10/07/2025
*RAISING A CHILD WITHOUT RULES IS RAISING A DISASTER*
(Why freedom withoutGG boundaries is destroying today’s kids)
Let’s stop lying to ourselves:
Children don’t need too much freedom — they need firm direction.
You think you're giving them "space to express themselves"?
But what you're really doing is giving them a fast-lane ticket…
To self-destruction.
A child without boundaries will test everything.
They’ll test time.
They’ll test truth.
They’ll test how far they can go — until something breaks.
And when there are no rules, no “NOs,” no clear lines drawn…
They don’t become confident. They become confused.
You’re not helping their self-esteem.
You’re raising someone who won’t respect law, leadership, or life.
Parents, wake up:
It’s not “modern parenting” to allow your 12-year-old do what they like.
It’s not “freedom” to let your 15-year-old lock their door 24/7 and live like a tenant.
It’s not “trust” to hand them a phone, laptop, and data without supervision.
That’s not love. That’s neglect with WiFi.
Look around you:
Kids cursing their parents online.
Teenagers dressing like st*****rs and calling it “fashion.”
Boys addicted to p**n and calling it “freedom of expression.”
Girls posting half-naked pictures with captions like “God’s masterpiece.”
Young boys who can’t say “yes sir” or “no ma” because they were “raised to speak their minds.”
What’s the result?
A generation that wants respect but knows nothing about discipline.
Let’s be clear:
Boundaries don’t destroy children — they build them.
Rules don’t limit children — they shape them.
Discipline is not wickedness — it’s protection.
Correction is not abuse — it’s love in motion.
A child who grows up without consequences becomes an adult who disrespects everything — including God, law, and you.
Many of you are afraid to say “NO” because you want to be liked.
But parenting is not about popularity.
Your job is not to be their best friend.
Your job is to raise a man, to mold a woman, to train a future leader.
And yes, it will involve:
Saying no.
Checking phones.
Cutting off bad friends.
Seizing devices.
Setting curfews.
And making tough decisions that your child will not like — but will thank you for later.
Don’t wait till damage is done:
Don’t wait until the police call you.
Don’t wait until you’re dragged to a hospital.
Don’t wait until you’re kneeling in church, crying, “Where did I go wrong?”
The time to guide is now. The time to lead is now.
Final Word:
Give your child structure, not just softness.
Give them discipline, not just data.
Give them correction, not just comfort.
Because no matter how sweet your child is,
freedom without rules will turn even an angel into a problem. ✌️. fans ゚
