14/08/2026
Can I tell you guys a story? My brother and I have never been super close, but I've always wanted the very best for him. That's why I was so happy when he found Angie, because that's what she is- the very best.
It was a joy to watch them build their life together, from globe-trotting adventures, to starting a family, to entering the trenches of small business ownership when they purchased the veterinary clinic Angie had worked at for years.
Together they have four beautiful children, my perfect baby angel nephews and niece. Nathan is 8, Liam is 6, Aiden is 4, and Nora is almost 2. For years, I have watched with wonder as Angie worked eleventy-billion hours a week at her clinic, went home and played outside with her kids, cultivated a garden, made time for family trips, went camping, played the organ at her church, etc, etc. I'm still convinced she's always known how to squeeze more than 24 hours into a day.
Not quite two weeks ago, my brother took Angie to the ER for back pain and shortness of breath. Every day since has been a nightmare. Blood clots in her lungs which were caused by cancer that had started in her ovaries and spread to most of her major organs. Then a brain bleed caused by the blood thinners, followed by a massive stroke. Today, Angie's medical team made the decision to stop treatment and keep her comfortable for her final days, which will be few.
From camping and planning for back-to-school for the kids, to saying their final goodbyes in less than two weeks. We are all shocked, heartbroken, and devastated. Actually, that's probably an understatement.
I wish I could give my precious niece and nephews the world, but I'm a struggling small business owner, as are Angie and my brother. I don't have a ton of money, but I do have a wonderful online community that has grown from a shared love of weird history, spooky books, and bugs. And so I'm asking now for your support, for my brother and his family, so that they don't have to worry about financial nonsense in the immediate future. If you're unable to give, please just share. And please, please send your prayers and good vibes their way.
It will forever be the greatest honor and heartbreak of my life that I was able to spend a bit of time with Angie when they sent her home from the hospital briefly last weekend, on the last day that she was truly herself. There was a lot going on, so much uncertainty, so much anxiety and fear. When I was getting ready to leave, I found myself alone with Angie, and I asked her- "Can I get you anything?" She said, "just a hug." Those were her last words to me, and I will carry them with me for the rest of my days. 🔗⬇️