19/11/2025
The worst feeling for a woman is when she tries to talk with a man about how his actions affect her. But instead of listening he gets defensive and somehow she ends up to be the problem. She didn't want to fight she just wanted to be heard.
She wanted to express her feelings, her concerns, and her needs, but instead, she gets dismissed, invalidated, and blamed. It's like she's speaking a different language, and he's more interested in being right than understanding her. He's more invested in defending himself than in acknowledging her pain. And she's left feeling unheard, unseen, and un validated. It's a lonely, isolating feeling, like she's walking on eggshells, never knowing when he'll explode or shut down.
She's not asking for solutions, she's not asking for fixes, she's asking to be heard, to be seen, and to be understood. But somehow, it always turns into a fight, and she's left feeling like she's the one who's crazy, like she's the one who's wrong. And that's the worst part, that's the part that hurts the most.
