26/07/2025
Before You Raise a Child in Today’s World… You Need to Hear This African Story
Episode 4
On a Wednesday afternoon, Daniel was walking home from school when he heard the familiar whistle behind him. He turned and saw Sly, the same boy who had recruited him into the online “hustlers” group.
“Guy, you just disappear like ghost. You never dey drop again,” Sly said, slapping Daniel’s shoulder.
Daniel hesitated. “I don stop. I’m focusing on other things.”
Sly laughed. “Other things? You dey do church boy now?”
The conversation was short, but the pressure lingered. Sly made it sound like Daniel had become soft. Like he was missing out. That night, Daniel couldn’t sleep. He stared at the ceiling wondering if he was throwing away his chance to “cash out” and help his family faster. All those messages in the Telegram group still buzzed in his memory—boys buying phones, sneakers, renting one-bedroom flats.
But then he remembered the bowl of pancakes, his mother’s journal, Zoe’s innocent smile, and the way Lisa laughed now during devotion.
He had something money couldn’t buy anymore.
Meanwhile, Lisa faced her own test. At school, a girl named Belinda teased her during break time. “So I heard your mum broke your tab and banned you from TikTok,” she sneered.
Lisa stayed quiet.
“I guess you’re not cool anymore. No wonder you don’t even know the new dance.”
But instead of reacting with anger, Lisa surprised herself. “It’s not every dance that’s worth doing,” she replied.
The girls laughed and walked away, but something shifted in Lisa. For once, she didn’t feel small for not following the crowd. She felt… safe.
When Grace picked them up from school that day, Lisa got into the car and said something she hadn’t said in a long time: “Thanks for coming.”
Grace smiled. “Always.”
Zoe piped up from the backseat. “Can we sing that song from last night again?”
They all laughed.
But Grace knew better than to relax too soon. The enemy doesn’t knock once. He keeps returning.
That night, she added a new rule to the board:
Rule #6: If you’re struggling, don’t hide. Speak. I will listen. Always.
She left the marker uncapped on purpose.
And for the first time, Daniel picked it up.
He wrote one word beneath it: “Trying.”
It was a quiet Saturday morning. The kind of peaceful morning Grace hadn’t experienced in years. Birds chirped. A soft breeze moved the curtains. Zoe was helping her mother water the flowers in front of the compound while Lisa swept the veranda, earbuds in—not for music, but for a Bible story podcast Grace had introduced. Inside, Daniel sat at the table, sketching something in his journal. He wasn’t an artist, but he found peace in drawing. He drew his family that morning. Smiling. Together.
Then came the knock.
Grace wasn’t expecting anyone. She wiped her hands and walked to the gate cautiously. When she opened it, her face dropped. There stood Mrs. Obasi, the assistant principal at Daniel’s school. Her face was serious, almost apologetic.
“Good morning, Grace. Sorry to come unannounced,” she said, stepping inside as Grace opened the gate wider.
Grace offered her a seat. Her heart was already racing.
“It’s about Daniel,” Mrs. Obasi said, lowering her voice. “A few weeks ago, we discovered some of the students were involved in off-campus scams. Daniel’s name was mentioned. We decided to investigate quietly.”
Grace felt her stomach twist. Just when she thought things were improving…
“But,” Mrs. Obasi continued, “I spoke to him personally last week. He admitted he was once involved but said he stopped. He even helped us identify some of the group leaders. Grace… your son helped us break the cycle for others.”
Tears filled Grace’s eyes.
“We’re not punishing him,” Mrs. Obasi said gently. “In fact, we’d like him to speak to some of the junior students during mentorship week. He’s honest, smart, and courageous. We believe he could lead them the right way.”
Grace nodded slowly, overwhelmed. After the woman left, she walked back into the house, where Daniel still sat drawing.
“You helped your school, Daniel?” she asked.
He looked up, surprised. “They came to me. I just… didn’t want to lie anymore.”
Grace knelt beside him and hugged him tightly. “I’m proud of you. So, so proud.”
Later that night, she told the girls what happened. Lisa smiled proudly. Zoe clapped and ran to hug Daniel’s legs.
It wasn’t a perfect home. But it was becoming a healed one.
Grace sat on her bed later that evening, flipping through her Bible. Her eyes landed on Isaiah 54:13:
“All your children shall be taught by the Lord, and great shall be the peace of your children.”
She underlined it and wrote beside it in her journal:
Let this be our legacy.
Lisa had been doing well. Her mornings were more cheerful, her journal entries more honest. She even started helping Zoe with homework and joined Grace for Bible reading without being forced. But even good progress has cracks—and sometimes, the past finds a way to sneak in through a small one.
It started with a sleepover invitation.
Belinda, the same girl who once mocked Lisa at school, was throwing a birthday party at her aunt’s house. She handed Lisa a glittery card after school. “There’ll be pizza, games, and we’re even going live on TikTok. You should totally come. Just don’t bring that boring church energy,” she added with a smirk.
Lisa wanted to say no. But she didn’t.
At home, Lisa handed the card to her mum. “Can I go? It’s just one night.”
Grace read the invite twice. Her spirit twisted. Something didn’t sit right. “Who will be there? Any adults?”
“Her aunt. She’s cool,” Lisa replied quickly.
Grace paused. She didn’t want to seem overbearing. But she also couldn’t ignore her instincts. “Let me speak with Belinda’s aunt before I decide,” she said.
Lisa frowned. “Mum, please don’t embarrass me.”
Grace didn’t budge. That evening, she dialed the number printed on the invitation. The woman who picked up sounded distracted, barely paying attention. She laughed loudly into the phone and said, “No stress, madam. It’s just girls having fun. They’re teenagers, let them enjoy.”
That was all Grace needed to hear.
The next day, Grace sat Lisa down. “Sweetheart, you can’t go.”
Lisa’s eyes widened. “Why not?”
“Because I don’t have peace about it. The guardian sounds careless. The internet will be involved. And I’m not ready to expose you to that again.”
Lisa exploded. “So I’m your prisoner now?! Everyone else is going!”
Grace didn’t raise her voice. “I’d rather protect you and have you angry at me than let you go and lose you.”
Lisa ran to her room and slammed the door. Grace sat in the living room, eyes closed, whispering a prayer. She knew Lisa didn’t understand yet. But one day she would.
That night, Lisa didn’t come out for dinner. But just before bedtime, Grace found a note slid under her door.
“I don’t get you sometimes. But I know you love me. I just wish it wasn’t so hard.” —Lisa
Grace held the note to her chest.
The next morning, Lisa joined devotion again.
Not because she wasn’t still angry.
But because she knew, deep down, her mother was the only one truly fighting for her soul.
The week after Lisa’s sleepover meltdown passed quietly. There were no more tantrums, no shouting, no slammed doors. But there was also a new kind of silence in the house—fragile, like walking across cracked glass. Grace knew they were at a turning point. She had done all she could inside the home. But it wasn’t enough. The world outside was louder, faster, and more persuasive than ever. If she didn’t strengthen their foundation with more than just words and rules, she would lose them all over again.
So she made a call.
That Saturday morning, Grace took her children to a nearby youth mentorship center run by her former university friend, Aunty Mabel—a counselor, youth coach, and mother of two teenage boys herself. The building wasn’t flashy, but it was alive. The walls were painted with murals of African children holding books and playing drums. Inside, there were teenagers sitting in small circles, talking, laughing, and sharing real-life struggles—with no judgment.
Zoe stayed close to her mum. Lisa looked uncomfortable. Daniel? He stayed silent, eyes darting everywhere. But Aunty Mabel knew what to do. She welcomed each of them with warmth that felt like sunlight.
The session was simple. Each child was paired with a mentor close to their age. They discussed choices, digital pressure, identity, and fear. Lisa ended up with a 15-year-old girl who used to be addicted to social media fame but now ran a small online devotional page. Daniel sat next to a boy who once belonged to a fraud gang but left and is now learning graphic design. The stories were raw, real, and nothing like school sermons.
For the first time, the children saw people who had walked similar paths and made it out.
Grace stood quietly in the hallway, peeking into each room. Her eyes filled with tears—not of pain this time, but of relief. She had found her tribe. The support she’d needed all along. Parenting wasn’t meant to be done in isolation.
Later that day, as they walked back to the car, Lisa was the first to speak.
“Mummy… when can we come back?”
Daniel added, “That guy said he’ll teach me design if I’m serious.”
Even Zoe shouted, “I drew a rainbow!”
Grace smiled and whispered, “We’ll come every week if we have to.”
And she meant it. Because healing is not a one-time thing. It’s a journey. And she was
The mentorship program became part of their weekly routine. Saturdays were no longer lazy mornings filled with cartoons and distractions. Instead, they became a time for reflection, growth, and laughter in community. Daniel was now practicing graphic design on a borrowed laptop. Lisa had started journaling again, but this time it wasn’t about outfits or views—it was about her feelings. Zoe was learning memory verses and proudly reciting them, sometimes in the middle of dinner. Grace felt the tide shifting.
But the enemy rarely knocks with a hammer. Sometimes, he slips through with a ding—a notification.
Lisa’s borrowed tablet buzzed one afternoon while she was doing homework. It was a DM from an old classmate. His name was KC. He used to comment on her makeup videos back when she was deep in her influencer phase. The message read:
“Hey Lisa. Miss seeing your vids. You were fire. You should come back. I can show you how to grow fast.”
Something inside Lisa stirred.
She didn’t reply immediately. But her mind began to wander. What harm could it do? Just one post? Just one video for old times’ sake? She still remembered her poses, the angles. And KC was cute. He had over 5,000 followers. That had to count for something.
Later that night, she slipped into the guest room where no one could hear the creaking floorboards. She opened the tablet and started recording—just one short video. She didn’t wear anything revealing. She just lip-synced a trending audio, pouted once, and uploaded it to her old account.
It was live for six minutes.
Then Grace walked in.
Lisa froze. “Mummy… I was just…”
Grace didn’t shout. She walked in slowly, picked up the tablet, and saw the post. Then she looked her daughter in the eye.
“I’m not angry. I’m sad.”
Lisa’s shoulders dropped.
“I thought I was strong enough now,” she whispered.
“You are strong,” Grace said, kneeling beside her. “But strength doesn’t mean never falling. It means choosing to get back up—and not doing it alone.”
Grace helped her delete the video. They sat in that room for an hour, not speaking much. Just being present. That night, Lisa added her own words under Rule #6 on the whiteboard:
“Temptation knocks like a friend. But friends don’t ask you to lie.”
Grace read it the next morning and smiled.
The war wasn’t over.
But her children were learning to fight back—with truth.
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