression, and helplessness. You might spiral into a 304 phase, but eventually, you get unplugged. You’re told to shape the f**k up, and you listen. You hit the gym, level up, gain new skills, and sharpen your focus. You realize what real love, respect, and good s*x look like—because now, you’re living it.

✅ The Last Laugh
She plays the victim, hops on the d*ck carousel, and expects you to come crawling back. But you don’t. You file for divorce, reclaim your freedom, and live life on your own terms. You realize that being alone isn’t a curse—it’s a blessing.
You were born alone, and you’ll die alone. But in between, you can live a life of purpose, power, and peace.

The cycle doesn’t have to be your destiny. Learn from the mistakes of others.
Level up, focus on yourself, and never settle for less than you deserve. What mother nature gives her for free, father time gives you if you do the work.
The last laugh is yours—if you’re willing to earn it.
Get Unplugged 💪🔥

28/02/2025

Write daily.

Not just for the algorithm.
Not just for engagement.
But to sharpen your thinking.

When you write every day:
→ Your ideas become clearer.
→ Your voice becomes stronger.
→ Your audience starts trusting you more.

Most people don’t struggle with knowledge.
They struggle with articulating that knowledge in a way that makes an impact.

Writing is how you fix that.

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27/02/2025

*11 Masculine Traits that everyone Adore:*

1. Purpose

A man without purpose is a man without direction.

Your mission should always come first—before women, before distractions, before anything that doesn’t serve your long-term goals.

A man with purpose is naturally attractive because he isn’t easily swayed by emotions or short-term pleasures.

2. Being Unaffected by women's Beauty

Most men fall apart the moment they see a beautiful woman.

They become weak, desperate, and eager to please. A true masculine man, however, remains unaffected.

He understands that beauty is common, but his value is rare.

3. Your Broken Beliefs on Money

Society teaches men to either worship money or fear it.

But real men understand that money is just a tool—a tool that brings freedom, power, and the ability to live life on your terms.

Fix your mindset. Stop chasing money desperately, but also stop believing that being poor is noble.

Learn how to attract wealth effortlessly.

4. Fill the Void Internally

Many men look for women, money, or external success to fill the emptiness inside them.

But true masculine energy comes from within. If you rely on external validation, you will always be chasing something that can be taken away.

Instead, develop a strong foundation of self-respect, self-love, and inner peace.

A man who is whole from within is unstoppable.

5. High Self-Esteem Through Boundaries

Weak men let people walk all over them.

They say yes when they want to say no. They tolerate disrespect because they fear confrontation.

But real men set boundaries and enforce them without hesitation.

The world respects men who respect themselves. If you don’t respect your own time and energy, no one else will.

6. Simply, Be Bold

Timid men never make an impact.

Masculine men don’t hesitate. They take action even when they’re scared.

They speak their minds without seeking approval. They take risks and accept the consequences.

Boldness is rare, and that’s why it’s attractive. If you want to stand out, stop waiting for permission.

7. Make Her Feel Special

Masculine men know how to make a woman feel unique—without being weak.

It’s not about simping or showering her with compliments.

It’s about making her feel like she’s earned your attention, that she’s in the presence of a rare man.

When you’re selective and don’t give your attention easily, she will crave it even more.

8. Stick to Your Guns

Weak men change their opinions to fit in.

Masculine men stand firm in their beliefs, even when they’re unpopular.

They are not afraid of conflict, and they don’t seek validation from others.

Have a backbone. Speak your truth. Don’t let the world mold you—become the man who shapes the world.

9. Value Your Time

Time is the most valuable asset you have.

Masculine men don’t waste their time on meaningless distractions, drama, or people who drain their energy.

They invest their time in things that matter—building wealth, improving themselves, and pursuing their mission.

If you don’t respect your own time, no one else will.

10. Non-Needy Men Win

Needy men chase. Masculine men attract.

The moment you stop desperately seeking validation, love, or attention, people will naturally be drawn to you.

Neediness repels; confidence attracts.

Be a man who is complete on his own, and watch how effortlessly the world responds to you.

Follow this space if you want appreciate me.

Thanks for reading.

"Live Purposefully"

26/02/2025

A MAN CAN SLEEP WITH 300 WOMEN AND STILL BE THE PRIZE, A WOMAN CAN’T, AND THAT’S THAT.
Let’s cut the bu****it, a man’s value is built. A woman’s value is given. That’s why the s*xual dynamics will never be equal.
A man who sleeps with 300 women is respected because it takes skill, status, confidence, and social proof to attract that many women.
He has to earn his desirability. He has to become a man of value.
A woman? She can open her legs and have 300 men by the end of the month. No effort needed. No skill required. Just exist, swipe, and spread.
That’s the difference.
A man who conquers many women is seen as a leader, a prize, a man of status. A woman who sleeps with many men is seen as used, easy, and low-value.
Why? Because men give value, women preserve it. A woman’s purity, mystery, and exclusivity are what make her desirable. When she throws it away, her value drops.
But a man? The more women he can attract, the higher his value becomes.
This is why women chase high-status men. They don’t want the weak, invisible guy with no options. They want the man who other women desire.
And here’s the kicker, 👉 women know this truth, even if they pretend otherwise.
Ever noticed how women will shame men for sleeping around, but still run after the same “players” who have a lineup of women? Because deep down, they respect a man who can win in the game of selection.
Meanwhile, men will gladly sleep with a promiscuous woman, but they won’t commit to her. That’s the reality.
The world will scream, “But that’s unfair!”
Reality doesn’t care.
A king can sleep with as many women as he wants, and his status only grows.
A queen does the same, and she loses her crown.
That’s nature. That’s the game. Either learn it or perish.

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22/02/2025

Don't call her your woman until you officially marry her...

Men
My neighbor begged me to lend him 10k to give his girlfriend to fix her phone. I asked him;

" why don't you tell your girlfriend that you are broke and can't afford 10k at the moment?"

He replied that he don't want her to be angry and dump him

His answer was too funny to me, after laughing out loud , I simply told him that I don't have 10k to give him.

He left with annoyance and I could see disappointments written on his face.

When he left, I pondered on this and asked some rhetorical questions;

Let's assume that my girlfriend is broke and couldn't fix her phone, then I couldn't help her fix it because I am also broke.

Why would she be angry with me for being broke when she is also broke ?

Why should my own brokenness give her serious concern when she should concentrate on solving hers?

Is she indirectly blaming me for being the cause of her brokenness simply because I am her boyfriend?

If she can't endure with me in my temporal brokenness, how will she be able to face marital challenges with me in the future?

Being broke doesn't automatically make you a poor man. There is nothing wrong with you for being broke even billionaires experience brokenness once in a while .

It is not something you should be ashamed of. The reasons you ventured into a committed relationship are; to check your compatibilities, to test her loyalty and sincerity and to make her know your dons and don'ts Her characters will determine where to place her; whether she belongs to the streets or to be domesticated.

Yes, we are meant to help ourselves but not to your own detriments.

At this stage, she is not yet your responsibility. Whatever you are doing for her is a PRIVILEGE not her RIGHT .

Any woman whom you have not officially married, is not your woman. Don't call her your woman until you pay her bride price because she still have right to flirt with other men without breaking any law.

Don't allow her problems to cause you headache when you have yours.
Assist her if you can but don't put yourself into debts to impress her

Money can't keep her, . Your sacrifices are nothing to her, women are loyal to their feelings and their feelings are unstable

Stop running helter skelter to help her, she will still dump you without having a second thought.
Be wise