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29/04/2025

80% of divorced women are sleeping with married men, women who left their husbands because of CHEATING.

24/04/2025

If the deal bends the law in any way (it doesn't have to break it) never involve a girl.

They don't teach this in school.

24/04/2025

Get married, so that you can keep paying for boring s*x that never happens.

20/04/2025

You can be a great father and still lose your family, because in today’s world, effort means nothing if you’re a man.

You wake up early.
You go to work.
You pay the rent.
You stay loyal.
You pray for the family.

Still - you lose them.

Not because you failed but because modern fatherhood is built like a trap.

You do everything right…
and still end up wrong.

She leaves. The kids follow. The house becomes a memory.

You keep paying bills.
She keeps changing the narrative.

And if you dare raise your voice?

You’re “toxic.”
You’re “unstable.”
You’re “the reason she left.”

You paid for the piper—
but she still dictates the tune.

You followed the rules. But that’s the problem.

Because if you follow the rules, you’re not a leader. If you’re loyal, you become a simp.

You were told to protect her. So you did!

You were told to provide. So you did!

You were told to stay faithful. So you did!

And now?
You’re divorced.
You’re depressed.
You’re disposable.

The court says, “You are not the father.”

But the damage is already done.
Your heart? Shattered.
Your name? Stained.
Your wallet? Still responsible.

They call it “in the best interest of the child.”
A child she won’t even let you see...

Meanwhile, she smiles in silence.

Because she already won.

The lie worked.
The system backed her.
And society cheered her on.

You?
You’re on your fourth therapy.
And nobody clapped you for surviving.

You lose your family … and they still blame you.

“She probably warned him.”
“He chose beauty, not brains.”
“He didn’t discern well
Or maybe…
just maybe…
they married women who were experts at hiding their true nature.

Until one day - they woke up, and switched.

No warning.
No remorse.
Just “I’ve changed.”

Modern women don’t leave you for cheating.

They leave because your timeline expired.
You don't tickle their fancy and fantasy again.
You couldn’t afford the soft life package again.
So they 'cut their losses' & shoot for the streets.

You were good. But you weren’t enough.

Not rich enough.
Not fun enough.
Not trendy enough.

And now the kids are gone.
The house is quiet.
Your heart is tired.

And all you hear is:

“Real men fight for their families.”

As if you didn’t already bleed trying.

Let me be clear.

You can be a great father and still lose all.

Not because you didn’t love enough.
But because love doesn’t matter anymore.

Not if you’re a man.

Let the keypad warriors flood the comments.
Let the women say “not all of us.”
Let the deniers come swinging.

But the real men know.

They’ve lived it.
They’ve bled it.
They’ve buried it.

Say nothing and move on.

26/02/2025

In the complex tapestry of Kenyan politics, historical patterns often repeat themselves, offering valuable lessons for contemporary leaders. One such narrative involves Jaramogi Oginga Odinga, a figure who had already begun forging his own political path by the early 1990s.

As the push to oust President Moi intensified, a group of influential figures, including Paul Muite, Kenneth Matiba, and Charles Rubia, converged to discuss forming a formidable alliance with Jaramogi. This coalition aimed to challenge Moi's regime, with Jaramogi potentially leading the charge as a joint presidential candidate after constitutional reforms.

These discussions took place without Jaramogi's initial knowledge, involving other key figures like Bishop Henry Okullu and Joab Omino. When approached, Jaramogi expressed skepticism, drawing from past experiences of political betrayal, particularly the tumultuous Kikuyu-Luo alliances of the colonial and post-independence eras. Despite these reservations, he agreed to the alliance after being assured of genuine support.

However, the dynamics shifted when Matiba, while recovering abroad, was persuaded by some Mt. Kenya politicians that he could successfully challenge Moi alone. This led to a change in alliances after the introduction of multipartism, with some abandoning their commitment to Jaramogi. Muite remained steadfast in his support, but the divided opposition ultimately handed Moi another term.

Jaramogi, familiar with political betrayals, launched his own presidential bid, supported by a few Mt. Kenya politicians like Muite and Gitobu Imanyara. His passing the following year marked the end of an era.

Today, as Raila Odinga navigates the complex landscape of Kenyan politics, he would do well to heed the lessons of history.

The offer of support from figures like Gachagua should be viewed with caution, as historical patterns suggest that such alliances can be fleeting and driven by ulterior motives.

Gachagua's intentions might be more about personal vendettas than genuine support, and even if successful, such a partnership could lead to a chaotic government, mirroring the divisions seen in UDA.

The contrast between Raila's inclusive approach to political appointments and Gachagua's belief in prioritizing communities that voted for the government could further exacerbate these divisions.

15/02/2025

The sooner we realise

That we had a nightmare candidate. A jupiterian 80 year old politician with all his glory in the past, hoping to use the elevated position to repair his struggling legacy.

A president leading the campaign with his reputation as a transactional politician, attempting to use the institution as a dumping ground for a political obstacle, to ease his rule and reelection. All known by his peers in Africa.

A foreign ministry led by a land economist, politician, Insurance broker, and lately hawking his political party to the only available bidder.

Incoherent, loud, tactless, are the qualities we ended up projecting, with a tincture of entitlement.

Then the Chief announces his candidate, and follows it up with support for Israel in the war against Palestinians, losing the entire pro Palestinian vote.

This election was lost in November 2023.

23/12/2024

STUBBORN WOMEN ARE ALWAYS FAILURES!

Written by Amina Al-Harbi, social consultant

Stubborn women fail in their marriages, and even in their relationships with relatives.

Women who lack emotional intelligence and flexibility in dealing with people around them, are the biggest failures in their marriages and their lives. Why?

She enters into an egoistic tug of war with her husband, and prefers the voice of her ego to try to overcome him, and in fact she fails before the ego of her husband and the ego of those who are around her, because men become more stubborn in front of a stubborn wife and stubborn sister, and they become more gentle in front of a submissive woman.

A headstrong woman thinks that she can win while insisting on her opinion, and she can stand in front of any opposition. She forgets that even if she wins by her obstinacy in her opinion and stand, she loses the heart that was loving her and caring for her.

Many narrations and wise proverbs in all the cultures have praised an easy-going, soft, friendly, patient and enduring woman. Even the Messenger (peace and blessings be on him) and the Companions after him, recommended and praised a woman who respects her husband and speaks with softness and wisdom, and in turn he will love her and never leave her.

The woman who will obey her husband and stoop to let the storm pass; she is the wise, rational woman who thrives, and holds the family together. The woman who stands like an unyielding dry stick is the one who breaks, suffering irreparable damage.

The uncompromising woman clings to her opinion. She tries to constantly perpetuate the illusion of her victory: I win and you lose, I am right and you are wrong. Such a woman destroys herself before destroying others. And she lives a life of sorrowful despondency in this world and the hereafter.

From my experiences in marital counseling, I found that mulish women end up in divorce. And bitterly fail in their family and social life. The even end up destroying her own father family and his siblings'

The advice of a bedouin Arab woman to her daughter on the day of her marriage, is considered by all the successful women the best advice for a woman. She said:
"Be his slave......and surely he becomes your imminent slave".
"Men are kind, generous and benevolent, but a stubborn, foolish woman turns them into enemies."

Finally I quote a wise Sheikh (may God have mercy on him):

I was a civil court judge for 27 years.........and I found that most of the divorce incidents are caused by the anger of a man, and by the foolish responses of a woman.

In other words, the stubbornness of a woman makes a man ten times more stubborn than her.

Translated by Sheikh Abdus Salam al-Madani Founder, Aspire College of Excellence.

Well, in these days of feminism and female affirmative action, l find that the perceptions young women have about what should be their relationship with their spouses is seriously blighted by ego and impatience.

They are not willing to work on their inherent flaws and feel the man should be the one to adjust to their own idiosyncrasies.

I personally think the above tips works and any woman who wants to make a success of her marriage will do well to follow them.

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22/11/2024

My friend ondari entered into a business deal that would end up selling his entire family's right of way and access to omena from the lake in the clan's beach property to Jasuba.

Ondari, the clan elder further had contracted Jasuba to exclusively supply kerosene and lanterns to the entire village.

The whole family including his prayer warrior wife pleaded with him not to sell their right of way in the beach property and advised him on how wrong the exlusive rights to supply power and liggt to the village was ill advised. Through his friends and new bossom friend Baba Fiddy who wants to join the council of toothless elders, they had a spirited campaign towards defending the deal.

Yesterday, through the village crier Ekerambauti, the area Chief who doubles up as a shylock in the village then announced thay the buyer of the beach property had defrauded him and other money lenders, soon after, the Chief's militia, "abayuti" detained sheep, goats and cows that Ondari and his friends had hidden in their sister inlaw's place - allegedly because the animals were bought with moneys received from Jasuba.

Quickly, Ondari in his speech in the family annual meeting declared to have revoked and suspended all dealings on the Beach Property and right of way with Jasuba he further revoked the exclusive rights given to jasuba to supply kerosene and lanterns to the village.

26/10/2024

"Nkoega ngochia!" Local man has a fixture immediately after prosecuting the case in favour of Murima.

11/10/2024

The priest decided to do the Lord's work. The fear is gone.

02/09/2024

You left your husband because he was cheating.

You have a kid or two.

So you divorced because you were so pained.

You left.

With the kids.

You started working hard to cater for your needs. You work so hard, but it isn't enough.

To meet up with the growing economic demands, you find a wealthy man. He is rich. You dont care. You need to pay fees for your kids as a strong, independent woman. You need to prove that it can be done. So you're dating a wealthy married man.
You are now a side chic.

Then, you begin to think of the side chics your husband has and why he has them.

You do not even question the morality. You begin to understand why. Maybe they've got kids too. Mouths to feed, life to live.

It doesn't make sense still.

So you call the married man when he is home, and he hides to shout at you for wanting to disturb his peace with his "wife" as you ought to know when he is home.

You think of your hurts.

You think of your consolation.

At least you had a husband who was fully yours. He cheats, but he was fully yours.

So you attempt to find out what is going on with him now, but he is married again to a younger woman.

After you make contact, he comes to visit you and the kids. He drops some money once a while. The new wife is in charge now...

You connect on old times. You even had s*x.

He leaves to his house to his wife. You're now dating two married men. Both of them are cheating on their wives.

And then you say life wasn't fair to you.

As bad as this may sound, it happens. It is the reality of our time.

Wise people learn from the mistakes of others.

Don't leave ur peaceful abode (marriage) because he cheats.

It rains every where.


Remember Love is beautiful 🌹

Ladies, a moment!
Juu Wueeh...
Nimeona the rate at which watu wanajitoa kwa ndoa tumesahau Hio msemo ya for better for worse...hehe

Men, I will soon address you through your chairman.😂
It's life anyway!!.
Blessed Sunday🙏🏼

24/08/2024

There was a time when Safaricom was disrupting the economy and revolutionalizing what we do and how we do it. If Safaricom stops innovating and turns to government protection and gatekeeping, our Unicorn will follow Ericson, Kodak, Blackberry and Philips.

It is worth noting that Kencel (now airtel) was once dominant and the mainstream telco in Kenya. They sat in comfort while Safaricom was innovating, they are now comfortably sitting at "Sim 2"

Starlink is here, instead of seeking protection, why not beat starlink or arrange for Starlink to be beaten!

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