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Reiger Park Bulletin This is the Official page of the Reiger Park Bulletin. A community news platform/channel aimed at i Email address: [email protected]

It has become known to most living in communities such as Reiger Park, Windmill Park and other similar areas that mainstream media hardly notice or report on the positives growing from them. It is therefore important for alternative media that can provide a platform for the achievements from such communities to be highlighted in order to create awareness and build better communities. The Reiger Pa

rk Bulletin was established in 2014 with the aim of creating such platform; where positive news can be shared about mostly marginalized and misrepresented communities. But also where information and news can be disseminated quicker, easier and more effective. This all to inspire and motivate people to strive for greatness. It should also be noted that the Reiger Park Bulletin is an independent communication platform.

"A YOUNG LADY WITH ROOTS IN REIGER PARK" - OBTAINING HER DOCTORATE DEGREEBorn and raised her pre-school years in Reiger ...
15/12/2025

"A YOUNG LADY WITH ROOTS IN REIGER PARK" - OBTAINING HER DOCTORATE DEGREE

Born and raised her pre-school years in Reiger Park and Parkrand, Boksburg, she moved to the Western Cape Province with her mother and siblings.

There she completed her schooling career.

A hard working and dedicated learner, who always strived for top academic awards.

This dedication and hard work she carried along with her into her tertiary education at the University of Western Cape (UWC).

She completed her Bachelor of Arts in Geography and Environmental Studies at 21 years old, followed by her Bachelor of Science Honour's in Population Studies at 22 years old.

Her Master's in Population Studies was completed in 2022 at the age of 23.

And in 2025, at the age of 26, Robynne Abrams Graduated with a PhD in Population Studies which explored The Demographic aspects of Women with Disabilities and access to healthcare facilities in South Africa: a comparative study between 2013 and 2018.

So we introduce to you Dr Robynne Abrams (PhD), a young lady with roots in Reiger Park.

(Pictures supplied: 1. Dr Robynne Abrams; 2. (left) Prof David Holgate - Dean of Natural Science Faculty, (centre) Dr Robynne Abrams; (right) Dr Philomene Nsengiyumva - Thesis Supervisor)

MEALS ON WHEELS AND LUNCHEON CLUB CHRISTMAS FUNCTIONSVanessa Smithwick shared with Lionel Landsberg that she has been ru...
12/12/2025

MEALS ON WHEELS AND LUNCHEON CLUB CHRISTMAS FUNCTIONS

Vanessa Smithwick shared with Lionel Landsberg that she has been running the Meals on Wheels programme in Reiger Park for the past 47 years.

It is clear, however, that the flame for the people and especially those in need has not gone out and she seem to do it more passionately than ever before.

The Meals on Wheels programme serves thousands of meals to those in need throughout the year.

Over the years, with a decline in economic stability, the numbers of those in need of their support increased – this even though sponsorship for the programme declined.

But continue they do as long as the need is there.

Their annual Christmas function attempts to accommodate the kiddies more; hoping to bring some Christmas joy to a few kiddies.

This year the Christmas function for the kiddies was hosted on Wednesday 10 December.

On the day, they could make the festive period of at least 200 children a little bit more pleasurable, with a little something to eat and a Christmas goodies bag.

This year, support/sponsor for the goodies bags came from the Lionel Landsberg Foundation.

This collaboration to serve the community is what is needed to bring change.

LUNCHEON CLUB FUNCTION

The Luncheon Club (Golden Oldies) comprises of a group of mostly retired ladies who meet for activities, outings and socialising.

The programme was initially to help some Golden Oldies have a social support system to navigate and enjoy their new journey of retired life and sometimes widowed life, but it grew into a family, a social network, a sisterhood.

Also started through the involvement of Meals on Wheels in the community who identified a need for retired ladies to still live purposeful lives.

The Luncheon Club ladies also celebrated their closing with a Christmas function on Tuesday 9 December.

YOUR SUPPORT:

You can lend your support by donating/sponsoring to the Meals on Wheels programme: details on last picture.

(Pictures supplied: 1. Santa’s helpers at the Meals on Wheels function; 2. Luncheon Club ladies; 3. Lionel Landsberg Foundation goodies bags handover; and more pics of the functions)

TRIBUTE TO CLIVE "SCRIMA" CHIPITURAby Sydney ChipituraReiger Park consistently produces quality individuals and successf...
11/12/2025

TRIBUTE TO CLIVE "SCRIMA" CHIPITURA
by Sydney Chipitura

Reiger Park consistently produces quality individuals and successful sporting icons.

Notable examples include Bernard Parker, Shandrè Campbell, Liezel Klassen, Hewitt Classens, Ronald 'Chico' Lawrence, Augustin 'Gusty' Leonard, and Wayne 'Madala' Matle.

Reiger Park has a proven track record of producing sporting icons. We were fortunate to have had Clive 'Scrima' Chipitura, affectionately known as 'Coach' within the soccer fraternity.

Scrima was born on November 5, 1970, in Boksburg. He attended Drommedaris Primary School and Oos Rand High School. His soccer career began with Boksburg Guild in the 1980s, alongside Chairman and Father's Mr. Goff Kemp and Mr. Donald 'Didi' Frazer, as well as Club Chairman Mr. John Beans.

He progressed through the junior structures to the senior structure, remaining with Boksburg Guild F.C. until 2013. Scrima then joined Samba Boys F.C. in 2013. We achieved promotion in 2022 with him by our side. Scrima dedicated himself to the youngsters every Saturday from 7 am to 4 pm.

We would like to extend our gratitude to his fellow coaches for their fierce competition and to the community for their unwavering support, as well as to the soccer parents during his tenure with us.

We also appreciate the trust placed in him by BcFA and Safa Ekurhuleni to lead regional teams on occasion. Sadly, Clive Scrima passed away due to a short illness at O.R. Tambo Memorial Hospital. Scrima coached numerous teams and players in his free time, employing his unique coaching style and methods, which proved effective.

He is survived by seven siblings, consisting of four brothers and three sisters, his lifelong partner Ida Isaacks, and their three children. May Coach Scrima's soul rest in peace.

THE YEAR THAT SHAPED US - A TRIBUTE FROM 12G - TECH (Segment 2)by Le-Showlin Le RouxAs the final bell rings for the grad...
08/12/2025

THE YEAR THAT SHAPED US - A TRIBUTE FROM 12G - TECH (Segment 2)
by Le-Showlin Le Roux

As the final bell rings for the graduating class of 12G, the echo of its chime seems to carry more than just a signal — it carries a flood of memories that will stay with us long after we step out of the school gates.

We entered this year as a group of individuals, but we leave it as a tight‑knit family, bound together by countless moments of laughter, tears, late‑night study sessions, and the occasional “please settle down” from the teachers who cared enough to push us.

From the very first week we learned that 12G was more than a label; it was a promise. We promised to stand together through thick and thin, to lift each other up when the workload felt impossible, and to celebrate every small victory as if it were a championship win.

The hallway walls witnessed our jokes, our whispered worries, and the occasional group huddle when a test result didn’t go our way. We shared the sadness of the disappointment of a missed opportunity. Each of those experiences stitched us closer, turning strangers into confidants and classmates into lifelong friends.

A special mention must go to Mr Swarts, whose scolding became a familiar soundtrack in our lives. While his voice could be heard echoing down the corridor, warning us about deadlines and behaviour, we soon realised that his tough love was the very thing that kept us on the right track.

He was there through thick and thin, reminding us that discipline is a form of care, and that a little reprimand can be the catalyst for great achievement. Thank you, Mr Swarts, for never letting us settle for anything less than our best.

Our adventures didn’t stop at the classroom doors. The school workshop became our second home, a place where we discovered the thrill of building, creating and, most importantly, laughing together. Whether we were covered in steel shredding from a steelwork project or spending time and often playing football in our free time behind the workshop walls, those moments reminded us that learning can be hands‑on and wildly fun.

We also survived and thrived in cross‑night classes, those marathon sessions that stretched from dusk until the early hours of the morning, where we bonded, shared notes and promised each other that we would make it to graduation.

Technical Mathematics, for many of us, was once a dreaded subject, but our maths teachers turned equations into stories. Their anecdotes about real‑world applications, their patience with our endless “why” questions, and their unwavering belief in our abilities, turned confusion into confidence.

We were especially fortunate to have the best Technical Mathematics teacher, Mrs Khubeka, whose passion for numbers was infectious. Her lessons were never just about solving problems; they were about solving puzzles of life, and she taught us to approach every challenge with curiosity and perseverance.

Equally unforgettable was Ms Mdluli, our Technical Science teacher. Her enthusiasm for experiments, her encouragement to ask “what if” and her dedication to ensuring we understood every concept, made the complexities of science feel accessible and exciting.

She treated us as her own children. She always used to tell us we must work hard so that we could buy her a BMW 123i.

As we prepare to turn the page on this chapter, we carry with us the lessons learned in every classroom, the friendships forged in every corridor and the memories created in places we never imagined we would cherish.

We have encouraged each other to keep going, to finish strong, and to step into the next chapter with confidence, knowing that the support of 12G will always be just a phone call away.

To the teachers who challenged us, the friends who lifted us, and the moments that shaped us, thank you. Here’s to the class that proved we’ll always have each other’s backs, no matter where life takes us.

The 12G Class of 2025 (Reiger Park Secondary – Tech)

(Third and final segment to follow soon...)

(Pictures supplied: 12G Reiger Park Secondary class of 2025)

REIGER PARK BOXING ACADEMY'S 25TH BIRTHDAYHISTORY INTRO:In 2000 Coach Neville Booysen started the Reiger Park Boxing Aca...
05/12/2025

REIGER PARK BOXING ACADEMY'S 25TH BIRTHDAY

HISTORY INTRO:

In 2000 Coach Neville Booysen started the Reiger Park Boxing Academy.

He was later joined by the late Don Harris and J***y Muller.

Dan Jacobs also later joined the academy and helped manage the club for a period.

In recent years, Alistair Kivido joined the academy as an assistant coach and Trevor Reeby started taking an active role in assisting in the growth of the academy.

ACHIEVEMENTS:

The academy produced it's first national champion in 2004 when Denzel Morris took the title in his weight category.

The next national title would however come 19 years later through Joshua Klein in 2023.

2025 was a good year for the academy, with Theo-Maine Fourie finished second, winning silver at the national championships in his weight category and Junior Mamba won gold and became national champion in his weight category.

Junior also took gold at the SANABO trials and made the national team, touring Angola and Seychelles during the year as part of the national team.

The academy also produced Ekurhuleni and Gauteng champs; the likes of Dillon Morris and Irwin Flagg.

Irwin Flagg went unbeaten in his first 19 fights.

Joshua Klein also won the Gauteng championship in his weight category numerous times.

Coach Neville shared how the academy also had it’s fair share of trials, saying that at some stage it had only one boxer training with the academy for a whole year.

That boxer, Keanu Koopman, would go on to win the amateur national title and later turn pro and under the Brian Mitchell brand, become and is the current South African Welterweight champion.

His older brother, Shervantaigh Koopman, multiple South African champion also had a brief spell at the academy when he started out his boxing career.

THE EVENT:

The 25 year celebration and awards ceremony was hosted at the East Side Boxing on Sunday 30 November.

BOXING AND LIFE:

Some of the current and former Reiger Park Boxing Academy boxers shared their views and experiences at the academy, but especially about Coach Neville:

A shared sentiment among the boxers is that Coach Neville to them is more than a coach, his role overlaps into that of a second father, mentor and guardian.

The academy – it was shared by some – could be seen as what saved them from the negatives the streets have to offer.

Irwin Flagg shared how Coach Neville through the academy instilled a sense of discipline, dedication and dignity within the boxers. He said that they were not only trained in boxing, but in life and how to approach, face and survive life.

It is through involvement in Boxing at the academy that Theo-Maine was the recipient of the first Dingaan Thobela bursary by Golden Gloves, in 2024, to study a National Certificate in Sports Management.

Theo-Maine finished his first year in 2025.

FUNDING:

Coach Neville shared how the academy receives no funding and what must be done comes out of the coach’s pocket.

He, therefore, expressed his gratitude for the support extended by some individuals, who made it possible for the boxers to make it to trials and to the national championships when boxers had to cover their own transport and accommodation costs.

Individuals assisting were: Arthur Bridger, Martin Bridger, Jacky van Staade, Alistair Shapiro, Terence Foster, the Mamba family, Rodney “Oubaas”.

SOCIAL MEDIA:

The academy also started their own social media presence on Facebook, hoping to give the academy and boxers a greater chance of exposure and celebrate their hard work and dedication.

You can follow the academy here:
https://www.facebook.com/share/17YujoHSzW/

(Pictures: boxers, coaches and attendees of the 25 th celebration and awards event)

PRAY AND SUPPORT – REIGER PARK PRAYER WALK“14 What does it profit, my brethren, if someone says he has faith but does no...
02/12/2025

PRAY AND SUPPORT – REIGER PARK PRAYER WALK

“14 What does it profit, my brethren, if someone says he has faith but does not have works? Can faith save him? 15 If a brother or sister is naked and destitute of daily food, 16 and one of you says to them, “Depart in peace, be warmed and filled,” but you do not give them the things which are needed for the body, what does it profit? 17 Thus also faith by itself, if it does not have works, is dead.” (James 2:14-17)

In the spirit of the above scripture the following becomes almost a calling:

THE CALL:

As many of you know, the organisation called EMS Chaplaincy and Trauma Support serves Reiger Park. With the heart-breaking rise of killings within our community, we have felt led to take a stand for peace, healing, reconciliation and greater support.

But part of any reconciliation process is to approach God and therefore we decided to host a Prayer Walk to declare God’s peace over Reiger Park.

ENTRANCE FEE:

But as the scripture above also points, action is also important and therefore we ask an entrance fee, so that certain actions (as laid out below) can be taken:

Entrance fee: R50 per person

APPLICATION OF FUNDS:

R20 will go towards buying school shoes for children in need.

The remaining amount will help train our members in grief counselling, so we can better support families during times of trauma.

Our humble plea to family, friends and communities at large:
Please consider buying a ticket or making a donation? By doing so, you become part of restoring hope and making Reiger Park great again.

PAYMENT:

You’re welcome to contact the number below directly, or you can make a payment into the account provided, using the below reference:

Reference:
EMS RP District

Bank: FNB
Account number:
626 170 291 12
Please forward the proof of payment to
078 452 7649

Thank you for standing with us. God bless you!

THE YEAR THAT SHAPED US – TECH  CLASS 12 G (segment 1)The Reiger Park Bulletin read a tribute by a Reiger Park Secondary...
01/12/2025

THE YEAR THAT SHAPED US – TECH CLASS 12 G (segment 1)

The Reiger Park Bulletin read a tribute by a Reiger Park Secondary School (Tech) Grade 12 learner and decided we want to publish it, but then other classmates also made contributions.

At first we were going to take snippets of each and publish it as one piece, but then decided: “let the youngsters speak, let them share their year with us. We never really hear from them.”

So below is the first of three segments or contributions and although a bit lengthy, we encourage you to read it and share in their year – it is worth the read:

(We decided to make the Title – “The year that shaped us" – from one contributor's piece, also the title of this three part series.)

by Tatum Myburg

“I remember the first day of school [Grade 12] like it was yesterday, we were all so excited about it being our last year of school. The joy in everyone's eyes was epic. We all made a promise to each other that we will make this the best year ever and that no matter what we go through we are gonna face it as a class and that was exactly what we did

“Our class wasn't the most liked at our school, but no matter what they labelled us as, we never allowed that to define us. All those labels just made us stronger and more determined to prove them all wrong .

“We shared so many memories as a class: the fun ones, the stressful ones and also the painful ones. We never gave up even when life was tough, even when we lost our classmates, we got through it together as a family - it was hard but we got through it .

“Each one of them brought something special to this year. The classroom was filled with joy, happiness and determination, but mostly chaos and jokes that made every struggle in class feel like a stepping stone and that we can overcome.

“Our teachers were of our best supporters this year, holding our hands every step of the way. Showing us how much potential each one of us had when we thought we were not good enough and when we wanted to give up hope reminding us of Philippines 4:13.

“We couldn't have done it without Mr Gabin, who showed us that hard work and dedication is key in life and no matter what life throws at you, you got this. We could all count on him when we needed help.

“We gave him a really hard time, but he never gave up on us, he helped us in every way he could. He gave us all the equipment we needed in the work and took his time to make sure each one of us understood.

“The cross nights were one of the best things we did. The workshop was one of the best places to be with him. Him scolding us was a reminder that we can accomplish great things in life if we stayed focused and the love he had for us .

“Our Technical science teacher, Mrs Mdluli, was also one of the best.

“Mrs Mdluli made sure that each one of us went home understanding what we did in class . She was like our second mother, crying with us, celebrating our achievement - even the little ones. She showed us love, helped us fight our unseen battles, she cried with us when our hearts were heavy with things we couldn't say out loud, always giving us the love and support that we needed. Though it might not seem like a grand gesture it meant the world to us, because she gave it without any hesitation.

“Technical mathematics wasn't our strong point, but we had the best teacher we can ever ask for - Mrs Kubeka . She was the best maths teacher at the school, making sure that no equation could defeat us; making them seem like building blocks, sharing the best story and life lessons in class.

“She told us that you will never truly know what someone is going through but that we do know what warmth, softness and understanding is and it's never wasted. The unwavering support and help she gave was remarkable and we will always be grateful for having her in our lives. The scolding she gave us was a reminder of the love she had for us and that she only wanted what was best for us.

“Our class teacher, Mr Swartz, was a star, always making random jokes and conversation that made us realise how blessed we are for getting the opportunity to come to school every day and learn. He instilled in us the confidence we needed to get through every day; walk with our heads high, believing in ourselves and aiming high.

“He also reminded us of Jeremiah 29:11 and Deuteronomy 31:8; that ‘the Lord himself will lead you and will be with you. He will not fail you or abandon you. So do not lose courage or be afraid.’

“And as we now go our separate ways, I hope we all carry the confidence to chase our dreams we've been holding onto and unlock all that potential we have – potential that is more than any of us realise – and that great things are waiting ahead for each one of us .

“I wish that our future be filled with opportunity, growth, happiness and blessings. That we should keep aiming high, keep believing in ourselves and not be afraid to take chances. And no matter how far we go, I hope we still look back to this year as one of our great memories

“Thank you 12G for everything, and I wish you all the absolute best in the future. So let's go out there and make our dreams a reality.”

(The second segment tomorrow...)

(Pictures supplied: Grade 12 G Reiger Park Secondary School)

CELEBRATE AND SUPPORT – OOSRANDIt is often easy to overlook, forget or totally be oblivious to the accomplishments and s...
28/11/2025

CELEBRATE AND SUPPORT – OOSRAND

It is often easy to overlook, forget or totally be oblivious to the accomplishments and strides made by structures, institutions, etc, within your community when a light is mostly shined onto any and all negatives.

In a recent visit to Oosrand SE SOS, Principal Arendse took us for a quick walkabout, to show the strides made since they became a school of specialisation.

We, however, agreed that the Reiger Park Bulletin will soon do a live walkabout to showcase the work being done and strides made to improve and realign the educational programmes to benefit the learners and communities they are from.

With the focus on entrepreneurship, workplace ready and agri-economy development, online development and so much more, the school is truly becoming a beacon of hope.

All this will be shared when we visit the school for a live walkabout – if not during this year – considering exams and marking and stats the school is busy with – then early next year.

Principal Arendse, however, stopped at two accolades in the office block, next to which he posed for pictures:

The trophies of the Grade 10 and 11 learners who won first in Gauteng and third nationally for the environmentally friendly ink they produced.

We reported on this story earlier this year in this article: https://www.facebook.com/share/p/1Bps3SaEJr/

He also stopped at the trophies of the U17 and U19 soccer league champs.

Below also a statement from the school regarding the achievements of these learner athletes:

“Coach Mashinini worked very hard to ensure Oosrand learners win the league champs in honour of the late Mr Ford, who always encouraged Sports at our school.”

SUPPORT

With all the strides made by the learners, educators and school management, there is still a need from the extended school community and community at large to support the school in kind or financially.

With the school holidays coming up, communities can be of great support to ensure school are fully secured and safeguarded and help prevent vandalism and other forms of security setbacks.

Although the school makes provision in as far as budgets allow, community support in safeguarding it's treasures, such as schools is critical for current and future generations to continue benefiting.

(Pictures: Principal Arendse next to trophies innovators' and league trophies; U17 an U19 league champs)

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27/11/2025

NOTICE OF DEATH - REST IN PEACE
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*Our sincere condolences to family, friends and loved ones with the passing of your beloved.

PLEASE NOTE!
It might be that more people passed away than we report on, but unfortunately the Reiger Park Bulletin can only report on those deaths of which we have been informed.

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THE LIONEL LANDSBERG FOUNDATION CHRISTMAS OUTREACH NEEDS YOUR HELPWeekly, the Lionel Landsberg Foundation reaches out, a...
25/11/2025

THE LIONEL LANDSBERG FOUNDATION CHRISTMAS OUTREACH NEEDS YOUR HELP

Weekly, the Lionel Landsberg Foundation reaches out, and with the generous help of loving, caring and good hearted donors is able to at least serve portions of the community meals for a day.

There are also other outreach initiatives, when the need is great and the foundation is able at that time, that they assists with.

Through the foundation, others seeking a way to reach out and help now also have a partner:

One such outreach collaboration was recently when Rayleen Murphy Roth; for her 40th birthday celebration; joined the foundation at one of their feeding days to put a smile on the faces and in the hearts of a number of children with goodie bags – blessing a child in gratitude of the blessing of celebrating a milestone birthday.

And this is also one of the Lionel Landsberg Foundation’s passions, not only helping to fill the tummy, but putting a smile and joy in the hearts and on the faces of the children.

CHILDREN AND FAMILY CHRISTMAS OUTREACH NEEDS:

In making the festive season special for the children the foundation's annual day of spoiling the kiddies with something nice will take place on 20 December.

The Christmas day lunch, will happen on Christmas day, 25 December.

To make this day special and sufficient, the foundation needs your HELP with the below items (and more if you can):

THE LIST:

- Sweets
- Biscuits
- cold drinks(330ml)
- juices
- “Simba” chips (small packs)
- non perishable food stuff
- chicken & vegetables (for the Christmas day feeding)

To make your generous contribution, you can contact +27 73 450 2294 (Call or WhatsApp).

2 Corinthians 8:14 (New American Standard Bible)
"...at this present time your abundance will serve as assistance for their need, so that their abundance also may serve as assistance for your need, so that there may be equality; ..."

(Pictures supplied: past Lionel Landsberg Foundation feeding days; Rayleen and her family)

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20/11/2025

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*Our sincere condolences to family, friends and loved ones with the passing of your beloved.

PLEASE NOTE!
It might be that more people passed away than we report on, but unfortunately the Reiger Park Bulletin can only report on those deaths of which we have been informed.

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THE LONELIEST ROAD EVER WALKED – MY GRIEF JOURNEYIt is often only when tragedy strikes or a prominent figure in society ...
17/11/2025

THE LONELIEST ROAD EVER WALKED – MY GRIEF JOURNEY

It is often only when tragedy strikes or a prominent figure in society dies when the sense of loss, sadness, grief, loneliness, etc, is jointly realised.

And in a society where life quickly moves on to the next highlight, those mourning are often forgotten or expected to easily forget their grief.

The Reiger Park Bulletin noticed this “grief journey" WhatsApp status placed by Annita Cochrane, the widow of the recently departed Pastor/Teacher Cochrane and asked permission to share it in the hope that some might find some solace through it in their own journey and others might learn from it:

“Today marks 8 months that you crossed over.

“Losing my Tweety, love of my life was like stepping into a new world. One where time doesn't heal all wounds. It just taught me how to carry it differently.

“I will feel that loss for as long as I live. Long after the funeral was over and the last words of condolence were spoken.

“When the funeral ended… something else began.

“It's one of the loneliest roads I'd ever walked.

“People are there for you at first. They bring casseroles (because food is love, right?), they cry with you, they listen to your stories of your loved one who's gone.

“But then … life calls them back.

“It's not because they don't care; they simply have their own lives to live.

“After the funeral, the crowd thins, and suddenly I found myself surrounded by silence and realised the ones who disappeared weren't strangers at all. They have known us as part of a couple, or ‘as the other parents' or just part of the family unit.

“But now, with my tweety who died, the dynamic has changed. Suddenly they don't know how to act around me anymore. And that confusion makes them walk away and avoid me.

“There's also the misconception that if I appear okay, I must be okay.

“People see me functioning, getting through the day, maybe even laughing a little and assume I'm over it. If only they knew that the quiet moments alone, the ones without witnesses, the meltdowns, is where the real struggle lives on.

“Here's the thing: I might be holding it together on the outside, but on the inside I'm falling apart.

“That's when grief sneaks in. In the quiet, ordinary moments, when a song, a smell, or a forgotten object sends me reeling back to the pain I thought had settled.

“Tweety, I miss the way you made me feel whole. Life feels broken without you, but I carry your memory like a flame that never fades.

“So I'm walking this road alone, in my loneliness. I see it, feel it and understand it. It's my grief journey.

“Love made me a wife;
Loss made me a widow;
Life made me a warrior;
I am a Warrior Widow.”

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