21/09/2025
Another year older, hopefully a little wiser. So hereās what Iām holding onto at 31.
Life really does fly. The days may drag, but the years? They race by. One blink and youāre in your 30s. Slow down. Be present. Find beauty in the small moments and donāt rush through your life.
Choose people who choose you and foster those relationships.
God isnāt silent. He speaks, and you can hear Him. When you lean in and seek Him, His voice brings clarity. Honestly? Thatās the real cheat code to adulting.
Donāt compete with others. Complete with yourself.
Take care of yourself. Body, mind, and soul. Eat well, rest deeply, protect your peace, and keep everything in alignment.
Stop sharing your future plans.
Vulnerability is strength when shared wisely. Sometimes, just letting words leave your chest lightens the load.
If the call wasnāt meant for you, you wouldnāt have received the message.
ALWAYS CHOOSE KINDNESS. Whether itās a word, a compliment, encouragement, or even just making someone laugh. Everyone is fighting a battle you canāt see.
ALWAYS TRUST YOUR GUT!
Donāt see yourself through a dim lens. The way you view yourself is often how others treat you. Walk in your worth, the way God sees you: with value, intention, and purpose.
Saying ānoā is a form of self care
Invest in yourself! Sign up for that class, watch YouTube, get a coach or whatever helps you connect the dots of your life and create wisdom for the future.
SAVE rather than spend.
Energy comes back around. Karma is real. Move with pure intentions, always.
Above all, donāt do life without God. Heās not just for your highs. Heās with you in the lows too, waiting for you to lean in.
And finally, your mind is your greatest battlefield. Invest in it, challenge it, renew it. Because when your mindset shifts, everything else follows.
Hereās to Chapter 31 š„