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24/04/2025

If the deal bends the law in any way (it doesn't have to break it) never involve a girl.

They don't teach this in school.

24/04/2025

Get married, so that you can keep paying for boring s*x that never happens.

20/04/2025

You can be a great father and still lose your family, because in today’s world, effort means nothing if you’re a man.

You wake up early.
You go to work.
You pay the rent.
You stay loyal.
You pray for the family.

Still - you lose them.

Not because you failed but because modern fatherhood is built like a trap.

You do everything right…
and still end up wrong.

She leaves. The kids follow. The house becomes a memory.

You keep paying bills.
She keeps changing the narrative.

And if you dare raise your voice?

You’re “toxic.”
You’re “unstable.”
You’re “the reason she left.”

You paid for the piper—
but she still dictates the tune.

You followed the rules. But that’s the problem.

Because if you follow the rules, you’re not a leader. If you’re loyal, you become a simp.

You were told to protect her. So you did!

You were told to provide. So you did!

You were told to stay faithful. So you did!

And now?
You’re divorced.
You’re depressed.
You’re disposable.

The court says, “You are not the father.”

But the damage is already done.
Your heart? Shattered.
Your name? Stained.
Your wallet? Still responsible.

They call it “in the best interest of the child.”
A child she won’t even let you see...

Meanwhile, she smiles in silence.

Because she already won.

The lie worked.
The system backed her.
And society cheered her on.

You?
You’re on your fourth therapy.
And nobody clapped you for surviving.

You lose your family … and they still blame you.

“She probably warned him.”
“He chose beauty, not brains.”
“He didn’t discern well
Or maybe…
just maybe…
they married women who were experts at hiding their true nature.

Until one day - they woke up, and switched.

No warning.
No remorse.
Just “I’ve changed.”

Modern women don’t leave you for cheating.

They leave because your timeline expired.
You don't tickle their fancy and fantasy again.
You couldn’t afford the soft life package again.
So they 'cut their losses' & shoot for the streets.

You were good. But you weren’t enough.

Not rich enough.
Not fun enough.
Not trendy enough.

And now the kids are gone.
The house is quiet.
Your heart is tired.

And all you hear is:

“Real men fight for their families.”

As if you didn’t already bleed trying.

Let me be clear.

You can be a great father and still lose all.

Not because you didn’t love enough.
But because love doesn’t matter anymore.

Not if you’re a man.

Let the keypad warriors flood the comments.
Let the women say “not all of us.”
Let the deniers come swinging.

But the real men know.

They’ve lived it.
They’ve bled it.
They’ve buried it.

Say nothing and move on.

26/02/2025

In the complex tapestry of Kenyan politics, historical patterns often repeat themselves, offering valuable lessons for contemporary leaders. One such narrative involves Jaramogi Oginga Odinga, a figure who had already begun forging his own political path by the early 1990s.

As the push to oust President Moi intensified, a group of influential figures, including Paul Muite, Kenneth Matiba, and Charles Rubia, converged to discuss forming a formidable alliance with Jaramogi. This coalition aimed to challenge Moi's regime, with Jaramogi potentially leading the charge as a joint presidential candidate after constitutional reforms.

These discussions took place without Jaramogi's initial knowledge, involving other key figures like Bishop Henry Okullu and Joab Omino. When approached, Jaramogi expressed skepticism, drawing from past experiences of political betrayal, particularly the tumultuous Kikuyu-Luo alliances of the colonial and post-independence eras. Despite these reservations, he agreed to the alliance after being assured of genuine support.

However, the dynamics shifted when Matiba, while recovering abroad, was persuaded by some Mt. Kenya politicians that he could successfully challenge Moi alone. This led to a change in alliances after the introduction of multipartism, with some abandoning their commitment to Jaramogi. Muite remained steadfast in his support, but the divided opposition ultimately handed Moi another term.

Jaramogi, familiar with political betrayals, launched his own presidential bid, supported by a few Mt. Kenya politicians like Muite and Gitobu Imanyara. His passing the following year marked the end of an era.

Today, as Raila Odinga navigates the complex landscape of Kenyan politics, he would do well to heed the lessons of history.

The offer of support from figures like Gachagua should be viewed with caution, as historical patterns suggest that such alliances can be fleeting and driven by ulterior motives.

Gachagua's intentions might be more about personal vendettas than genuine support, and even if successful, such a partnership could lead to a chaotic government, mirroring the divisions seen in UDA.

The contrast between Raila's inclusive approach to political appointments and Gachagua's belief in prioritizing communities that voted for the government could further exacerbate these divisions.

15/02/2025

The sooner we realise

That we had a nightmare candidate. A jupiterian 80 year old politician with all his glory in the past, hoping to use the elevated position to repair his struggling legacy.

A president leading the campaign with his reputation as a transactional politician, attempting to use the institution as a dumping ground for a political obstacle, to ease his rule and reelection. All known by his peers in Africa.

A foreign ministry led by a land economist, politician, Insurance broker, and lately hawking his political party to the only available bidder.

Incoherent, loud, tactless, are the qualities we ended up projecting, with a tincture of entitlement.

Then the Chief announces his candidate, and follows it up with support for Israel in the war against Palestinians, losing the entire pro Palestinian vote.

This election was lost in November 2023.

23/12/2024

STUBBORN WOMEN ARE ALWAYS FAILURES!

Written by Amina Al-Harbi, social consultant

Stubborn women fail in their marriages, and even in their relationships with relatives.

Women who lack emotional intelligence and flexibility in dealing with people around them, are the biggest failures in their marriages and their lives. Why?

She enters into an egoistic tug of war with her husband, and prefers the voice of her ego to try to overcome him, and in fact she fails before the ego of her husband and the ego of those who are around her, because men become more stubborn in front of a stubborn wife and stubborn sister, and they become more gentle in front of a submissive woman.

A headstrong woman thinks that she can win while insisting on her opinion, and she can stand in front of any opposition. She forgets that even if she wins by her obstinacy in her opinion and stand, she loses the heart that was loving her and caring for her.

Many narrations and wise proverbs in all the cultures have praised an easy-going, soft, friendly, patient and enduring woman. Even the Messenger (peace and blessings be on him) and the Companions after him, recommended and praised a woman who respects her husband and speaks with softness and wisdom, and in turn he will love her and never leave her.

The woman who will obey her husband and stoop to let the storm pass; she is the wise, rational woman who thrives, and holds the family together. The woman who stands like an unyielding dry stick is the one who breaks, suffering irreparable damage.

The uncompromising woman clings to her opinion. She tries to constantly perpetuate the illusion of her victory: I win and you lose, I am right and you are wrong. Such a woman destroys herself before destroying others. And she lives a life of sorrowful despondency in this world and the hereafter.

From my experiences in marital counseling, I found that mulish women end up in divorce. And bitterly fail in their family and social life. The even end up destroying her own father family and his siblings'

The advice of a bedouin Arab woman to her daughter on the day of her marriage, is considered by all the successful women the best advice for a woman. She said:
"Be his slave......and surely he becomes your imminent slave".
"Men are kind, generous and benevolent, but a stubborn, foolish woman turns them into enemies."

Finally I quote a wise Sheikh (may God have mercy on him):

I was a civil court judge for 27 years.........and I found that most of the divorce incidents are caused by the anger of a man, and by the foolish responses of a woman.

In other words, the stubbornness of a woman makes a man ten times more stubborn than her.

Translated by Sheikh Abdus Salam al-Madani Founder, Aspire College of Excellence.

Well, in these days of feminism and female affirmative action, l find that the perceptions young women have about what should be their relationship with their spouses is seriously blighted by ego and impatience.

They are not willing to work on their inherent flaws and feel the man should be the one to adjust to their own idiosyncrasies.

I personally think the above tips works and any woman who wants to make a success of her marriage will do well to follow them.

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22/11/2024

My friend ondari entered into a business deal that would end up selling his entire family's right of way and access to omena from the lake in the clan's beach property to Jasuba.

Ondari, the clan elder further had contracted Jasuba to exclusively supply kerosene and lanterns to the entire village.

The whole family including his prayer warrior wife pleaded with him not to sell their right of way in the beach property and advised him on how wrong the exlusive rights to supply power and liggt to the village was ill advised. Through his friends and new bossom friend Baba Fiddy who wants to join the council of toothless elders, they had a spirited campaign towards defending the deal.

Yesterday, through the village crier Ekerambauti, the area Chief who doubles up as a shylock in the village then announced thay the buyer of the beach property had defrauded him and other money lenders, soon after, the Chief's militia, "abayuti" detained sheep, goats and cows that Ondari and his friends had hidden in their sister inlaw's place - allegedly because the animals were bought with moneys received from Jasuba.

Quickly, Ondari in his speech in the family annual meeting declared to have revoked and suspended all dealings on the Beach Property and right of way with Jasuba he further revoked the exclusive rights given to jasuba to supply kerosene and lanterns to the village.

26/10/2024

"Nkoega ngochia!" Local man has a fixture immediately after prosecuting the case in favour of Murima.

11/10/2024

The priest decided to do the Lord's work. The fear is gone.

02/09/2024

You left your husband because he was cheating.

You have a kid or two.

So you divorced because you were so pained.

You left.

With the kids.

You started working hard to cater for your needs. You work so hard, but it isn't enough.

To meet up with the growing economic demands, you find a wealthy man. He is rich. You dont care. You need to pay fees for your kids as a strong, independent woman. You need to prove that it can be done. So you're dating a wealthy married man.
You are now a side chic.

Then, you begin to think of the side chics your husband has and why he has them.

You do not even question the morality. You begin to understand why. Maybe they've got kids too. Mouths to feed, life to live.

It doesn't make sense still.

So you call the married man when he is home, and he hides to shout at you for wanting to disturb his peace with his "wife" as you ought to know when he is home.

You think of your hurts.

You think of your consolation.

At least you had a husband who was fully yours. He cheats, but he was fully yours.

So you attempt to find out what is going on with him now, but he is married again to a younger woman.

After you make contact, he comes to visit you and the kids. He drops some money once a while. The new wife is in charge now...

You connect on old times. You even had s*x.

He leaves to his house to his wife. You're now dating two married men. Both of them are cheating on their wives.

And then you say life wasn't fair to you.

As bad as this may sound, it happens. It is the reality of our time.

Wise people learn from the mistakes of others.

Don't leave ur peaceful abode (marriage) because he cheats.

It rains every where.


Remember Love is beautiful 🌹

Ladies, a moment!
Juu Wueeh...
Nimeona the rate at which watu wanajitoa kwa ndoa tumesahau Hio msemo ya for better for worse...hehe

Men, I will soon address you through your chairman.😂
It's life anyway!!.
Blessed Sunday🙏🏼

24/08/2024

There was a time when Safaricom was disrupting the economy and revolutionalizing what we do and how we do it. If Safaricom stops innovating and turns to government protection and gatekeeping, our Unicorn will follow Ericson, Kodak, Blackberry and Philips.

It is worth noting that Kencel (now airtel) was once dominant and the mainstream telco in Kenya. They sat in comfort while Safaricom was innovating, they are now comfortably sitting at "Sim 2"

Starlink is here, instead of seeking protection, why not beat starlink or arrange for Starlink to be beaten!

01/12/2023

Most marriages are a man with an income and a woman with limited options.

27/11/2023

President Ruto reminds me of my high school principal. Pale Nkubu High School nikiwa form one in 2012, the porridge was pathetic & the food was terrible. Students had been complaining for weeks but the Principal had intentionally ignored them.

Bwana one night they organized, bought Petrol & poured it in 10 dormitories k**a tumelala. Then same students woke us up chini ya maji. The Deputy was alarmed & police were called. We went to extend our sleep in classes but we couldn’t because of shock.

Morning came & we were called at the assembly. The police were all over, the OCS was around, the area MP was on his way. Then form four & form three students demanded to be heard. One took the mic & told the principal that whatever had happened was a warning & if they wanted to burn the school down they’d have done so. Another one took the mic & told him he will be stupid to think they afforded 5L Petrol & lacked 10 bob for match box. The other student told him on the face that all they now want was a DIALOGUE with ONLY HIM in the DINING HALL other teachers to keep off, bwana you could hear how we cheered.

The principal humbled himself and accepted to have a dialogue. Students presented their grievances. Some teachers were sent (on the same day) to St.Mary’s Girls, Chogoria Girls, Meru School, Kaaga Girls to confirm what kind of food they were having. The following day our food completely changed, students started having Chicken, Pork, Eggs, the price of bread was lowered & we never ever complained again. He later became our favorite & listening/considerate Principal. We could even watch late night champion league games & Derbies with his permission. We loved & adored him.

President Ruto Thinks Kenyans are fools. Kenyans are hearting, suffering, depression & stressed. He must listen to what Kenyans are saying. Lower the cost of living, lower the cost of fuel, fire all your CSs & at least retain Rebecca Miano. This country belongs to all of us. We pay you, you have a duty & responsibility to listen to us!

27/11/2023

Khalwale vs Gachagua

Cheruiyot vs Ndii

Cherargei vs Murkomen

Kahiga Mutagi vs UDA headquarters

Gachagua vs Mudavadi.

There are so many battles going on in Kenya Kwanza that you can't keep count. But all of them are manifestations of different things, including but not limited to...

1. The mood in the country is that anyone who runs against Ruto in 2027, including Bifwoli Wakoli's domestic cat, Nelima, will beat him by a landslide. It has emboldened people both inside and outside government to say unspeakable things in broad daylight.

2. Because of the foregoing, Kikuyu entitlement and Kalenjin incompetence have finally parted company. Quite incredibly, each one thinks the other will cost it the presidency in 2027 and must get rid of the other! Since the regime is so unpopular, the Kikuyu think that they too can run a candidate and beat Ruto. In fact, when people like Ndii and Kuria throw words at wananchi, they are unwittingly helping drive a wedge between the people and Ruto.

3. Lee Njiru says in his book that within the Moi State House, the fight between the Kalenjin sub tribes was more vicious than that between the Kalenjin and other tribes. Moi's security machinery was built around Keiyos and Marakwets, like the Sumbeiywos and Kimaiyos, which mightily irked the populous Kipsigis and Nandis. Plus Moi's own Tugen (until fellow Tugen, Tonje, became military boss). Now, Cherargei is on Murkomen's neck. Cherargei is Nandi, like Ruto. Murkomen is Marakwet. You can bet your last calf that Cherargei's problem is not any corruption connected to Murkomen, but that as Ruto stares at defeat in 2027, Murkomen is building the money and political networks to be the Kalenjin alternative to Ruto. How dare he, a Marakwet, do that to the Nandi supremo? (I need to revisit the military angle to this).

4. Remember how Khalwale took on Gachagua last week? In which democracy does the Majority Whip whip the buttocks of the sitting Deputy President like that? Would Khalwale have gone all out on Rigathi without the blessings of both Mudavadi and Ruto? The simple answer is no. But there is another angle. Khalwale purported to warn the mountain that it will be Mulembe Nation's turn in 2032, not another mountaineer. But what if Mudavadi wants it in 2027? Remember Bifwoli's cat can win it? Even more intriguingly, what if Ruto himself thinks that his regime will be so unpopular that he can just help run Mudavadi against him so that if he gets beaten, it is by a more friendly person than Rigathi?

5. The consensus in Azimio is that Kalonzo will be the candidate. Kikuyus, having fallen out with Ruto, will probably find Kalonzo a better offer, if they don't run one of their own. In desperation, Ruto will turn to the Luo, and will offer Raila half the world to help him. Here is the question; between Kalenjin Incompetence and Kikuyu Entitlement, which one do you think the general Luo population would rather have? The answer is obvious. If things go like 5 here, that choice made by Luos will win it in 2027.

6. Let us not forget that if Bifwoli's cat can win it, then there is a huge constituency in the country that will feel that Raila is still very young and should finally take it. Raila's name is an industrial complex. It feeds politics at all levels. As long as Raila can raise one hand up in an ICU bed, there will be millions who demand that Amolo must be on the ticket, so that he can slay both Kikuyu Entitlement and Kalenjin Incompetence in one move!

Therefore, as Kenya Kwanza luminaries turn on each other, we bless the spirit of the Kilkenny cats in them. We however note that since Kikuyu Entitlement is an acquired taste while Kalenjin Incompetence is a born taste, we can tell which one is worse.

26/11/2023

FACTS YOU DIDN'T KNOW ABOUT NYAYO ESTATE

Nyayo estate is probably the most organized upper middle class estate in Eastlands Nairobi. The houses are magnificent,roads perfect and everything looks in order.Nyayo Estate is the only Estate in Eastlands that can rival the likes of Kileleshwa--it's probably in a wrong place.

In this estate, a mubaba will have his family living in gate A, and a side family living in a mansion in gate D, and another family just outside gate C. Nyayo is the only estate in Nairobi where the wife will go to pick her son from school, only to find her son’s twin who she did not birth in the same school.

They are age mates, same skin color, same hair type and they probably go to the same nearby salon. A mubaba pays fee for both kids. They have the same surname,same forehead,same lips, usicheze na Nyayo--- it should be included in the Guinness book of records.

Nyayo estate is the only estate in Nairobi, where a man will come home from work, park his car, grab a glass of orange juice from the fridge and casually walk to his mpango wa kando's house in a pair of sweat pants and sandals and the wife will suspect nothing.
Nyayo estate is the only estate in Eastlands where a man will have two families living adjacent to each other.

It's arguably the the headquarters of sins in Nairobi. If you live in Nyayo Estate, start gazing at your neighbors' kids, and realize they could be your husband’s...weird!

Nyayo estate is also where wababas rent houses for their side chicks. Some will furnish secret apartments that they use for their bedminton as well as run secret Airbnbs. I’m telling you top secrets and could go to jail for it.

You'll be shocked that your neigbours do not know all their husband's kids.
When outside Nyayo you could think nothing is happening,24 hours a day,satan resides there.
Well,Nyayo Estate was built in 1999 during Nyayo Era by NSSF.

It adopted the name Nyayo,a slogan commonly used by former President Moi.The estate's immediate neighbour is Tassia and of course Pipeline which are equally dramatic.To rent a house in Nyayo Estate,you have to part with Ksh 30,000 to Ksh100,000 monthly.

23/11/2023

KENYANS RECRUITED TO FIGHT IN SOMALIA

The Associated Press

The recruits assembled by moonlight at a watering hole. Hundreds of boys and young Kenyan men were herded onto trucks, which were covered with heavy canvas, and driven through the night.

It was so hot inside they could hardly breathe. One recruit, Salad Dahir, said they banged the sides of the truck for water but got none. Some had to urinate where they stood.

Their destination: a secluded training camp deep in the Kenyan bush.

Thousands of people are being secretly recruited and trained inside Kenya to battle Islamic insurgents in neighboring Somalia, according to deserters, local officials, families of recruits and diplomats.

Most recruits are Somalis living in crowded refugee camps and Kenyan nationals who are ethnic Somalis living nearby.

Spokesmen from the Kenyan government, police and military, as well as the Somali chief of military staff, have denied that the government is recruiting fighters within Kenya.

But interviews showed that recruiting has been taking place for months and that different government agencies and military resources — including vehicles with government license plates — have been involved.

A U.N. official says there have been rumors but no hard evidence of recruitment in refugee camps, which would violate the rights of the refugees.

Eight diplomats, citing internal reports and other sources, told The Associated Press that the recruits are being trained for a planned offensive on behalf of Somalia's weak, U.N.-backed government to wrest control of parts of southern Somalia from the insurgents.

The diplomats spoke on condition of anonymity to prevent damaging relations with Kenya over the sensitive subject. Two of the diplomats said the offensive is planned for the end of Somalia's rainy season around the end of the year.

Kenya has long feared that the conflict in Somalia, which has been bloodied by civil war since warlords overthrew dictator Mohamed Siad Barre in 1991, will spill across the border into its own neglected northeastern region. The area is home to hundreds of thousands of ethnically Somali Kenyans.

A way out of refugee camps?

Thousands of would-be fighters have been lured into the militia by promises of up to $600 a month, but many fled after they were not paid, were beaten or went hungry, more than a dozen of the deserters told the AP.

Many recruits remain in the ranks and see the secret militia as their only way out of overcrowded refugee camps and the dusty, poor towns around them.

Chris Albin-Lackey, a researcher at Human Rights Watch who has interviewed recruits and their families, said: "Refugees are supposed to find safety in the camps, not a government that is trying to trick their sons into going back to fight in Somalia."

Albin-Lackey noted the recruitment of children violates the U.N. Convention on the Rights of the Child, to which Kenya is a signatory.

Kenya is eager to counter the influence of insurgents in Somalia who preach the spread of a pan-Islamic state into Kenya and Ethiopia, where many Somalis live due to borders drawn by former colonial powers. Somalia's al-Shabab insurgents — some of whom have ties to al-Qaida — already cross into northern Kenya.

About two months ago, recruiters started openly operating in Kenyan towns and in nearby huts and tents of the refugee camps, according to more than 20 interviews with recruits, their families and religious, municipal and civil society leaders.

Some recruiters even worked from a hotel fronting a heavily fortified U.N. compound in the northern town of Dadaab, home to three overcrowded camps of about 275,000 refugees, most from Somalia.

Baijo Mohamed, chairman of a youth group in Dadaab's Ifo camp, said he had been approached by two Somali generals to help recruit fighters but refused because he did not want to see his friends die in a war they are not responsible for.

Promises made to recruits
More than a dozen deserters said they were promised positions in the Kenyan or Somali armies or jobs with U.N. security by men acting as recruiters. Some said they were told they would patrol the Kenya-Somalia border.

But upon arrival at the training camp, they were told they were going to Somalia's capital, Mogadishu, or Kismayo, a key southern city under Islamist control.

Some recruits said they would never have joined if they had known they were supposed to be fighting in Somalia, a sun-scorched nation that has not seen peace in a generation.

Kenyan Defense Ministry spokesman Bogita Ongeri denied a secret militia is being formed or that the military was involved in any recruitment or training.

Contradictory evidence was the result of propaganda by Somali Islamists, he said, adding that the only training taking place is Kenyan police training Somali police.

"The military is not involved at all in any training of any Somali forces," he said. "This is propaganda being disseminated by some militia groups in Somalia."

Police spokesman Eric Kiraithe said he is not aware of any such police training by Kenya. Alejandro Bendana, the manager for the U.N. program training Somali police, also said he knew of no such U.N.-related training in Kenya. The main training area for police recruits is in the northern Somali region of Puntland, Bendana said.

Ismail Garat, the deputy mayor of the northern town of Garissa, about 60 miles (100 kilometers) from Dadaab, said he has received many complaints from constituents about the recruitment for the secret militia.

"They recruited retired Kenyan army officers first," Garat said. "Then they came back and began to take the youth."

Young men disappear

Garat estimated at least 300 young men disappeared from the town into the militia. Garat's brother was among those approached and the deputy mayor had to persuade him to return.

Hussein Mahad, the secretary of the Council of Imams and Preachers for the town, said all 100 of the imams in his group have reported complaints about the recruitment drive. He said he knew of a woman whose husband, a retired Kenyan soldier, had joined early in the process and whose son was taken later.

Garat said trucks from the Kenya National Youth Service with government license plates took away the recruits from Garissa at night. Witnesses told him military escorts were sometimes present. Most of the recruits from Dadaab said they were also transported on trucks with government plates.

The deserters all said they were taken to Manyani, a training center for the Kenya Wildlife Service outside the port of Mombasa. They said their cell phones were confiscated upon arrival and Kenyan citizens had to surrender their identity cards.

Kenyans of Somali descent can easily pass for Somalis. They share with Somali nationals the Islamic religion, a common language — Somali — and a tall, slender appearance, looking distinct from members of other ethnic groups from farther south.

"They said, 'You are not a Kenyan. From this moment, tell yourselves and other people you are Somali,'" recalled 18-year-old Kenyan citizen Aden Hassan, who said he made the journey with 400 other men and was told to surrender his ID card.

Military officials at training?

Both Somali and Kenyan military officials were involved in the training, the recruits said, adding that they recognized Kenya's green military uniform and beret on some trainers while others wore plain clothes.

Salad Dahir, a tall, thin man in a tattered blue shirt, said he had traveled to the training site in the crowded, sweltering truck about a month ago. He said the Kenyan military did the training — push-ups and other calisthenics.
"Kenya military were there wearing uniforms," added Hassan.

The refugees who were interviewed asked that their last names be withheld to avoid losing their refugee status.

Salad Dahir, 26, said he deserted after a severe beating at the training site left him unconscious.

Tiny rations of dirty food, beatings and failure to pay promised salaries caused widespread desertion, recruits said. Some who tried to flee were caught and beaten, but many managed to return home through Tsavo, a vast national park filled with dangerous animals that surrounds the training camp.

At least one boy who fled at night with a group of nine others was attacked and killed by lions, Salad Dahir said. Garat, the deputy mayor, said another group of deserters was chased by elephants.

Tearful pleas for help
Some recruits called their families on phones smuggled into the camp and whispered tearful pleas for help.
"He was crying and his father was crying and then the phone cut," said Suban Abdi, a Kenyan woman whose 20-year-old son Aden Nor was recruited.

"We don't want them to go back and face the bullets that we fled," said Fatuma Mohamed, a 39-year-old Somali who kept a tight grip on her teenage son during an interview. Mohamed's younger brother has already joined.

Khadija Rageh Abdi, a Kenyan whose son was approached, is an advocate for the rights of refugee women and a favorite with visiting diplomatic delegations, but said she cannot get inside the U.N. compound to complain about the recruitments.

Fatoumata Lejeune-Kaba, a Geneva-based spokeswoman for the U.N.'s refugee agency, said it has no evidence recruitment is taking place in the camps, although it put up signs saying only civilians are allowed in after mothers complained their sons were missing.

"If it's happening, it's clearly a violation of the refugee's rights because nobody's supposed to recruit refugees," she said.

She said the agency had heard rumors of recruitment, but "we need facts."
"Sometimes refugee women say 'My son is no longer here,' but maybe the son is in Nairobi because some of them do go to Nairobi, but we have no evidence," she said.

Gen. Yusuf Ahmed Dhumal, chief of staff of Somalia's military, denied recruitment is taking place in Kenya. He said Kenya is training 1,500 Somalis recruited in Somalia as soldiers to support the Somali government. Training is also taking place in Ethiopia and Djibouti with U.S. support, he said.

One diplomat said sustainable training is urgently needed to help the beleaguered Somali government against the hard-line Islamists.
Somalia is now on its 15th government in 19 years.

"The problems of Somalia are older than my son," said Halima Aden, whose 18-year-old was taken from their hometown of Garissa. "If all the people who are working on Somalia cannot bring peace there, I do not see how my boy can help."

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